Comments by MandyMonroe

Run a couple miles without stopping and then tell me it takes less than 2 minutes to peel your underwear off your body soaked with seat and then baby wipes every where you can reach. And then blow dry. Then new outfit matching heels a little spray. A little hair maneuver, make up check and then to hopefully find a guy with a voice that Carries so I can get the bartender’s attention for a beer. Usually takes 5 min but I don’t wear makeup and I have 17 yr of experience. We are not all born quick change artists. And some of these strapped outfits come with no instruction and it sometimes takes a group effort to get it on right.

Really common. Dancers only go to work when they need money. She must have made enough to take a vacation. I did so well in Phoenix that I went to Vegas on 4day vacations 5 in 3 months.

Most of the money finds it’s way to the girl on stage. Tables might put it in a pile for her when she does her tip walk and if she doesn’t do a walk they leave it for the bartender tip in most cases. People aren’t like that anymore. But if you in customers personal space when you throw it in their face you can expect a problem.

They are playing a character and part of that character is always available. All are single even if their real life wife is the other girl in the dance with you. She said she was single too. “The only man I need in my life is god” is how I put it. And some guys are afraid that dancer ol’ man gonna beat the crap out of them when they step out the dance.

No it is more likely they will forget you ever came in.

Wow how lap dances have changed. In the beginning you could buy a dance by the song or a 1hr VIP that came with a bottle of champagne. The price of the room was based on that bottle and was a symbol of status so you could look cool in front of your friends. If it was one song the girl was to dance continuously for the full 4 minutes with no more than 3 seconds of grinding at a time, no touching (some sit on their hands) and the hour was quality time to get to know a dancer and it was up to the girl if you could touch her arms and back no below the waste no nipples or licking. And you could then negotiate a price like $20 to dance to this song while in the hour. Dancer must keep bare vagina no less than 6” away from the customers face at all times. These are original dancer rules. If a customer gets out of hand a girl was to grab her things and walk out no refunds even if you were only in the room 5 min of the hour and you licked her nipple. Hookers would hand out info for appointments and door hoes will suck you for enough for a fix and not care about the charges she gets from the video footage that high end clubs would submit to the police. Yes bar owners call the cops and report a girl for prostitution and when she comes out of her dance the cops are already there. Now it is all about the law of the state. In Wisconsin no two open prophesies may have contact like mouth and nipple and contact below the waist. So technically touching a dancers knee is prostitution in Wisconsin lol. But these are dancer rules and hookers have rules of their own too like pay first and no kissing etc. I have worked everywhere from Vegas to Miami the past 17 years and I had no problem with customers understanding what I offer and what the next one did. Shit he could walk up to me and say “ looking for a red heat that wants to go to “breakfast after work” and I got $50 just for telling the girl that offered that who he was. Only easy part of my job. My average work day consists of 5x(20 minute workouts) and about 10 (4minute dances) in a 5 hr shift. Serious cardio

FYI real porn stars have strict contract that the studio says what days she is allowed to have sex and her sex partners are tested regularly and must be pre approved or they will sue her for more than they paid her so if you are getting a porn star escort she is probably retired or fired for having an std that is not curable like aids or HPV. Escorts outside the state of Nevada are not regulated so probably not tested and run high risk of std as does tinder. It is your life get what makes you happy. She probably didn’t know how to tell you that real porn stars are not escorts and if an escort tells you she is a porn star that is the lie and manipulation you were looking for.

I still dance at the same bar I started at 17 years ago in Wisconsin. Dancers are considered veterans of the sport after 5 years. Most athletes retire around 30 not just strippers. Talent has gone down in Wisconsin the 7 years because the laws changed so clubs can’t tell us what to do anymore so no one is getting trained like they use to. War in Ukraine has affected my money more than the housing market burst of 08’ and Covid combined. Most girls I worked with work 3-7 years. Weight is not a factor it is body fat. Some clubs require 30% body fat or less but when women get older they have harder time keeping the body fat down. I am 35 I don’t wear make up most days and pull off an excellent girl next door with my age guessed around 23 most days, younger of I am not in conversation. It keeps my core strong helps relieve stress and is a real acting career and is a derivative of broadway. Fitness pole was made a real sport again in 2016 sorry I don’t know how it went from a male only sport in Asia in the 1400’s and woman couldn’t even watch to a sport that is dominated by woman. Hope this helps put understanding to what it really is. And girls remember. “Girls wear make up and boys lie” don’t fall for the lines about how everyone is doing extra. Class pays better than ass. Often I get paid more than they offered just for saying no.