During the normal usual course of conversation or interaction, I'll drop some hints and then wait for a hint that she'll be receptive or whether my hints went into one ear and out of the other.
It depends what you're looking for, and how patient you're willing to be. If you say "is there a way I can find out when you'll be in the club?", that's very unlikely to seem pushy to any stripper. She might tell you to look at the club's social media, or tell you when she normally works. Or give you a way to DM with her. Best not to voice call her. And to be patient about getting responses. (Good practice in general with anyone you're not actually personal with.) If you only go to the club to find dancers down for OTC, you could ask something like "do dancers here get fired for seeing customers outside the club". That usually works to sidestep the "do I look like a hooker" reaction.
Me: What kind of food is your favorite?
Her: Thai food. It's soooo yummy!
Me: Really? I never tried it.
Her: It's really good.
Me: I wouldn't know what to order.
Non-Receptive
Her: For a first time, I suggest a vegetarian dish. You can Google for local Thai restaurant menus and look for vegetarian and try a small take out.
Me: Yea, O.K.
Receptive
Her: For a first time, I suggest a vegetarian dish. I know of a couple of nearby Thai restaurants that have excellent vegetarian dishes. The menu may be confusing, but you can always ask questions.
Me: Sounds good, but I would feel more comfortable if I had someone to help me navigate the menu.
Her: You could always ask me.
Me: Great - phone number, please!
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last commentDuring the normal usual course of conversation or interaction, I'll drop some hints and then wait for a hint that she'll be receptive or whether my hints went into one ear and out of the other.
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After you cum in her mouth.
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It depends what you're looking for, and how patient you're willing to be. If you say "is there a way I can find out when you'll be in the club?", that's very unlikely to seem pushy to any stripper. She might tell you to look at the club's social media, or tell you when she normally works. Or give you a way to DM with her. Best not to voice call her. And to be patient about getting responses. (Good practice in general with anyone you're not actually personal with.) If you only go to the club to find dancers down for OTC, you could ask something like "do dancers here get fired for seeing customers outside the club". That usually works to sidestep the "do I look like a hooker" reaction.
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It works like this,
Me: What kind of food is your favorite? Her: Thai food. It's soooo yummy! Me: Really? I never tried it. Her: It's really good. Me: I wouldn't know what to order.
Non-Receptive Her: For a first time, I suggest a vegetarian dish. You can Google for local Thai restaurant menus and look for vegetarian and try a small take out. Me: Yea, O.K.
Receptive Her: For a first time, I suggest a vegetarian dish. I know of a couple of nearby Thai restaurants that have excellent vegetarian dishes. The menu may be confusing, but you can always ask questions. Me: Sounds good, but I would feel more comfortable if I had someone to help me navigate the menu. Her: You could always ask me. Me: Great - phone number, please!
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I haven’t had you in a very long time. Use if I see one three times or more she’s offering… Her number
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