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4 years ago
Salty.Nutz umm... that last sentence made it clear you didn't read the OP.
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4 years ago
desertscrub You misunderstand. The only other place I've seen a surcharge is using an atm that isn't yours banks'. And that's like $1.50. Having the club charge so much extra for drinks and tipping dollars makes good business sense, does it not? What if your regular is on stage in a few minutes and you've run out of cash? Or you're too horny to care about it when going for a vip?
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4 years ago
desertscrub not $4 here. If you're talking about usd, $9 and a $3 surcharge if you don't have cash. Strip clubs aren't just in the u.s, in case you've never heard.
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4 years ago
jackslash she was the one to take it out of the equation. It's only after I prompted her about four times to take it that she accepted it. I've been the one to be paid, at least with free soda, several times by the girls using their free soda privilege to get one from us both. But that was a while ago.
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4 years ago
JamesSD she wasn't there last night, and my club stops listing who is there on social media, I'm guessing due to covid and being open less, that they don't want to give anyone a reason not to go? Or otoh they want people like me to come in hoping they're there, but end up spending the money on someone else.
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4 years ago
desertscrub it stuck to me when I couldn't get "customer" to fit the character limit of the title.
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4 years ago
NAAAASTY no, don't want to claim to be the victim. I'd like to say it was done in a sort of tossed aside way, then ask for hugs and not really bring it up again (Maybe not in that order)
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4 years ago
CJKent _banded_ I've done OTC before, but with a dancer from another state. I don't know how someone local might feel about being spotted with someone out of public, she seemed a smidgen embarrassed one time that people she knew came in.
"pics or it didn't happen" reminded me of what a good business idea would be... get customers to pay for selfies with them when they don't have a +1 to do it with (Or just to be seen with someone more universally attractive)
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4 years ago
Oh she friendzoned me early on, I don't think I'd be attracted to her more than physically anyway. What do you think of her looks? https://imgur.com/a/RqTeA8x
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4 years ago
@2ICEE I dunno, I tend to make female friends every so often. One wanted to do a slumber party, showed me her playboy panties, and at a club grabbed my dick and said I need to start using it! I get told that I make them feel safe a lot.
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4 years ago
@cashman1234 I think when I say "Not really here for anything sexual, like the conversation and sometimes massages" a girl might spread that around the club and you then get these others approaching you without any propositions. I mean girl locker room talk spreads fast as it is, letalone stripper locker room talk :P I don't really try to compliment the heels, I just try and guess how long they are. (And I'm sure they get a kick out of me saying "I'll have to try a pair on one day and see how hard it is to walk".
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4 years ago
@justintolook how to make comments in a non-flirty manner, for when I'm just curious in general?
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4 years ago
@nicespice pua's wouldn't have much luck here, giving out any contact details is very much against the rules. Someone did it for me for a paid gfe outside of the club, and I heard of some girl giving her fb to her regulars but that's about it.
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4 years ago
@2ICEE I had a sexual experience in another country where the girl seemed into it enough to give me her number and do all that stuff without me even asking for it, I think it was worth the money :D
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4 years ago
@mike710 I forgot that when I left, the staff said "you had a good time, we can see on the cameras" and I was actually a bit embarrassed.
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4 years ago
@rattdog how easy is it for girls on your lap to detect a raging hard on? I mean, when I was new to all this, I was tipping a girl off-stage who would sit on my lap both facing away and towards me, but she was never like "you have to pay for that, tiger". Neither of us were doing anything else sexual.
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4 years ago
50usd and the latter, 90. 5 minutes. I only get one a couple of times a year. Giving and receiving massages when they're off-stage and not working is pretty erotic. I'm not gonna say no to it for free! They don't let people touch during their sets, they used to. One place elsewhere in aus had it so you could give anyone walking around $3 for a short dance. When I tipped one and went "Eh I just feel like a cuddleslut" she told all her friends and I had them lined up wanting them, and the worst thing for them was, they would always get comfy and miss their set by a good couple of minutes all the time.
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4 years ago
It happens. I've had one look at me strangely when I went to get a tip and got told "What's this for?" when I handed it to her... one that liked being paid in tickles, one that said the appreciation is worth more than the money. It's nice to break up routine a bit and associate with people who I could never in their real lives. I'd imagine that backstage they're either "Hey he's actually okay" or don't talk about me at all. I wouldn't, if I met that many people per night.