Comments by Myoman (page 5)

My methods for my conclusion: - I visited clubs a few times each for the most part before submitting a review - speak to locals at the club,both customers, bartenders and dancers. - love to people watch for a bit. - In Fairfield County and NYC I have several contacts and colleagues as I work with a few of the big finance firms. I have no shame asking these locals for their opinions and experience. I don't hide this hobby, though I kinda throw it into conversations so I don't look like too much of a perv. Again - I love the intel we share in this forum. It puts guys like us back in the driver's seat so we can get the best fantasy experiences possible and avoid the many traps looking to get us in this hobby!!

I have a lot of experience in the nyc clubs - mostly for business related entertainment (I'm own boss so there's no HR issues). And I 100 percent agree. Nyc and Fairfield County are awful for men. Girls make a killing with lots of high-paying guys in Finance, Business, Law etc competing to spend money on average girls. When I actually want to have a good experience I leave NYC for the western suburbs (NJ) or Queens. NJ is getting better and better for men (hotties competing for less money). Queens is getting worse as of late for men. In Queens: Show Palace, NYC Gentleman's Club, and Show Palace are all good. Gallaghers used to be good but has gone down hill.

Is this an advertisement?? This club is awful for men. See my review (based on a few visits - I had to go with some colleagues) for a more accurate depiction

Thanks guys. And Muddy yes your prior review was excellent. Appreciated!!

Lol ha! I wish it were the 90s. I really think things have changed. The client entertainment has definitely picked up recently. I'm with you on finding hungry girls which is why I agree on Pure Platinum and Ruby's. The Mystiques in Bridgeport or Stamford are the opposite of what you and I are looking for. There are hungry guys fighting over a scarcity of girls, mostly average in quality. I may have underrated Ruby's on my list. That seemed like it could be great, I just really wanted drinks the time I went there.

Sorry to continue: The other disagreement is over dancers. I am really surprised of what I'm hearing. There are definitely guys spending money and paying men always outnumber girls in my experience. The worsening of nyc clubs has just made men flock here - there seems to be a lag in the supply of girls for now. Anyway, that's why these forums are great. Thank you for the productive discussion. I'll keep you updated on any other Intel. My methods for my conclusion: - visited clubs a few times each for the most part. - speak to locals at the club,both customers, bartenders and dancers. - love to people watch for a bit. - In Fairfield County and NYC I have several contacts and colleagues as I work with a fee of the big finance firms. I have no shame asking these locals for their opinions and experience. I don't hide this hobby, though I kinda throw it into conversations so I don't look like too much of a perv.

I guess we all have different experiences. Maybe times are changing. But I guess half of what we are saying is completely in agreement with eachother: that is that most of the Fairfield County clubs just aren't worth going to for men. The debate is over two things. Scruples and Pure Platinum have been very good lately in experience.

That's interesting. I'm a pretty social guy at these clubs so that's how I got that information. I speak to other guys and groups there. Also my buddy I went with works for a finance company in the area and he told me that the Mystiques are where they bring clients to entertain and also where heavy-hitting finance guys go. Also I can tell. When I can't even get a girl to take 25 bucks from me for a bullshit Lapdance because the guy she's sitting with is paying her big enough money, then I guess I feel it's not worth these clubs. And I usually spend over 300-500 dollars and that's not enough to have a good time? No thanks I'll pass. As far ar ad exodus of wealth, post pandemic that's just not true. So many wealthy New Yorkers relocated to Fairfield County. They were used to paying 700-1000 bucks for a Vip room. These guys are now king at the Mystiques. Maybe the girls you've been talking to aren't pulling the right guys. Or maybe they don't want you there, but there is no way guys are not spending money at these two clubs. Scruples, Pure Platinum, and Keepers are the place to go for men to have a good time and not have to break the bank. Pure Platinum is definitely picking up with more and more girls.

@Wall: yes I agree, I will. Strangest thing though, I started the process by adding a review on Bridgeport Mystique, but I don't see it there. I remember this happening to me in the past. Does it take a day or so for the review to actually post?

Oh i totally forget about Scruples and Pure Platinum, which should be #1 on tis list. I apologize, I meant to give these two clubs separate reviews (pending) so I forgot to include. I am putting these two together b/c they are very similar, same mgt, with some rotation between the clubs. Girls diverse: white, black, Latina. Some real beauties (relatively) though this could be hit or miss. and the management is very nice. Mileage is great. There is actually some competition for the guys here since there aren't many guys here (which is a good thing) and a good amount of girls (usually 12-18). Unlike both Mystiques, girls aren't making bank from wealthy men here so they aren't spoiled. I think b/c the mgt is nicer, they are able to attract better girls maybe? To me it doesn't make sense b/c you would think the girls would just go where the money is. Maybe I'm missing something or maybe girls just go where they are comfortable (like where they have a friend dancing or something) even if it means making less money. Anyway - sorry for the mistake and this addendum to my review!

I agree that both are sleasze. i should've clarified this. Bishop Corner is definitely not a nice place. It's total ghetto, but the mileage is great. And the girls got much much better. I have heard that all of the hotter girls from Pleasant's went over to Bishop's post-pandemic. But Pleasant Moments is awful. Girls are gross and the place is disgusting. There are a million men in there at any given time. I saw a pile of piss on the ground once. The girls are 3s and the customers are flat out dangerous. I saw a fight in there that turned into a brawl. I would never go there again.

I could put in reviews as well. It's not that I am a paying member - I don't want any special consideration for that by any means. I guess I just feel that I find these summary pages helpful for those planning a night out and just need a quick read to direct themselves.

