Comments by djbronx

I don't know about any special H1N1 policy, but I do know that some clubs send dancers home if they show any signs of a cold. No one wants to see a dancer with a runny nose, and also anything spreading from dancer to dancer (via customers?) would put their business in jeopardy.

A dancer recently told me about the only time she worked in a nude club. She was vacationing in LA (from NYC) and wanted some spending money. She claims she didn't realize it was a nude club until she was on stage! (I don't understand this, but I never question a hot babe with her hand on my thigh in the backseat of my car.) She said she was just glad she'd shaved everywhere that morning.

Definitely a little weird getting a GREAT lapdance from a dancer with a cross hanging there right above her titties. Not that I'm complaining...

Oh, casualguy,would hope to keep politics out of it, but you started. Everyone keeps their own "booty"? Who pays for the roads? Firehouses? Sanitation? Gimme a break.

&nbsp;<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; border-collapse: collapse; ">I took her up to the champagne room first time I met her. While up there, she gave me her phone #. &nbsp;Especially since she gave me the # right after I told her about a Nevada brothel visit, I figured this had to be about money. Within six weeks, I'd spent $400 on each of two afternoons in a motel with her (really about 90 min each.) After this my finances tanked (great fuckin timing!). But she starts warming up to me in weird ways AFTER that. Starts letting me drive her to or from club sometimes. We kiss in car, nothing more. She tells me her full name (it checked out ion Facebook). She starts making plans to spend night with me freebie but ALWAYS backs out with some excuse, or, much worse, stands me up cold, the excuse coming sometimes days later. But after 4 1/2 months, total unpaid OTC time not spent as her (happy) chauffer has been one date for drinks. Loads of promises and extremely sweet talk, no requests for $ she knows I don't have. I'm generous at tbe club when I can be, but I'm really strapped. Not only has she given me freebie dances, she even once gave me $20 for gas! But for the past 3 months, no pussy paid or otherwise. Even if all she wanted was this, it would be OK -- great kisser, great eye candy, love to be seen driving with a hot babe on my arm, and she's good company. Always warm and sweet, very real - tells me about her life, the good and bad, &nbsp;asks me smart questions about my life. It's the damn standing up. It's depressing, makes me feel first like a fool and then angry. Opinions?&nbsp;<br /> Opinions?</span>

&nbsp;I'm with Otto - when did clubs become mostly about lapdances? When did they go from spectator to participatory? And where does that weird mud-wrestling fad from the '80s fit in?

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