Yeah I’m talking to you ! The guy who is endlessly swiping and messaging women in their dms hoping to fuck, just STOP! You’re wasting your time and I’ll tell you why. One day I was with this chick and she was like a 7. Absolutely bangable by all means but nothing to write home about. Anyway she let me see her phone and she showed me her dms, which had over 300 messages from random dudes. Doing more begging than a Keith sweat song. Then I looked at her dating account which also had 100+ likes.
I asked her do you ever respond? She said “only if I’m bored or need a confidence boost. Other than that hardly if ever “ I knew women always had it easy but damn. It really put things into perspective. Even in my experience all my sexual experiences has been with women I met in person not online. I even swiped on women I already had sex with from meeting in person and never got matched with them.
I feel like as a man online dating is very reactive because you’re relying on a woman to make the approach which is something they never do. So you’re missing out on a lot of ass that way.
When I engaged in online dating in my early fifties, I had pretty good luck with divorced women over forty looking for a replacement husband for an unsatisfactory one they had gotten rid of. While girls in their twenties are in high demand, the dating market value of women rapidly drops after the age of forty. I eventually decided I preferred strip clubs rather than spending time with middle aged divorced women past their prime.