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2 years ago
Thank you guys for responding. I wont take the lack of couples friendly tag deter me.
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3 years ago
@papi so I saw a few girls sitting and hanging with customers for awhile. Is that just a dancer's preference or style? Or is that usual a perk of being a regular?
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3 years ago
@papi thanks for all your responses. I was pleasantly surprised that none of the girls we got dances with wanted double payment. I was also happy that none of them tried to upsell for longer rooms or more dances. The main concerns they had when we went for dances were is it ok to dance for my husband too or just me and is there anything I know is going to make me uncomfortable with him being touched. I did tell my husband I suspected we did not get anything too exciting in those dances that warranted too much tipping but we decided to tip this time and find out protocol for next time.
I don't know how you guys don't feel bad telling them no for dances though damn they are good at asking. I am talking about ones that come around on the floor. I did have 2 girls neither of us found appealing at all flirting hardcore with flattery trying to sell a dance. My husband said not to feel bad for them bc its not our job to make them feel good they just want money.. there was a girl there with a what i consider practically perfect body that looked like she didnt want to work. I did say to my husband I hate to take her for a dance and have it be so so but would almost be worth it just to touch her body 🤣 maybe she knows that i am sure
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3 years ago
@warrior yes we already want to go back haha
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3 years ago
@Dolfan that is great advice i appreciate. You are so right I know I need to stop planning and go with the flow. That does not come naturally to me but do feel it would be better overall for this experience. I do feel its hard because all the clubs are different.
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3 years ago
@cjkent thank you for the advice
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3 years ago
@papi yeah it does seem well managed from what I can tell and probably is the best choice for us. To pass the time I often look around at the others but keep going back to Oz as the best one. My husband did say if we werent feeling it we should have a backup. My only concern is the crowd size maybe overwhelming. though I read could be good to plan a busy place and night for first timers.
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3 years ago
@warrior thanks yeah no judgement from me. I am maybe not in the right place exactly to get my info but I appreciate you guys helping me out. I dont exactly feel comfortable talking to friends about this. I kind of thought he may buy us a drink. I also did worry they may push us financially while there if I did ask.
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3 years ago
@mike thanks I did figure we could check out DD if Oz wasn't good. I am super nervous bc im in uncharted territory but excited.
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3 years ago
@desert omg first of all I am the wife. Second of all isnt a troll someone who goes on sites just to mess with people?
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3 years ago
@mike710 whats yoir favorite and why if you dont mind me asking. Also I am the wife just saying. My husband wants me to make the decisions about which area club etc. I dont mind paying more money for an overall better experience.
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3 years ago
@georg no haha it was good advice either way
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3 years ago
@georg its actually me the woman. My husband wants me to pick and plan this but it was my idea. I will try to be assertive about it but definitely feel out of my element going in.
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3 years ago
@papi_chulo yeah I wouldn't mind doing that but with time constraints it'd be hard to squeeze that in with the Clearwater plan. We will be staying in orlando 2 nights so we could do an Orlando sc visit. I dont know if its worth it though doing Orlando from what I read.
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3 years ago
@papi_chulo yes i did look into cocoa beach and Lidos. I thought it looked good with lots of positive reviews from couples. But then I found out tampa had alot more options. I can see how Cocoa beach would have a different feel then Tampa area. I think this oz one in Clearwater is a solid option but did read how incredibly busy it gets in there.
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3 years ago
@EastCoaster thank you for your advice. I found out this particular club has couples night saturday but we decided Saturday night would be hard with a Sunday morning flight. So pretty sure well go with thursday. Hoping since they have a couples night that means the girls are couple friendly not sure if that is true though.
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3 years ago
@papi_chulo thanks for the info i appreciate it. I was thinking maybe wed go on the Thursday arrive at 9ish. I know people say if you have money you'll get attention but i have read many people's reviews of various clubs saying they could not get anyone over even when being proactive bc there were so many people. Hoping if we go at 9 on a weekday itll be better for us i hope im not wrong.
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3 years ago
What is the difference between paying for labeled "private dances" vs 15/30 minutes in the champagne room" ?
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3 years ago
@warrior15 that is what i was thinking 400 to 500. It seems like alot of money for 1 night but I want to make sure we have a good time. You as well as everyone else have been very helpful. I am probably overthinking this whole thing but i know we are both looking forward to this night and would hate to have it go wrong.
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3 years ago
@warrior15 thats good that oz is female friendly. I was reading the google reviews and its just tons and tons of positive reviews from both men and women so that is promising. Can you say how much cash you'd recommend a couple bring? Maybe you cant as I realize everyone's ideas for what they want differ. We don't drink alcohol. We'd like to get a few private dances. I see the pricing is clear for how much dances cost. When you get a private dance you pay the fee but then do you also tip the girl and if so how much? How much money should we bring for the stage dancing?
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3 years ago
@papi_chulo thank you that sounds good
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3 years ago
@warrior15 or anyone who would say.. if location was not an issue and you had to choose between going to the penthouse or oz ladies and gentlemens club which would you pick. I know you probably havent been to both of them but just curious and if youd say why. What do you look for in a sc when going to new cities? Do you rely heavily on reviews?
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3 years ago
@jamesSD i dont know what my real dream is honestly. Just definitely like the idea of going and thought of my husband getting a lap dance. The idea of sitting at the bar watching leaving sounds too boring to me. The only person in my life i feel comfortable talking to about this SC plan is my friend who goes to do just that. watch from bar have a few drinks.
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3 years ago
@warrior15 We dont need alcohol so thats not a factor for us. Originally we were going to go to a sc in orlando but I read that they just do air dances and wear pasties. I wasnt sure how i felt about that sounds boring but maybe a good place to start for a first time couple visiting. We only have thurs, fri and Saturday night then were flying out Sunday. i thought maybe orlando Thursday night and if we liked it but it wasnt wild enough then go to tampa Friday night. the condo we bookee is in orlando but willing to grab a hotel a night in tampa if its worth it.
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3 years ago
@ceoaticeysangelsllc yes its true thinking about it is different then actually being there im sure. We should discuss maybe closer (going in may) what i would not feel comfortable with.