Comments by Notanewbie

I'm getting there now after almost 2 years of 2-3 times per week. I figured it up this week that I have actually dated 11 dancers OTC. The thrill of the chase is getting old.......hold that thought, just saw a gorgeous red head in thigh high fishnets ....it might be LOVE

I was seeing a young lass who asked me to go all 3 stages with her.....I did it twice but it made me feel like a real Tool so I had to stop. I think she was basically shy and just wanted a friendly face. Personally, I think it makes the guy look desparate...

In The Dayton, Greater Cincy area, they are virtually gone, completely! LE bust of and closing of the Harem and sanctions at Living Room have forced Clubs like Cheeks to become "Gentlemens Clubs" with very little action. Have personally been in private dances (with other girls) at Living Room while Manager came into to back with bright flashlight and fired 3 dancers for taking things " in hand" so to speak.

Starting to find the same thing myself.... I've went in a few times lately just to hang out with some guy friends I have made in the Clubs.....saving me some money. Went to Florida for 9 days and didn't even look at a club...going to back it down and see if interest comes back.

Thanks! A BLAST

Not interested in "happily ever after" married for 20 years ...tried that....more interested at this point, in having a good time....with that being said, if it would lead to more, it wouldn't be with a 19 year old, but a slightly older, intelligent woman that has a real job and a real life....well Papi Chulu , if it was like " shooting fish in a barrel'" everybody would be doing it, wouldn't they? Footman, for whatever reason has actually gone to dancers to ask about me....which I find hilarious... they post said " I was constantly bragging about" sorry never met the gentleman and have made a few posts, trying to give insight to guys on another forum as to why I'm successful...the absolute most I have ever spent on a young lady in the club would be $100-$150....if you think that's big money and I'm buying dates, you are too poor to go to a strip club:) I know guys that drop $500-$1000 once or twice a week. You are taking someone else's word for what I think and am doing...I love talking to, going out with young beautiful women....I am under know illusion that they are "in love" with me or me them...that would be kindly pathetic...and the original question " do they like me?" Yes they do, I'm nice, I can talk, I'm not grossly overweight or hideously ugly, I dress well, smell well, treat them with respect, I listen to their story without judging...I'm very confident and guess what? It works for me...I'm having the time of my life

Ok, since I am the one this is about, here is the story...someone earlier in the discussion said it best " it's the thrill of the hunt" what Mr footman must not realize is that the term " fall in like" is sarcastic . Do I, as a reasonably attractive 45 year old man love the challenge of talking a stunningly gorgeous 19 year old to go to dinner, dancing, possibly more if we really hit it off ?? YEP! Guilty! Do I pay girls to sit with me?, nope, sometimes tip them when they do..Do I give girls money for dating me? NEVER! If I'm dating a girl and she sits with me in the club for awhile, I will have a VIP $125 then send her to make money, most of the time , they come back to talk...so for basically chump change , I spend a couple hours with a hottie that I'm seeing outside the club. If that's wrong, I don't want to be right:) now, I'm getting ready to see a 30 year old Goddess....I think I'm "in like"....again...but this time.....

That's a good review of The current "State of Cheeks!" It's ok, good place to chill, listen to music, look at some beautiful young ladies.....it's just lost its " WOW!" Factor. Dances for the most part are just OK