@papi so I saw a few girls sitting and hanging with customers for awhile. Is that just a dancer's preference or style? Or is that usual a perk of being a regular?
@papi thanks for all your responses. I was pleasantly surprised that none of the girls we got dances with wanted double payment. I was also happy that none of them tried to upsell for longer rooms or more dances. The main concerns they had when we went for dances were is it ok to dance for my husband too or just me and is there anything I know is going to make me uncomfortable with him being touched. I did tell my husband I suspected we did not get anything too exciting in those dances that warranted too much tipping but we decided to tip this time and find out protocol for next time.
I don't know how you guys don't feel bad telling them no for dances though damn they are good at asking. I am talking about ones that come around on the floor. I did have 2 girls neither of us found appealing at all flirting hardcore with flattery trying to sell a dance. My husband said not to feel bad for them bc its not our job to make them feel good they just want money.. there was a girl there with a what i consider practically perfect body that looked like she didnt want to work. I did say to my husband I hate to take her for a dance and have it be so so but would almost be worth it just to touch her body 🤣 maybe she knows that i am sure
@Dolfan that is great advice i appreciate. You are so right I know I need to stop planning and go with the flow. That does not come naturally to me but do feel it would be better overall for this experience. I do feel its hard because all the clubs are different.
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