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17 years ago
Easy. You found litter on the ground when you were walking to your car, and since you absolutely hate litter, you picked it up and put it in your pocket, to throw away when you got home.
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17 years ago
I have one dancer with long, long blonde hair. Love her to death, but I am forever plucking these long blonde strands off my clothes. (The wife's a brunette.) Other than that, I always make sure I wash thoroughly before coming home. No biting or scratching is ever allowed. And I delete every "bad" email sent or received, and then empty the trash bin of my computer, every single time I'm on the computer. Oh, and my credit card bill goes to my office, not home.
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17 years ago
Very interesting thread. It did not occur to me that a lot of you guys would be older, I guess only because I do not see a lot of older gentlemen in the clubs. I'm also happily married, but I am curious about that too. I have pretty good and regular sex with my wife, but I also like the variety of having sex with other women too. Are other guys in the same boat? It seems some guys have shitty marriages and that's why they do this; some guys have good marriages but no actual sex, and that's why they do this; some guys have good marriages and ample sex at home, and so they do NOT have sex with other women. I don't fall into any other of these categories. I have a good marriage, plenty of sex, but I still like the variety of sex with other women. I hope I'm not the only guy like that.
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17 years ago
I appreciate the jokes. Like you said, to each his own, but I've never ended up with shit on my penis from anal sex. I'm not obsessed about anal, but it is certainly something I love doing. And generally there's just a lot of sex you can get with an escort you can never or almost never get in a club -- it's not the club's fault, but they can't manage to provide the kind of involved service you can get from a two hour session in a locked hotel room. All I'm pointing out is that there are pros and cons on both sides of the ledger. If I am feeling horny on the way home and want a QF, I'll stop by a SC or an AMP. But if want to hire two girls for several rounds of greek, atm, fs, daty, snowballing, etc., etc., then I'm going to send an email to one of my better escorts and settup a date for 3 weeks from now. Depends on the mood.
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17 years ago
It's not surprising that on a site like this most people would prefer SCs, I guess. You'd get the opposite reaction on TER. I have very mixed feelings, and see no reason why I can't monger both ways.
There are some sound reasons to favor escorts. I actually think LE is more of a concern for me in a SC. Last night I fucked a girl in a LD room with no door and about 60 people in the other room 20 feet away. That strikes me as more of a risk than screwing a girl in a hotel room with a locked door. And AMPs are very high risk for LE; they get busted in my area all the time. I also do not find escorts to be ugly or old. There are hags, but they are easily avoidable if you use one of the review boards. I also think honesty compels me to acknowledge that I can ultimately get a higher level of service with an escort, if I am willing to expend the time and money. Honestly, when was the last time anyone here got greek at a SC?
But having said that, for all the reasons people have cited, there are a lot of positives for SCs, including spontaniety, variety and the socializing. It seems to me there's no reason to choose. If I want to go to a club and play with a lot of girls on the fly I'll do that. If I want to rendevous with one of my favorite whores for a 2 hours session of fucking and sucking, I'll do that. Thankfully we still live in a free country.
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17 years ago
I prefer NQNS -- not a quitter, not a spitter.
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17 years ago
How cute
CIM - cum in mouth
BBBJ - bareback blow job (no condom)
greek - anal
FS -- full service, what Bill Clinton calls "sex"
asian - ass rimming
russian - tit fucking
french - oral sex
daty - dining at the Y (cunnilingus)
atm - ass to mouth
LFK - light french kissing
DFK - deep french kissing
of course there are many others
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17 years ago
I've traveled a similar road. I remember living in WDC when you could pick up a hooker on the street about as easily as a cup of coffee, and SCs where the dancers (not the LDs, the actual dancers on stage) would shove their twats in your face and then take you "upstairs" to the on premises brothel. Ah, those were the days. My feelings are somewhat mixed. For ASPs, you get a longer session, more involved, greater privacy, etc. That makes it more likely to get a wider range of FS, DATY, BBBJ, greek, etc. On the other hand, really good ASPs require decent advance booking, sometimes days or even weeks in advance for the really popular ones, plus lots of advance planning to rendevous at the location, etc., etc. It's a little hard to explain to my wife why I suddenly need to disappear for several hours. At SCs, the range of service is generally less (I've gotten FS, DATY and BJ, but never greek), but it requires almost no advance planning, just a little luck. I can hit a joint on the way home, and if the right girl is there, get it on and be on my way with no one the wiser. I think the cost is pretty comparable if you are talking similar service -- i.e., a session in the back room is much the same as a session with an ASP. I also agree with you that the right SC can afford a nice atmosphere to socialize. Last but not least, SCs provide the possibility of OTC relations, which I think are pretty hard to develop with ASPs, unless you are prepared to spend thousands of dollars. On the other hand, just watching naked girls writhe or having someone rub against me is no substitute for actual FS, so you have to be at the right SC with the right girl.
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17 years ago
I appreciate the response by FONDL. As for the others telling me not to post, I think these are ridiculous complaints. First, in my post I explicitly named places where "extras" were provided and got into detail, so I am obviously willing to share info up front. The idea that someone has to hang out here before making a reasonable post is just stupid. Second, I have been around the block, probably before you were born. I've been mongering for 25 years, in every possible venue, from streetwalkers to high class ASPs to AMPs and SC's I've probably been doing this before some of you stopped wearing diapers. I don't need to be lectured about my need to learn about the trade. My ass has been on the road -- and in a lot of places besides nj -- for years. New to the SCs in NJ only, not new to the scene. Third, I read countless reviews in north jersey before posting. Most of them were useless. The reviewers are usually vague to the point of meaninglessness, and/or a lot of the reviewers are too shy/stupid/whatever to find out what is available. I am pretty used to TER, where people do not "hint around," but TER does not cover SC reviews. If this site is so lame that you guys feel the need to keep "secret" information (or perhaps more likely, so lame because you've never gotten more than a HJ at a SC), then it was a waste of my $$ to join. I hope the majority of mongers in NJ are not that dumb, and realize that we all win when we share info with each other (just as I have already shared info with all of you in my first post).