When to ask for a stripper's number?

During the normal usual course of conversation or interaction, I'll drop some hints and then wait for a hint that she'll be receptive or whether my hints went into one ear and out of the other.

After you cum in her mouth.

It depends what you're looking for, and how patient you're willing to be. If you say "is there a way I can find out when you'll be in the club?", that's very unlikely to seem pushy to any stripper. She might tell you to look at the club's social media, or tell you when she normally works. Or give you a way to DM with her. Best not to voice call her. And to be patient about getting responses. (Good practice in general with anyone you're not actually personal with.) If you only go to the club to find dancers down for OTC, you could ask something like "do dancers here get fired for seeing customers outside the club". That usually works to sidestep the "do I look like a hooker" reaction.

It works like this,

Me: What kind of food is your favorite? Her: Thai food. It's soooo yummy! Me: Really? I never tried it. Her: It's really good. Me: I wouldn't know what to order.

Non-Receptive Her: For a first time, I suggest a vegetarian dish. You can Google for local Thai restaurant menus and look for vegetarian and try a small take out. Me: Yea, O.K.

Receptive Her: For a first time, I suggest a vegetarian dish. I know of a couple of nearby Thai restaurants that have excellent vegetarian dishes. The menu may be confusing, but you can always ask questions. Me: Sounds good, but I would feel more comfortable if I had someone to help me navigate the menu. Her: You could always ask me. Me: Great - phone number, please!

I haven’t had you in a very long time. Use if I see one three times or more she’s offering… Her number

I never ask for a dancer's phone number, but if I have even a halfway decent connection with her, she'll usually volunteer it right off the bat. I've even had dancers give me their number before I've ever done a single dance with them, which seems a little goofy to me, but...whatever...

I wish I could remember her name but it's been 20 years since this unfamous extras dancer at the Columbia Platinum Plus used to have her name and number already printed on a piece of paper ready to hand out. Also you needed to take a number to get dances from her.

It just came back to me. Her name was Gwen.

I just go with my gut. If a stripper makes a really good first impression and I want to increase the chances of catching up in the future, I'll ask.

What are you planning on doing with the number?

Shadowcat, Good ole Gwen! Whose weight fluctuated on the amount of cocaine/heroin consumed

I find that dancers can be choosy about who they give their number to but will generally give their IG or Snap out to anyone

"...Whose weight fluctuated on the amount of cocaine/heroin consumed"

I was trying to remember her dancer name, but now I'm just stuck on the other one...

Answers vary. Some clubs get strict and won't let dancers share digits. On the other extreme i have asked and gotten numbers or had them offered after the first dance.

Expect that two things can be done with a number: 1) ask if they are working that day or 2) have her ask if you are coming to see her at work.

I don't ask. Whether they offer or not is a barometer of their interest level. If you ask they may give it to avoid an awkward situation even though they have no interest in OTC, so forcing the issue can just fuck things up. Other options will always come down the pike

Best to wait tor her to offer it. Otherwise, you will come across as desperate/needy/creepy.

When I feel like she might say yes. Or she asks for mine.

I'm of the opinion of the best time to ask for a dancer's number is sooner than later.

It's a matter of that Wayne Gretzky quote "You miss 100% of the shots you don't take" And also, fortune favors the bold.

Me, if I meet a dancer, pay for a few dances, and they are good and hot, and there is a vibe, I will ask right then and there.

And I have a particular way in going about it. I do not say "Can I have your number?" I will now more likely say "Let's exchange numbers." I'm offering something, an exchange, a suggestion, not a question.

I've been SCing for going on two years now, though not at always full consistency, a few months in a row where I was inactive, and seven dancer's numbers have been entered into my phone.

This has been one of the least complicated, easiest aspects of this hobby for me.

I've been told that I'm handsome, and I'm tall, have a symmetrical face, will spend, bring a fun/party type of vibe.

Maybe these are some of the reasons/factors why it's so easy to get numbers.

With one particular dancer while sitting at the bar she kisses me on the cheek, puts her hand in between my legs and does the stripper's handshake, and then she puts her number in my phone.

But getting a number in itself does not constitute a guaranteed OTC.

I've yet to hook up an OTC. I don't think getting a dancer's number now carries the same weight it did 10, 20 years ago, or further back in another era.

The number is a business contact. When a dancer texts me, it's to tell me she is working, and if I text her I'm asking if she's working.

And the text messages ( from either of us) just stop being sent when she stops dancing.

The best time to ask for her number is when you've decided that she's worth making a return trip to see.