Can't we all just get along?

I've been a member here for a number of years, and yet have never posted on the Discussion Board. But, as a daily reader (at least M-F), I've found many interesting questions, answers and thoughts posted. It seems to me that recently - oh, in the last six months or so - unnecessary and irrelevant personal attacks have escalated. From my perspective, everybody has something to offer concerning this "hobby." Some like to toot their own horn; some like to keep it detailed and local; some like to philosophize; etc. Why not take it for what it's worth and leave the ad hominen attacks out.
Yes, if you look at my review history, it's rather limited, but I've been going to strip clubs since I was 18 in Austin, Texas. Now, 30 years later, married, middle-aged with children, I don't get out as much as I'd like to.
Finally, a quick response to the previous post: I'm a nice guy and strippers appreciate that as much as any other female. I'm chivalrous, courteous, generouse and as horny as the next guy. All the above seem to give me forgiveness when the hands start wandering.
We're all just people, living day-to-day, paying bills, meeting responsibilities sometimes successfully, sometimes not, hoping that we are living a good life and forgiving ourselves of our weaknesses.
And I believe all but a few of the patrons and strippers out there are the same.