I checked out the San Antonio Scene again after the conference was over with a more accurate picture of four clubs I visited: Perfect 10s, Sugars, Palace, and Men's Club. I put out a summary on a different, new Discussion. Hope it's helpful.

Palace and Mens Club: I wanted to give San Antonio one last chance last night. Both Palace and Mens Club were not good at all for my purpose. They were both very nice clubs and the bartenders were nice. They are a 2-minute drive from one another. But very few girls and a lot of guys - maybe worse from the conferences I mentioned. A few guys I saw were taking very good care of the girls so the competition was too strong for my wallet. I guess this week isn't the place for guys looking to have fun in San Antonio clubs with all the extra wealthy men around. Oh well, can't win them all. Thank you for all the helpful advice people gave me in this post, much appreciated.

Ok a little harsh lol. But not bad adviceI have to admit. Wall has given great advice, just wasn't sure if SJG knew about some secret dive club that we've all been missing out on. But Wall is great, wealth of knowledge and willingness to share.

Still would love an actual specific recommendation of a place. Anyone know?

Anyone know the great Latina dive he is referring to?

I'm totally down for that, you are my savior sir!! Do you know where exactly I should go?

Guys c'mon I have ADHD and even this is a joke for me. Can we stay focused on what this group is supposed to be about - exchanging information and Intel to make our experiences better. A lot of useless posts here. Find another site to socialize.

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All valid points. We may have had different experiences in Bridgeport, other than Scruples and Keepers. Those two are clearly the best - well-run, laid back, great management (owned by same person). Some absolute hotties in both and very safe. Mystique I've had a different experience. Definitely Russians there but not nearly as hot, and much older than in the past. As far as Queens, I thought there were hot Russians in some of these clubs (Gallaghers) and Spanish girls weren't all fake. Some were young, natural, absolutely beautiful. And many basically looked white (Cuban). I will give Bport another chance though, especially Scruples- they have been great. We are in agreement about Stamford. Complete waste of time. Too many rules and rich guys. Not enough worthy girls.

That's good to know, thanks for the input. Maybe I'll give it another chance. Idk, though, The problem with Bport though is that it can get really dangerous, and these days it's even worse. There have been shootings and fights a few times at these places, and the last few times I went to the few Bport clubs, it's kinda ghetto. Back in the day, there were smoking hot Russian girs, but it's totally different now.. there are some Russian girls, but it seems like the broken ones who don't touch you are there now. I'm not saying it's awful, but it really isn't that far from Queens - can make it down there in 45 min from Stamford area. To me that's a no-brainer I guess - the Queens clubs for men are exponentially better. If I were a dancer, I would definitely choose Fairfield County though - less competition and more money. As a customer who wants more girls, more options, more extras/contact - Queens is just so much better IMO.

I like to keep it brief, maybe it's the ADHD.. sorry for those who like the really long reviews. Private me if you want more details: Couple of general notes: Ubered everywhere, so no info on parking etc. 1) Show Palace: Queens. went very late night on on Tuesday night 1130p. I thought it was great. They took 30 bucks for cover, but hell it's nyc. Girls fairly diverse, but mostly black, hispanic. About 18-20 girls maybe. Range was from 4s to 9s. All I need is a few 8s and 9s. No major extras, but a lot of touching. I give it a thumbs up. 2) Rivera Gentleman: Tue night 130am: I was tired so didn't stay too long. Big butts, small waists, smooth skin. holy shit. Got a few dances from some Venezualan beauty. Good contact. Over pants touching. 3) La Rouge: Wed night 9pm. What a joke, 4-5 girls sitting around with men buying bottles. And they weren't even hot. I left after an hour. Maybe it was too early. 4) Flash Dancers Midtown: This place is there to take advantage of tourists given the location near theatre district. They push you for bottles and private rooms. Girls are 6s-7s and don't offer anything. They tease you for private room hopes. Thumbs down big time. 5) Sapphire 60: Thursday 9pm. I thought all the advice was on-point. Girls are hot (7s-9.5s), but really difficult to get much. The dances were very minimal in contact fun. And they really had some high-rollers. But tbh, the few girls I spoke to said they weren't really always making that much money there. It didn't make sense, they hadn't changed with the time. You have to be a little more lenient with rules these day, men have options with online stuff. Who would come here and spend too much money but get no real contact. I would say overall if you just want to sit around and look, you can try it. Overall, I give NYC a thumbs down. Queens is better for men, Manhattan better for girls maybe. It seems like in NYC area here is my summary. Men: NJ is best. Queens is good. Manhattan and CT (Fairfield County) is the worst. Idk about Brooklyn, but I heard good for men. Strippers: Manhattan and CT is good (too many finance men dropping coin). NJ, Queens a lot of competition for strippers. Hot girls and cheaper men (my kinda places!)

These have gone down hill. I haven't gone in a couple of years. When St Vs theater was around, it was great. Then they closed and then LA Rouge and Die Happy Tonight came around. Both are just strip clubs without a real stage, just girls who hustle you for a Lap dance. And they aren't even hot girls (mostly 5s-6s). And high-rolling NYC guys drop major cash making these girls move fast from you if they sniff you're not gonna spend major coin.

Thank you all. I'll put my nyc experience next week after visiting all of them so i can compare. My personal thought is to put all reviews in one article on this discussion thread rather than go to each individual club and add a review. That way someone can just read a summary of my experience in one spot. Do you guys think I should rather go to each individual club and add the review?