I've become a regular at my club and always go in on the same night of the week each week. The girls are on a schedule so I see the same ones and have struck a sort of strip club relationship with them. My 3 main all have names that begin with M so lets say, M1, M2 and M3. M1 was the first and one I've known the longest. We have a fine bit of chat and decent dances. M2 came along after, again mutual creative interests, fine chat, good dances. Most recently, M3 - fun and hot dances, a bit younger than the other 2. M3 and I have traded numbers and text periodically. They all know each other and (supposedly) support each other while also (supposedly) not minding sharing regulars, they tell me.
Last night I texted M3 to tell her I was going to be there around my usual time and looked forward to seeing her. M2 was at the bar when I came in and grabbed me immediately. Got my drink and we went into the main room. Passing through we saw M1 and I waved, she blew me a kiss. I didn't see M3. Chat with M2 and getting ready for a dance when she has to go on stage (with M3 but I didn't catch her name being called). As soon as she's on stage, M1 comes over. I told her I was waiting for M2 but I'd see her and by the way, also M3 - all of my "girlfriends." M1 suggested dances while M2 was onstage so we did 3 through her set and then 1 more. M1 left and she sends M2 over. I do 5 dances with her and tell her I want to see M3, does she know where she is. That's when she says, M3 sitting right over there and points a bit a way. I couldn't tell, place is always dark and I didn't have my glasses on (prevents smudges IYKYK). M2 says she'll send her over. I watch as she goes over to M3 and says something to her. She leaves her and M3 just stays sitting for a bit, then she gets up, sort of walks half way over and stops, looks like she's thinking whether or not she's coming over and I'm wondering what's up. She finally does come over, sits on my lap. M3 says she's upset. At the beginning of the shift, she told M1 and M2 that I had texted her about coming in that evening. She then felt that they had blocked me from them when I arrived and didn't tell her that I was there even while M2 and M3 where on stage together. She's obviously mad and hurt but we talk, I let her know she's my favorite and she'll get more dances from me than either of them but she's still thinking it shouldn't be that way. She warms up though and we have 7 dances before she's called to the stage (with M2 again) and I have to go. Before I leave I tip M2 and then M3 and tell her I'll see her next week.
In the cab home, I see M3 had sent me a text while I was with either M1 or M2 saying they blocked her from me and hope I have fun. She didn't mention she sent me this text but it's obviously a reaction. I respond that I did have fun with her and not to let M1 and M2 get to her. No response but I didn't really expect one. Our texts are not really conversational.
So.. sorry for the long story. Thoughts on how to continue to play this? M1 and M2 perhaps entertain me a bit more intellectually but geeze, M3 is more fun and has the better sensual dances. Never thought I'd ever end up in this sort of position and I'm too much of a PL to want to have any of them upset. Btw, maybe this is material maybe not, M1 & M2 are both Russian.
The first lesson is, when dealing with people under 40, look at your phone as often as if you were a doomscroller, even if you aren't one. If they text you, they assume you are going to see it pretty quickly.
If you have any people in your life you can really count on, it's rare that you need more than the fingers on one hand to count them. Those are the only people you should feel confident will pass on a message for you.
I'd be skeptical that M3 was actually hurt. But, if she was, it's not a committed relationship, so she needs put on her big girl pants.
From what your're saying, M3 is the best provider of what we go to strip clubs for. So, me personally, I'd save my money for her, only spend on the other two if she was too busy to give me as much time with her as I could afford. After all, dustyj and Puddy Tat will give you all the intellectual entertainment you can handle, for free. But, I would not accept it if M3 gave any ultimatums, or nagged excessively, about getting dances from others.
One of the most beautiful dancers I've ever met was originally from NYC. But she had only danced in LI clubs, never passed the audition at any Manhattan club. So crossing the East River is always something you could try, to bypass stripper drama.