Stripper Dating

The one I have been seeing for over a year has been great in bed.  POP with her has been $200 otc, $150 itc.  I have had 77 sessions with her in and I get off with her everytime - she is very skillful with lots of stamina.  She has told me she has done both escort and stripping.  Her performance in bed is superior to many other girls I have done.  I do not take her shopping (only ROB's will want you to do that) and when the sex is over she wants to be on her way.  Ok with me.  She does not ask for huge handouts (see my article on Stripper Drama) and although she is married she is easily available for a meeting.  I do not attempt to date strippers in the traditional sense which I would regard as a fools errand.

Gotta start pimping her out to your friends!

I'm one of of those &quot;fools&quot; Player laughs at,&nbsp; I have been dating a stripper &quot;in the traditional sense.&quot;&nbsp; My stripper girlfriend doesn't offer extras at work and in this economy that means she doesn't make as much as some of her co-workers.&nbsp; Still, she is used to guys handing&nbsp;her money and doesn't have any concept of bugeting or saving. &nbsp;GVJA is right, dating a stripper can get very expensive.&nbsp; My GF is&nbsp;very spoiled and doesn't think anything of spending&nbsp;my money whenever we are out. OTOH, sometimes she fixes dinner and rents a movie for a night in and the night's entertainment costs me nothing (though I have yet to se more than a few minutes of any of the movies she has rented).&nbsp; The most positive aspect of dating my stripper GF is she is so highly sexual, she IS good in bed, and on the couch, and on the kitchen counter, and the stairs, the back seat, the beach, and a few other places.<br />
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Much of the stereotypes we attribute to strippers are really true.&nbsp; At the same time they are also human beings, people with friends and family and young women with many of the same concerns and insecurities as young single&nbsp;women with other occupations.&nbsp; I find that whenever I treat a beautiful young woman as someone special, and worth listening to, the reaction I get is positive whether she is a&nbsp;secretary or a stripper.&nbsp; It's just that when&nbsp;I get a date with a stripper I know ahead of time that she is spoiled and has&nbsp;no money sense at all (especially when it is my money!).&nbsp;<br />

&nbsp;<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; border-collapse: collapse; ">I took her up to the champagne room first time I met her. While up there, she gave me her phone #. &nbsp;Especially since she gave me the # right after I told her about a Nevada brothel visit, I figured this had to be about money. Within six weeks, I'd spent $400 on each of two afternoons in a motel with her (really about 90 min each.) After this my finances tanked (great fuckin timing!). But she starts warming up to me in weird ways AFTER that. Starts letting me drive her to or from club sometimes. We kiss in car, nothing more. She tells me her full name (it checked out ion Facebook). She starts making plans to spend night with me freebie but ALWAYS backs out with some excuse, or, much worse, stands me up cold, the excuse coming sometimes days later. But after 4 1/2 months, total unpaid OTC time not spent as her (happy) chauffer has been one date for drinks. Loads of promises and extremely sweet talk, no requests for $ she knows I don't have. I'm generous at tbe club when I can be, but I'm really strapped. Not only has she given me freebie dances, she even once gave me $20 for gas! But for the past 3 months, no pussy paid or otherwise. Even if all she wanted was this, it would be OK -- great kisser, great eye candy, love to be seen driving with a hot babe on my arm, and she's good company. Always warm and sweet, very real - tells me about her life, the good and bad, &nbsp;asks me smart questions about my life. It's the damn standing up. It's depressing, makes me feel first like a fool and then angry. Opinions?&nbsp;<br />
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Djbronx, my opinion is: you gotta close. Don't degrade yourself to being a chauffeur when you could be so much more. All it takes is confidence. Any updates by the way?

I dance and I'm sleeping with someone exclusively. I don't cheat on guys I'm dating hence the reason I'm dating them, I like them only. That being said I understand my job sux from his point of view and wouldn't expect anything serious in the future building way without a long talk about it. I don't understand all the problems guys have with the 'morals' of a stripper.. I know PLENTY of girls who do not dance and who do a lot more than an entertainer does for free and just call it a fun Saturday night. And that's usually kept on the DL.. At least w a stripper you most likely know what the deal is up front and if you really don't want her touching another guy ever. Help her find a new job. She's prob given so many dances the thought of only being with you forever would be a relief. She's got nothing to get out of her system.
All this talk of thieves and lying... I'm sure statistically the number of women who rob and cheat their husbands are majority women who do not dance. There is no guarantee either way. I do think though if your partner is a drug addict.. Be careful regardless of their job. That's a problem not solved by change of vocation.

City Kitty, how in the world did young ins this article. I wrote it 4 years ago when I first got divorced and dated my first dancer. My opinion has changed. And btw you seem like a nice girl. Dated 3-4 more dancers and a few other non dancers since this article. You are right. Woman can need something monetary from a guy whether they dance or not. And I was wrong to generalize all dancers were like my first one. Actually dated a couple that were normal just had some needs that only dancing could provide enough money to overcome. (Bad divorces. Dead beat exes who skipped on child support. School needs. Sick parents.) but I take back what I said in 2009. Several dancers I got to know during a 2 yr relationship with one in particular were actually fun normal girls. They mostly treated their guys good. But they did know how to play their customers. Lol. I've heard some hilarious stories the last few yrs that I can't believe what guys do to send these nice looking women money just for a little ITC attention. It's crazy. I wouldn't do some of that stuff for 3 women and all the OTC benefits I could handle. Lol. Hey if you ever find yourself in Memphis working get the word out and we'll come visit you. Take care.