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11 years ago
Cops make big money under the table. I agree with the previous comment. If he gives you a grand but wants nothing ITC. Then asks you to meet OTC. The grand didn't mean much to him. And if you ever see him again be cautious. A cop that blows that kind of money without a worry are prob gonna be trouble for you down the road.
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11 years ago
City Kitty, how in the world did young ins this article. I wrote it 4 years ago when I first got divorced and dated my first dancer. My opinion has changed. And btw you seem like a nice girl. Dated 3-4 more dancers and a few other non dancers since this article. You are right. Woman can need something monetary from a guy whether they dance or not. And I was wrong to generalize all dancers were like my first one. Actually dated a couple that were normal just had some needs that only dancing could provide enough money to overcome. (Bad divorces. Dead beat exes who skipped on child support. School needs. Sick parents.) but I take back what I said in 2009. Several dancers I got to know during a 2 yr relationship with one in particular were actually fun normal girls. They mostly treated their guys good. But they did know how to play their customers. Lol. I've heard some hilarious stories the last few yrs that I can't believe what guys do to send these nice looking women money just for a little ITC attention. It's crazy. I wouldn't do some of that stuff for 3 women and all the OTC benefits I could handle. Lol. Hey if you ever find yourself in Memphis working get the word out and we'll come visit you. Take care.
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11 years ago
Good story. Happens too often. Good guys helping women who won't help themselves. Been there. Not to anything close to that extent. But at some point you realize no matter what you do for them, they can't/won't change. Change your number man. Only sure way to get her away from you. Good luck.
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13 years ago
George, I agree with some of the other guys. You aren't a PL but you got to keep it real man. These girls are all the same. When they meet you in the club, you will always be a trick to them. I have been with a half dozen myself otc the last 3 years. I always kept one as my favorite, but kept a minimum of 2 on the side. Don't fall in love with a stripper and you can have a good time. They are just entertainment and once you get tired of the ones you have, get you another couple of new ones. Sometimes entertainment is better than committment. Sometimes its the other way around. Just remember, she needs you more than you need her. YOU have the cash !!!
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13 years ago
OhioVoyeur, good luck with that. Be ready though for a let down. I've dated 2 the last 3 years for over 15 months each. They may like you, but its always gonna be about the money. Unless you can do something for her its short term. Walk away or keep it casual with set expectations.
Sex is great when you are 40 and they are 24-18 yrs old, but think about it...Walk away.
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13 years ago
Strippers are usually attractive women who like attention and money. They want both and a lot of it, so as long as you remember that everything will be straight....I dated 2 for over 15 months each in last 3 years. Drama is what you get in return. It was fun and the sex great, but not worth the drama. Walk away.