Can a good personality or stage presence overcome bad looks?
DandyDan
North Iowa
I went to my favorite club tonight and it was marked by the return of one of my old favorites from 4 years ago. That's a story unto itself, but anyway, she let herself go physically. She was heavy before, but now she is downright fat. And she is also in need of a good dentist as well, which is a story she told me about. Nevertheless, she got ALL the guys, and maybe a few of the ladies, to tip her on stage, probably because she puts on a high energy show, she has a sunny disposition and she seems unconcerned, at least publicly, about her weight. Of course, I ended up getting a dance from her, and I wasn't the only one. Just how much do personality and stuff that doesn't have to do with looks matter? It can't be everything, can it?
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You stated, "Most of us have plenty of average or below average looking female friends outside the club. And most, if not all, of them have excellent personalities." This may be true, but do you see them dancing nude and yourself buying dances from them?
I will say that for the satellite tips, I normally look at how their show is on the main stage and if I liked the way they danced I would tip the girls on satellite. However, I have probably tipped a few that didn't dance that well just because they had good looks. Just wouldn't go to the couch with them.
But when it comes to fat women, I agree -- the fatties really don't have any business taking off their clothes for money. PERIOD. When they show up on stage I avert my vision.
In the darkness (we hope) of the VIP, a BBBJ from a 5 generally feels about the same as one from a 9...except for the price perhaps. Average personality usually does just fine.
That makes sense to me, and I agree, to a point. Sort of like what mmdv26 said. Being in the dark getting a good blow job is "just fine", even if the woman is a 5, has a bad personality, or both.
personality makes all the difference. some of the attitudes you don't figure out until in the dance, some you get up front. the one's I find out up front that have an attitude I don't like, i'm done with them. but if a 5 has a good attitude and gives great dances, i'll get dances.
Now, all things being equal and a 5 and 10 both have great personalities and give great dances, sure I'll go for the 10. luckily at PP there are a lot of 8-10's that give great dances. But I've gotten my fair share of dances from the lower end of the spectrum because..they were great dances. Not looking for a girlfriend, eye candy or congrats from the other guys in the club
To answer your question... yes, I think so, but not so much. I've got to be physically attracted already in order for personality/stage-work to boost a girl's "rating." Curvy is cool, but flabby is not.
A fun, flirty 7 beats a bitchy 9 in my book too.
As someone put it in another thread, "if I wanted bitchy, I could stay home and get it for free."
I'm sorry, if the girl is ugly/fat, I don't care how fun and flirty she is or how well she can dance on stage. I am just not going to be interested in getting LD's from her or seeing her naked. So no, IMO nothing can overcome "BAD" looks on a girl in a SC.