Comments by davevjr

I like young girls 18-25 or that range because if i get they get naughty more often and they are not defensive as the strippers that have been around for a while.

I would stick to CIO not only because the clubs have a rep for being high milage. Also it mostly a working class area and the strippers money will be set according to their normal clientele. from my experience the girls don't do any mileage for just one dance. gotta be vip or something higher priced to expect some play. You take a risk that a girl might dissapoint but cio is best bet.

https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?192153-Letters-you-wish-you-could-send-to-customers-(vent-away)/page2 This thread on a board mention by warhawks is exactly the b.s I'm talking about

I am aware of that! I was hoping there was a few more dancers can answer but I but guys answering is fine too.

Point is nobody empty's their wallet on tips, it's a logical decision because most guys tip after the dance and therefore can engage think about the tip and what she deserves. while most guys buying extra lapdances are with a girl who is ending her dance and then you don't wan it to stop, you are still hard and make decision that end emptying your wallet more then the guy tipping. From my Observation anyways!

diva1975 If you had to choose one?

I have never objected to a girl grabbing my junk but one grabbed to sell me on the dance and then told me a i couldn't grab her booty once inside the private dance area. one dance and I was done. She was so shocked that cut the dances of so quickly. Sorry guys don't remember where, and I was a long time ago so unless she got more firiendly i doubt she still dances!

It's not a how to sleep stripper book

I don't agree with the don't touch the dancers thing. I know it's an official rule but I have always at least grabed ass. In fact the very first time I went to a strip club the doorguy told one the rules was don't touch the damcers. But the n when one hit me up for a lapdance and I said yes, the first thing she did was place hands on her tits. So i think in reality it's up to the dancer.

pensionking I have seen what your are talking first hand, but never been a victim of it.what you are actually experiencing is the same attitude. The comment i about women believing you need to earn them applies to what you described. what I should add is most civilian women greatly overestimate their value. Some of these women believe a man is lucky just to be with them because thats what they have told their entire lives and to evidence that men pursue them, we are always the chasers even in the strip club. ALl of what you said is true but it is because of the underlying attitude men and women have towards each other

I mean it is my assertion that there is no difference between civilians and strippers

San_jose_guy .it is my assertion is a really between strippers and civlians. I have dated some really hot women who are just as hot as any stripper. I am not a guy who can get them whenever I want but it has happened. There is no difference between them other then the fact that one is a stripper by profession. They both have an attitude that a man has to earn them. Earn them impress them in some way. For a civilian it doesn't always equal giving them money or buying things but it is the same dynamic at work. The reason this happens because men always allow it. to desperate for the attention of a female to act like a man. I have known grown men who are still nervous around a woman they are attracted to. as for me: I only what I plan to spend, but I pick the girl that appeals to me most. I don't even bother there dumbass drink minimums, At most I order 1 and nurse it forever. which works fine up until I get lapdance. I pretty much only go to nude clubs. I can spot the High Milage really easily so i always Get my moneys worth. Only had a problem once in Vegas when the girl demanded a tip before the dance started. If women that of it as strictly business then the priviledge attitude of I'm a hottie goes away and they make more money anda I have more fun!

San_jose_guy 1) it's not adversarial it's just a headsup on how most guys think 2) guys don't make more money then strippers unless they have an advanced degree. But the crux of what I am saying and i didn't say outright but I will now for you and everyone else who didn't get the point. with good salesmenship the sky is the limit, not true with a regular which is most of the strippers clientele. also it largely depends on the area. A lot of strip clubs are in working class nieghborhoods, Then means hourly wage earners. which is the reason I wrote this article on how this people think about there money and how it relates what they think they deserve. 3) The last comment you made, there is no difference between a striipper and a civilian woman as you put it other then their looks. A woman is a woman and she will get what she can. There is no need for guys to surrender before playing the game. what someone is willing to spend is thier own business.

Thats becuase I registered then but didn't use the site till recently