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16 years ago
Dude, you need to find some new clubs or something.
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16 years ago
I hear that. I have two that I'm currently seeing socially, from the same club and ran into an ex today. Unfortunately she's involved but I find it best not to keep them secret from each other. When ever you do they always find out then you're really screwed. Got off point,when ever we go out it's like any other date, you never know what's going to happen. They are women after all. lol
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16 years ago
Like I said, maybe another time and thread. I'd still like the dancer's perspective even if it has to be antecdotal(sp) but persoanl experience is always better. Details not required but would be interesting LOL
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16 years ago
lol Got it. Maybe some other time and thread. I'd love to know or at lest try to understand the dancers perspective in general in this area. Having had good and bad myself I understand the individual perspective. I know many dancers become jaded about men after a while but there really are some men out there that are decent or at least try to be.
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16 years ago
Wonergrl2, don't mean to get to personal but, have you ever dated OTC andI mean dated or had a relationship? From a dancers perspective, as long as you are safe and in control, what's the downside. MIght help some of us to know that point of view.
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16 years ago
I'll check them out for you. The one, if you read the reviews would not excite you but they are a little old. New GM. Was a dancer for twenty years so she understands the business. Totally remodling and she has some great ideas to put in place but is looking for the right girls. I suspect she would find you about perfect. Like downplaying the bouncers and using a womwn like a hostess for the couch and VIP areas. More to it but you get the idea.
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16 years ago
Wondergrl2, I'm not sure where you are in Jersey but if outside Philly, North side I think, isn't too far I know a couple of club owners/GMS that I can talk too. They will give me the straiht story on their clubs and if they fit I'll let you know and you can check them out. I'll check on the money too. Let me know about distance. May not be able to get to them for a couple of days though.
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16 years ago
Great image! lol Seriously, I've dated many dancers, some with good, even great results, some not so good. Some short term and some relatively long. I think one of the keys to getting that "date" if you want it is to communicate a few times prior to returning. These ladies get propositioned all the time and they need to feel comfortable with you. But whatever you do keep your head on straight and remember the TEETH.
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16 years ago
Maybe you should ask her. May be alot of deep psycholgical reasons or it could be as simple as she feels they treat her better and she feels safer with them. Anybody's guess.
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16 years ago
FONDL
That was my impression as well. You just expressed it better. A class lady doesn't need and shouldn't be put in a situation with those expectations and pressues.
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16 years ago
I just figured that nice club owners played that song as a favor to us, kind of a subliminal message to the dancers.
When my first wife and I were just dating she explained that when she was young that is how it was explained to her and that they were special. And if she sucked it juuusst right it would melt. Thank god she loved lollipops.
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16 years ago
wow..just thinking, when you try to use one of them nothing happens. Could there be some symbolism there?
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16 years ago
Just an after thought, I doubt that there are many, if any, virgin dancers out there so the question is not whether or not they have sex but with whom. The question becomes do you, we, meet the standards of the dancer. Personnaly I'd rather be with the tougher standards than the lady who is doing everyone and hopefully it will worth the challenge. I'll take my chances on that.
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16 years ago
I might suggest that that same correlation exists with your escort and particularly street walkers. When you eliminate "serious need and addiction" from the equation I would submit that there is an inverse correlation to the guys. Who is doing the asking, how they do it and how they treat the ladies. But then that's no different than the real world except that it's probably easier in the real world. Not as much experience per woman in being propositioned.
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16 years ago
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motorheadFat, drunk and stupid is no way to go through life
Zeda...
but she was hot
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16 years ago
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motorheadFat, drunk and stupid is no way to go through life
LOL
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16 years ago
Thanks Wondergrl2!! Sometimes my mouth, or this case my fingers, are in gear and I forget to engage my brain. Then some people are just...
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16 years ago
Clarification
In re-reading an earlier post of mine questioning full service I realized that that may be worded badly. This was in no way intended as a suggestion as to the proclivity of wondergrl5 past, present or future or a suggestion as to the direction she should go. In fact I think it would be a mistake for any quality dancer which I percieve she is to mnove in that direction. It was intended to address the reputation and atmosphere of the club. It seemed to me that she was, and justly so, concerned over that type of atmosphere being potentially detrimental to her well being. Wondergrl5, if I offened you in any way I do apologize and to her friends in this forum as well.
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16 years ago
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motorheadFat, drunk and stupid is no way to go through life
Do you have a super hero outfit to go with the name?
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16 years ago
True, but the gray areas in between seem to be becoming less and less with the trend being to the more "service" oriented. I think this is because of an influx of dancers willing to provide more and more for free so additional service becomes a way of staying ahead. I dont know but it seems that way. Not saying that I think that's the way it should be but just what I've observed.
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16 years ago
If you mean by full contact that full service isn't an issue there are alot of possibilities evenin your area.
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16 years ago
Misterguy
You may well be right, however, I question whether the cost of trying to find the ones that are doing well and then the cost of being there will be offset plus a gain with what she can earn. She said she was considering this because business was slow in her area, hence low $$$
As to being "exposed" to different ways of doing things, my sense is that she is not into FS types of environments. Could be wrong but that's my guess.
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16 years ago
You may find hitting the convention cities in late fall and winter more worthwhile. As to Tampa, there are or were an number of good clubs on the Clearwater/St. Pete end of the causeway but they tend to be kinda quiet in the summer and busy when the snowbirds arrive. Don't really know the ones in Tampa
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16 years ago
Just wondering, since the economy is bad everywhere is it logical to think 1 top 40 club is going to be that much better than another. Especially when you you figure the cost of traveling?
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16 years ago
Damn I gotta get a new dictionary.