Comments by galabad (page 2)

I haven't ever been to those places, what's the deal with Cubans?

I should emphasize that despite all this, I had a great time with one specific dancer with a huge rack. Definitely worth my time.

Could be overblown, but ever since the original owner died last summer and especially since they were closed down for a week for a health code violation some weeks ago, there has been chatter among dancers that the place is on its last legs. The original owner used his name to keep the Inn open in the first place when other clubs were shut down, so it seems like extra scrutiny is being put on EI and if feels like the county is looking for any reason to get the place closed permanently. Without the original owner around, it may just be a matter of time.

That's crazy about that lady yelling at you. I've never experienced that there, but can easily picture it happening.

Hey fun - I tried to send you a message before I posted this review, but I don't think it went through. Anyway, I'm not disagreeing with your assessment on what's actually happening behind-the-scenes, I was just reporting what I'd heard yesterday. I think the parking guy might be downplaying any other problems because it's in his interest for the place to stay open as long as possible and he may just have been trying to reassure me so I'd come back. I don't need a lot of convincing for that. I'll be back later this month.

Not sure what your criteria are, but if you are looking for just a wild time with the potential of very high mileage-- Ebony Inn in Maryland, not hard to find a hot girl and a good time there if you have an open mind. It's a whole vibe.

I can't deny that the way it's written, this article seems like it could be AI generated, won't take any time to argue against that, but the info could be useful for newer PLs. It doesn't seem like it wasn't too long ago that I was new to this hobby and I was coming from a somewhat sheltered life. Had I read something like this first, I would have found it very helpful

gamma - It's interesting that there are so many conservatives here because typically that side says it promotes "family values" and this thing we're all originally here for does not really jibe with that principle. And I'm not judging any individual for whatever they are doing here, we all have our reasons, but I can also acknowledge that it's interesting on some level and that statement wasn't as partisan as you interpreted it. Also, you haven't demolished any of my arguments, you've only offered your opinions steeped in the continuous misrepresentation of the liberal side in conservative media. For instance, when Democrats were in a stronger position, they absolutely did try to reach across the aisle to get legislation passed, offering compromise mostly to be outright rejected. Surely there are many core differences between each side's goals and how to reach them, but Dems still try to reach deals with Rs and there isn't some stigma on the Left for trying to do that. In contrast Gaetz's issue with McCarthy, in this instance, wasn't that he was ineffective, but only that he actually worked with the Dems on the temporary budget increase. He has stated that plainly. He's not even interested in what is best for the American people, i.e. compromise and good governance, he is only interested in party purity. He may be on the extreme edge of that, but a good amount of that exists on the Right currently. That blind party loyalty is projected on to the Dems, but it doesn't actually exist. The Left is a mess because there are so many individual issues people back and the party is really secondary. You missed my point too about the budget measure. I didn't want the government to shut down, that wasn't what I was saying at all. I was saying that it seems like that's the only time McCarthy was willing to acknowledge that he had to work with Dems. If he were serious about actually doing his job, he would try to do that more, but he has not given any indication that he is willing to do that. He only just this once, begrudgingly, worked with Dems and made fun of them the rest of the time. Rs let McCarthy go because he wasn't pure enough, Dems let him go because he wasn't good for the country. The hope is that the next speaker will see what happened to McCarthy and so make more motions to listen to Dems to make his position more secure. It's a risky move, but it's a weird time. I had more, but I have other things to do today. Maybe I'll be back later.

Interesting to me that there are so many conservatives on this platform. Let me just say this, Republicans have spent the last few decades promoting dehumanizing rhetoric towards Democrats, so much so that's it's become a de facto policy. McCarthy only worked with Dems to pass the temporary budget because he felt it would look worse to shut down the government altogether, otherwise he's been nothing but antagonistic. If he'd wanted to keep his position, he should have been trying to actually govern and at tried to work with his opposition before it came to this point. This shit show is all on the Republicans, any deflection of blame is misguided.

yeah @fun, same old EI is both good and bad, but in the best ways! Please let me know what your fact-finding, Sunday mission turns up. ;-) For all its shortcomings, I like the place and it hits just right when I'm in a certain mood, and I hope it never changes. Stay golden EI!

