Approaching in a Strip Club

I will approach a girl to ask her to stop when she is ready. It's up to her to return. I don't ask a second time.

^ What fun said.
I learned a long time ago if someone catches your eye don't hesitate to approach her (in a SC anyway) if you wait for her to come to you she easily could be snatched up by someone else.
I see little downside by asking if they would join you they either oblige or they don't.

Ye who hesitates masturbates!

Once I have seen most of the talent available (or I am getting to the point where I just tired of sitting around), I will make an approach on the dancer(s) I am most interested in. Stop her at the bar or wherever and ask for a dance, or ask if she would like to sit with me. On the one hand strip clubs are nice as it is usually up to the women to make the approach. But it is the other side of the same hand that dancers are much more receptive to an approach from a PL than anywhere else in life. On average, I would say the quality of dances I have gotten is slightly better when I make the approach on the dancer, with a success rate probably around 90%. And the fails are not like a crash and burn, but more like "I have a regular right now", or "I will stop by later" (and not doing so).

You're a paying customer. Walk up to whoever youre interested in

well said Icey. one of the few times I agree with you.

Since this is now and always has been a go have a few cold ones, hang out and see what happens, it is exceedingly rare for me to approach; regardless. I never have a goal other than going out for beers, since I do not drink at home. If I have an amazing experience; great. If I have a few beers, get out of the house for a few hours and nothing happens: that's just as great.

I would prefer a dancer approach me, but I'd also prefer not not to feel like I'm fighting off uglies all day. I realize these two things are basically contradictory and there's really no perfect option, so I tend to roll with it either way. I'll hang & have a few drinks, find ways to indicate my interest to dancers I find attractive like tipping on stage or something as simple as eye contact and a smile. If I don't get the results I want, I've got no issue approaching a dancer introducing myself and asking her to stop by when she's free.

It's pretty rare no girls approach me, but it's not that uncommon that the first few girls to approach are not my type and I dismiss them. I find that once this happens, in most cases the other dancers seem to notice and won't approach without some sort of indication you're not just gonna dismiss them too. At that point, I've gotta be at least slightly proactive or I'm just wasting my time.

My time is too precious to wait around for a possibly stressed, possibly busy, possibly tired, possibly shy, possibly oblivious dancer to notice me. If I see someone I like, I'll definitely approach. I'll mostly do it at the stage, but sometimes when they're just sitting.

If I see a dancer (or dancers) that are hot and turn me on, I'll pursue them if need be. If there are no dancers who turn me on, I'll sit back and wait for them to pursue me ... or leave.

Girls who approach you are usually the ones who hasn’t made enough money that day or the ones who don’t have a regular following. In either case, you will get higher mileage but not necessarily the best talent.

I don’t mind, either way, the one point I’ll make is I’ve usually had better results when I’m proactive and see someone that appeals to me. Despite all of the stereotyping we do on this website, women in general aren’t as comfortable approaching men and my experience with them has been that the ladies that I tend to like, prefer being approached.