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14 years ago
Are you a sex addict?Scored a 6 here.
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14 years ago
First time at the strip club, appropriate clothing?Staying on topic though: Ryan21, my advice is to just be yourself in there & dress with whatever you're comfortable with...Like a previous post said, if the girl doesn't like the fabric she can just take it off!
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14 years ago
First time at the strip club, appropriate clothing?I haven't joined the "commando & shorts" club yet...but I ALWAYS go in shorts (basketball/casual/cargo), a nice shirt & some nice Jordans/Nikes from my collection...No complaints from the girls in both the clubs I've gone to this year, and the New Year's been very good to me so far! I've got one OTC date/session lined up for the end of this month with a new fav & possibly another one in a couple weeks if I choose to do so =)
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14 years ago
Strippers TattedAgreed! I can deal with small tats as well, if they're in a spot where it'd be hard for me to see it (like on the back of the shoulder) When a woman's body is gorgeous, she shouldn't "deface" it with ink, I say
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14 years ago
OMG, she's HOW old?You know GMD, I like the way you think man...helped put things into perspective! While I do enjoy spending time with the lady...all I seem to think about when I'm with her is when I'm gonna get her into the sack again & again =) Looks like I want the "fuck-buddy hookups" to continue until she and I are tired of each other!
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14 years ago
OMG, she's HOW old?Thanks for the reply, GMD! I've read a lot of the posts here & honestly appreciate the feedback! As for the baby "possibly" being mine, I'd be a man & take care of it if I was the father. If she wanted me to take a paternity test, I'd have no problem there either as it would leave no doubts.
I definitely wouldn't mind some continued sex with her, but I too was wondering about medical reasons & how safe it would be to pursue that route if I took it.
As far as the "relationship" goes, she still wants to spend time & go places with me. We have fun together as people, meaning there's no sex involved...The thing I can't out of my mind is that she's carrying some other guy's baby.
If it's not my kid, what would you do in my shoes? Move on & let that other guy take care of her...or at least keep the "friendship" going? Thanks!
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14 years ago
OMG, she's HOW old?Wow Dandy, my situation is almost the exact same as yours, except my ATF will be turning 34 in two weeks. She looks amazing, doesn't look a day over 25 & also has a son about to enter high school next year. Now's here's the crazy news which I'd like all of your advice on: Right when she got back from a month vacation, I had an excellent OTC session with her and 5 weeks later, she let me know that in that time period she got pregnant!!! We talked about it & I know for a fact that it's not mine because I let her finish me off with a HJ and we used protection...So obviously she hooked up with an on again/off again BF or some other customer and got knocked up! To be honest, I wish it didn't happen because I'm being selfish & just want to fuck her like crazy...but she told me her heart is telling her to keep the baby. I can't wait 9 months for some of her action, so part of me is saying I should move on & avoid any crazy BF/baby daddy problems. My other half (conscience) is telling me that we've built up a really good friendship over the past year, so I want to be there for her when she needs me. What do you all think I should do because I'm torn, man!!!
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14 years ago
TUSCL nick names...I've always been fascinated with ninjas ever since I saw "Revenge of the Ninja" as a kid. Storm Shadow of G.I. Joe fame happens to be my favorite ninja out of all media outlets (TV/movies, comic books, etc.) to the point where I even went to a Halloween party last year dressed as him! The 760 in my name represents where I was born & raised: Oceanside (and San Diego), CA
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14 years ago
Ever Been Spotted OTC ?I went to a club near me for the 2nd time and got some great laps/VIP session from an absolutely gorgeous brunette. Two weeks later (two days ago to be exact), me & some work buddies went out for sushi/beer then proceeded to check out the local mall. I had to leave a bit early, but as I walked toward the exit of the Nordstrom store, the same brunette comes walking in! We locked eyes, passed each other by, then we both did a double take & smiled at each other before going out separate ways...I was about to call her by her stage name, but in the end I just couldn't do it!
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14 years ago
Strip Club Changes...and maybe changes in me tooGreat post, luckyone! I'm in my early 30's, but a lot of the things you've mentioned in here really hit home...I had a post a few weeks ago where I talked about a dancer/friend who I've gone on many friendly "dates" with, only to have her tell me that she was pregnant with some other guy's baby. For a moment, I'd actually thought our "relationship" was going to that next level only to be struck down by the news. It depressed me because I couldn't see it coming, but at least I learned a personal lesson from it. I could never be more than a friend with a girl who does this for a living...and I would be wise to keep any interaction I have with them strictly a fantasy and nothing more.
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14 years ago
Hygiene...why is this so tough for some guys?I agree with Steve's comments. When I hit the club, I shower & make sure I'm freshly shaved down there as well as use a hint of some good smelling cologne. I just wear some comfortable kicks and a nice T-shirt to go with some clean basketball shorts. Honestly, the shorts are just so comfortable and most dancers I've got laps from aren't afraid to slide their hands into them :) As Alucard said also, this type of outfit has never caused a difference or difficulty in my ability to get great service! In fact, dancers just pull 'em down or rip 'em off and it makes the VIP experience easier for both parties!<br type="_moz" />