How common is it for male strip club staff (managers, bouncers, DJ, bartenders) to be having sex with or dating dancers?
Years ago, I bought dances and VIP’s from a dancer at the Deja Vu whenever I passed through town. One time I came in after a few months away to find she was pregnant. It turns out the doorman (who I occasionally talked with) was the baby’s father. She ended up raising the kid as a single mom in a trailer park. This dancer’s best friend who I had also bought dances and VIP’s with a few times was dating/fucking the owner of that club. She would talk bad about him behind his back, but the preferential treatment she got at work was too good to keep her legs closed.
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last commentI would guess it goes on pretty regularly, they're all transactional folks, if they can gain an advantage, most people that work in this industry, will use what they have.
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I've got a lot of stories about this from dancers. Every dude from the parking attendant to the club owner was getting some. Especially at the famous Follies.
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No matter how widespread it is, it would not surprise me. It is inherent to the nature of that line of work. I still believe it was full strippershit (for several reasons) but a CF once claimed the owner of the club she worked at was openly demanding favors and attention when he was drunk at the club and showing off for friends. I partly disbelieve it because this is a strictly low mileage club and I'm pretty certain owned by a group and not and individual. However, these clubs are known for take out and loose dancers.
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I mean, people bang their co-workers. It happens in vanilla workplaces all the time.
I think the situation is exacerbated by the hyper-sexual nature of the club. Sometimes dancers sleep with owners or managers for some sort of preferential treatment. But more commonly I think, these club relationships are just regular romantic interests, just significantly more fraught with peril due to the nature of the club.
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Of course. My younger self certainly would if I worked at a club. Wouldn’t you?
I worked at TGIFridays type restaurant when I was young with tons of hot young waitresses. Sex/romance among the staff was rampant. It was the most fun job I ever had!
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I doubt there is an owner out there who hasn’t banged one of his strippers. Did ya ever work in a donut shop??
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