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11 years ago
Zipman and gawker, tks for your answers.
I was ok with that but it seems that is like a rollercoaster, goes up and down the feelings of moving on or going back.
Matter of time, I think stop thinking about it.
Guys you don't need to answer anymore. Tks a million for the positive feedback.
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11 years ago
Idiot? Why such agressive word?
How about if you found out that your wife was a prostitute or a big slut on the past?
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11 years ago
I'm love with her but don't wanna get a relation with a former slut!
Now she is very nice, a mother of a nice boy, serious woman, but I don't feel confortable imaging her doing this to live! Imagining her naked for other men for money…Dancing sexually…It sucks my friends!
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11 years ago
But 20 years ago it was not allowed, wasn't?
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11 years ago
lol
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11 years ago
I'm asking.
I want to know if she was a slut or just a victim without doing anything heavier but Just dancing topless. It is acceptable under the circunstances…But touching and been touched is diferent.
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11 years ago
She says there was no contact between dancer and client. Is that true?
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11 years ago
What are the standards in America about this issue? Is acceptable been a stripper when the woman is beautiful?
Would you guys get married with a former stripper?
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11 years ago
What is OTC?
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11 years ago
Yes I'm not american, so you are saying that it is normal in this society that beautiful girls can be dancers and strippers that does not affect any moral issue? So, if you are beuatiful, you will probably be a stripper?
And to be clear, I'm not judging her. I just have a problem imaging her gatting naked for money. It is a moral problem for me. I came from a jesuit school, my family is the kind of italian tradicional family. Very moral!
So, if here is acceptable been a stripper, I will understand better.
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11 years ago
Yep. She is wonderful. The problem is that sometimes I imagine her naked doing a dance for whoever paid…
And I think it was not 3 weeks, she says that to ease the situation… But I hope i will be able to handle that. Mind we don't control, the thoughts come and you think about…
It is not being easy for me. I know that for you guys is easy to give an opinion, as you are not on that situation. The woman that you thought was pure, never involved with hard sex and this dirty world and suddenly you hear something like that? Not easy at all!
I appreciate all the comments you are giving to me. It is really helping a lot!
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11 years ago
You mean, she sees me as her guardian?
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11 years ago
I appreciate the nice comments. This is actually much better than any analyst! :)
I've talked to her today. It seems that will be ok.
I will handle this situation overall.
For the positive comments and not agressive ones, I thank you very much.
Have a great weekend you all.
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11 years ago
It makes sense when we are not involved...
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11 years ago
One question. Did All the strippers use to make a Handjob and touch the clients or some of them didn't do it as moral thoughts?
I'm talking about 19/20 years ago!
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11 years ago
Great words ATACdawg… I know that you are right!
The problem is that always when I look at her, I imagine she naked, been a sexual object for others and been paid…As a hooker! I feel bad, unconfortable! I just need to know if I will be able to forget this by the time and not even think about it! Just wonder if I can forget this!
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11 years ago
Manhattan, 39th beetween 5th and 6th Av.
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11 years ago
I'm completely in love with her, thinking on get married. After that, I look at her and keep imagining she naked, dancing and if she made a BJ on someone for money… She swears that never made it neither sex for money, shows repulses that I can imagine something like this, and she suffered a lot during this time.
Don't forget that she was married at this time with a SOB that made her doing this for money FOR HIM! She use to love so much this guy that made it! And she suffers tons because of that!
I don't know if I will handle this on the future or if I will forget and live well without this scenes on mind with her on my side.
If I was sure that this time strippers were no HO and didn't make anything else but a dance showing the bulbs only, I could handle that! I think.
That sucks my friends...
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11 years ago
It was 20 years ago!
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11 years ago
Really? All the clubs? Have you ever heard about Butterflies in NY on 90`s?
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11 years ago
There was or there wasn't?
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11 years ago
Dating a dancer from that time...
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11 years ago
What is the problem getting married with a stripper? Would you guys get married with a former stripper at least?
How about she was a long time ago and now has a serious life?
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11 years ago
Have you ever been inside? Were there private rooms in it at this time? It was very small and very high class clientes, no?
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11 years ago
The name of the place was Butteflies! Did someone go there? Knew this place?