Would love to look at the latest review, but currently not vip, so can't see any reviews. Looking to see what I might expect on my next visit to EI. Can anyone help a guy out with a summary of the review or any recent experiences here?

Well, hold on there Wise - there are a lot of young girls out there with daddy issues who get interested in older guys. Now, I'm not saying this is a good or bad thing - it's just a thing that exists in our world. I wouldn't be a prick and take advantage of this in an exploitative way, but just because you're older doesn't mean that hottie is always dismissing you out of hand. The game ain't over after 30, it just changes. If you're north of 30 and try to act like a 23 year old, that probably won't fly, just act your age and be comfortable with that. Yes, all the basics still apply - hygiene and the like - but be unapologetically you (as long as you aren't an asshole), put yourself out there, and things can happen. Since you're here I know you're' going to clubs, when you're there next, find a girl that is ok with talking for a while, buy her drinks and tip her, but just talk to her. Practice talking about yourself (or whatever persona you've adopted for the club) and asking her about herself. Tell her a dumb joke. Be respectful. It may be transactional, but it can actually be a fun conversation. You might be able to ask her for advice on how to talk to girls on the outside, she might think it's sweet. I can't overemphasize this enough though, just make sure it's the right kind of girl who is ok with just talking for a while and keep the drinks/tips coming, and don't for a minute think she's actually interested in you. She'll want to keep you happy and maybe even think you're sweet, but keep it in the club. Good luck.

Thanks! I'll need to look her up there.

Thanks for this, but sorry, what's OF?

I also saw a middle-aged blonde who I know from GH at Lust on my last visit there, do we know if any other girls might also be working at Lust or any other club nearby?

Wonderful featured role in So I Married an Axe Murderer as the understanding police chief prompted to act tough.

@minnow: How dare you, sir!

Aham- YOU were disappointed? I had to live through it! I'll try to get with her again and if I have any good update, I'll post here and let you all in on it. Wish me luck!

Somebody said that it looked like I was in over my head. Yes! That's it exactly! That is coincidentally the exact reason I came on to this site where people openly talk about this stuff hoping I'd get some good advice. Thanks to everyone who took some time to answer, even if it was expressed less than diplomatically. Special thanks to Mike R who remembered the original intent. So I still have her number so if I can ever figure out a good scrambled texting service I'll get back to her.

(Whoops hit send by accident.) If you can't imagine why a guy wouldn't want things traceable on his own side, then bless your heart and go with god, I love you. To that end - is there a service that is free and easy to conceal? Open to suggestions.

Ok, I think I see where some confusion lies. I explained part already, I wasn't going to her home, but close to the building her apartment is in. The second thing was, we had a set time. Originally I only said it was during school hours because I didn't think it was important for you all to know the exact time, and the relevant information was that the kid was NOT going to be there. But we definitely had a set time and I arrived late. Imagine you set an appointment with a new friend for less than 12 hours in the future, and that new friend did tell you that he probably wouldn't be able to call or text you in advance of this meeting. It's not exactly convenient, but given the quick turnaround time and the acknowledged sensitivity of the meeting, I think everyone involved was as informed as they could be. How long would you wait for this new friend if they weren't there exactly on time? And if this meeting place was less than 1 minute from your apartment building door, is it reasonable for the other person to think you might wait alittle longer or check back after a bit of time? This was the situation. We discussed a time and place, and the above is what we came up with. It would be creepy if she said something like come before 3 and then I showed up at 3:30. But that wasn't the case. And about Google voice. While signing up for it, it asks to connect to your cell and even if it's hidden from the girl's side, it's still ringing and tracking on your side. This is not acceptable in my situation. Other less trackable text/ voice services either can't accept replies or require payment with a credit card, which is also traceable. If you can't imagine

