Sometimes at night I just enjoy relaxing in a strip club and drinking a beer, much the same way I like relaxing in a coffee shop in the afternoon and drinking coffee. Do you ever do that or are you focused on some sort of sexual contact with a stripper like lap dances or something more? Also, do you like big screen televisions playing sports, strip club food, pool tables, dj patter and the music they play or anything else on offer at a strip club?
Hanging out in strip clubs
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No need to spend money non stop when your at the strip club. Sit down, grab a mixed drink or a beer, and enjoy stage show and the hot girls walking around in thongs.
@ilovehotwhitestrippers This is what to do at Scarlett’s Hallandale and on Saturday after midnight (tech Sunday) Vixens Davie
And even Centerfolds Boston (/shudder)
When I'm with club friends (or friends who club) I can spend hours in the club. When I'm solo, unless there's an interesting dancer who just wants to sit and talk I'm there to get what I want in VIP and look for prospects.
When I'm going solo, I often enjoy just sitting, watching, and chatting with the girls. Buying a few drinks maybe. I'm not a huge fan of lap dances, except as an opportunity to chat with a dancer in a slightly more private setting. And if an opportunity arises for a good VIP, so much the better.
If I'm with other guys though, I tend to lose interest in that vibe pretty quickly. A half hour or so, and I'm done. The dancers are far more interesting.
I think it really comes down to there's no one "right way" to club but plenty of ways to club wrong. Many more wrong ways, so it never really gets old talking about the hobby unless we're retreading Strip Club 101 stuff.
Since I have just recently started visiting one club more since I met my latest CF in October 2025, sometimes I buy dances and sometimes I just bring her coffee and snacks, and we chat as she works the room. The people watching especially on a weekend can be quite fun. I learned recently other dancers at the club are a little envious how I treat her. I do not spend a lot of money on it and she is very appreciative. I keep saying to all us patrons, make sure you are clean, brush your teeth, comb your hair, make sure you cloths are clean, and say please and thank you OR also no thank you. Be polite.
I like all the things the club offers, because variety is a spice to life. Yet I don’t like going to bed at night knowing the world looks with contempt and sees us as only creepy perverts with no self control. It’s not true, because I didn’t spend everything I made on the hobby….
Yeah but honestly just hanging out in a club like that isn't really a thing anymore in most of the country. The dancers and the club want you buying dances and drinks. The second you stop they want you gone. I get it everything is expensive nowadays and the girls are there to make money. Still sometimes it would be nice to just sit and drink without the pressure to get dances right away or buy some crazy expensive bottle. And while I am there for the girls I've got to say I've met some really cool people in the clubs too. They bring in a lot of characters and it's fun to chat.
The only spots I've found that still let you do that are places like Cheetahs in Pompano or San Diego. Maybe Baby Dolls in Dallas or Bourbon Street in Phoenix. Most of the Vegas, Atlanta and SF clubs don't care at all. They want a drink in your hand at all times, tipping too, and if you're not doing that the staff push you out with bad service and the dancers all ignore you.
Historically, when I went to certain strip clubs, some of the night would end up being the part where I talked with the bartender or whoever else was at the bar. That doesn't happen much anymore, though.
"...where I talked with the bartender or whoever else was at the bar. That doesn't happen much anymore, though."
As much as I hate to admit it, I've cut back on my socializing at the club because it gets to be a lot when you're trying to show some appreciation to basically everyone who knows you. But I just cashed in a HASE that I in no way saw coming from a girl I would tip just because I thought she was hot, so it's worth the time to keep things friendly.
Sometimes the CHPB ability to sit is good sometimes it’s not (when you want dances but no one is approaching you)
The Pink Pony feels like my "Cheers" bar. While nobody calls out my name (usually), most inside know me and are generally friendly. I have my preferred bar and seat, enjoy convo with my regular girls and sometimes a new face, and am always open to $10 nude bar-side dances. Occasionally, if the girl, mood, and timing align, a VIP can happen, but not generally seeking that.
re: Other stuff - There are many big-screen TVs, but I don't follow sports so don't really care. Wished they played dancer or porn videos instead. The club's food is basically bar-level, but better than it has to be. It's nice to have and sometimes share with the girls. No pool tables, which is fine. It means more booths for LDs. DJ patter is good because it helps separate songs and hearing stage girls' names. Thankfully the volume for that and the music are reasonable. Never a problem conversing with the girls.
There are always a few top-notch, English-speaking girls there, which makes nearly every visit fun, even if just hanging at the bar with a beer.