rick - not disagreeing with you exactly, I am a bit paranoid, but I don't think I was as rude or creepy as you are anyone else might be thinking. I left some details out of my original narrative for brevity's and privacy's sake. I think a lot of guys on here could understand why you wouldn't want to give a stripper your personal information, and when she and I talked about it at the end of that ride we talked around this a bit and she understood it, but she still chose to set up the meeting anyway. I wasn't intending on picking up a dancer that night so I hadn't already set up some less trackable modes of communication in advance which is regrettable. Some people have the impression that I dropped her off at her single-family home, which is an interesting assumption, and one I wasn't going to correct because it's not that important, but since it's become a thing - I dropped her off at her apartment complex where she purposely neglected to show me which building was hers in an effort to maintain her own privacy, I would think. We agreed to meet near where I dropped her off which was basically a grassy sort of park-like area in her complex. When I went late to our meeting, I went to that area; I wasn't knocking on the door of her house. There were actually some other people just hanging around the area the whole time too. I spent some time waiting, in case she might have tried to come back. And it wasn't hours after our meeting time, just long enough that I think, if she had been on time, she might have bailed after waiting some for me, but not so long that I thought there might have been a chance she would still be there. It's possible she was never there or never even intending to be there, but after doing the risk/inconvenience to reward calculus I decided to try it out anyway. I lost out this time, maybe I'll be better prepared in the future.

So in the end I flaked by accident. On my way to meeting the girl, I got a rather urgent and irate call from work about some nonsense that had to get taken care of right away. It was important, but shouldn't have taken that long to resolve, but it took long enough that I was not there at the agreed upon time. I did go by when I was done, but it was late enough that I wasn't surprised when she wasn't there. And since I still didn't want to give her my number I wasn't able to contact her, just like some of you said. womp womp. Part of me is relieved this didn't work out and would like to move on to less risky things, but the other part of me, the part that is going to win, is going to arrange for a hidden number text and see what's going on for tonight. Chances are it won't work out either, but we'll see. Just to clear a few things up: wall - that thirst is a given, but I can, and do, ignore that call if it puts my livelihood at risk. Though technically it was a work day, I didn't have anything really scheduled during the time she outlined and should have been free until I got that call. I didn't want to talk business in front of her, and I was expecting the call to be shorter than it was so I didn't make it. It was frustrating, but a fair trade. cj-Nice sex positivity. This is part of why I was asking the question in the first place. I know the prevalent attitude here is that the dancers just want the money, and I get that, and don't see any less of them for it. However, I also know they have their agency, and even if she expected money, she still thought enough of me to let me see where she lives, which wasn't the nicest place place in the area, but far from the worst, and that showed some trust. Even for all that, I don't want a real relationship from her, but maybe a bit more human connection that doesn't exist in the club. I don't always want that, but cool if it happens in small doses. licker-I can't speak to this. I know addiction is a terrible thing, and I really don't want to get mixed up with that. She was a little giggly and bouncing from topic to topic on the ride, but it was harmless, at least for now. I'll keep out a weather eye for any other signs if I ever see her again. I'll keep you all updated if anything more comes of this. Thanks for the thoughts everyone!

Steve-I am going to watch for and make sure I don't get into any such situation. Right now she doesn't have my cell number and I don't intend to give it to her. If it comes to it, I'll just cut off contact, and I can easily stay clear of her club and area if I want. Ishmael-Yeah, this makes a lot of sense. I don't really have any expectations. If she wants to go out to eat, we can do that. If she just wants to get to business I'm down for most of that. I really just want to spend some more time with a sexy girl with no strings attached. If that's just talk, or just making out or more, or even if she just bails, I think I'll be ok. Ski-Yeah, I'm concerned about this, but here's the thing: We all do this for different reasons. Part of what I get out of it is getting out of my stultifying routine. I mean, if I get there and there are signs of actual danger, I'll get out, but while the chances of that are not 0, I don't think they are that high. The danger is part of the thrill, I guess? It's dumb, right? I think it'll be ok. Thanks for looking out though.