OTC/Dating experiences?

Kicking things off w a story and will post more later

I’ve had a few otc successes. To start things off - I travel a lot for work and end up hitting up the same city for a couple days a week for months at a time - imo that’s the ideal frequency to establish an OTC fling and let things run their course. Im average looks but tall and I stay in very good shape which I think helps girls start to have a good time during dances - I also try to focus on the girls having fun and I stay respectful

First was a girl I met in a club when she was a bit of a baby dancer a few months in and we hit things off (liked same bands and shit like that). After several times of dances / rooms we agreed to meet up for very bougie dinner - we went shopping and I bought her some fancy shoes - so I would call it sugar-ing I guess. Lots of make out sesh and that, never full deal. After a few months things ran their course - she lost interest and we never went beyond petting so I lost interest too. It was really good “first” experience otc for me and kinda got me hooked trying to find similar experiences.

More to come when I have more time

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exchange numbers, be respectful, be generous and you’ll yield the desired results

@Imrickjamesbitchhh

You wrote and I quote:

“I fly the girl on a nice trip w me and cover fancy dinners and such…”

Pics and Vids or it didn’t happen.

If you have things in common and theres attraction. You create a genuine connection. Its easy

Lol icey a genuine connection takes more than that. Thats very surface level. Also physical attraction has nothing to do with a genuine connection. You think all it takes for tricks to not be a trick is just look better?

You dont understand the concept of social cues and act like you never picked a girl up. Either that or think your contrarianism is clever trolling rather than being obnoxious and tedious .

You never mentioned social cues. You said “if you have things in common and theres attraction”.
Why are there ripped bodybuilders, with a variety of hobbies, who struggle with picking up girls? They just needed to find someone with similar hobbies, thats all? Lol

Your autism is showing

Its pretty easy to have things in common and have attraction. According to you tricks are tricks because they simply dont have common interests or attraction. Thats absurd. Theres even people that lie about their interests

You never asked a girl out. Too autistic

Ok well I was hoping to get some real stories instead of squabbling.. but perhaps that is too much to expect :)

Second story - another place I was traveling to for work and hit up a club that wasn’t known for extras. Meet a chick with tats which is not normally my style, but she’s pretty cute, so we do a vip. Despite cameras in vip we manage to have a pretty fun time and I get to touch the kitty discretely - I think my first time doing so in a club and I’m obviously immediately hooked. Reciprocation isn’t there (not surprising w cameras), but it doesn’t even matter cause I was having such a good time.

We exchange numbers and then eventually I get her out w me on a trip, and we have probably all in about a half dozen amazing encounters OTC. Not for free of charge.. but she clearly enjoys herself as much as I do when we meet.

This also runs its course, but she just kinda ghosts me at some point.. to this day not really sure if she just blocked/ghosted me or she lost her google voice number or what.. but c’est la vie

Picking up strippers is easy if you can connect with them. And any woman can be seduced as long as she thinks its her idea.
You don't have to spend a lot. Just drink and smoke weed with her in the club. If you get along shell be dtf. Dont be all over them on the club or touch them like a creep. Make them feel safe and comfortable.

You cant smoke weed in many clubs. Also youre correct you dont have to spend a lot, but you also talk about tipping thousands on stage.
Its more complicated and nuanced then just getting along. Friends, coworkers can all get along. Shell be dtf with some guys yet other guys would just get used for the drinks. Shes also judging your status, looks, how rich you appear to be. It all plays a role.
What you say about “any woman can be seduced if she thinks its her idea”. If she thinks its her idea you dont have to seduce her in the first place

Autistic incel trolls be like....

Have a look at my article- /article/58776

Feel free to DM me if you have any bother questions.

I almost posted the exact same response to that article that I did 2 years ago lol

Good article Sammy, thx

Over the last few months I turned my ATF into a kind of sugar baby. It is the first time I have ever done anything close to this before so it has been a learning experience. I haven't even been with an escort before and only started strip clubbing 1.5 years ago.
We basically have a pay per meet arrangement going which ends up hours and hours of time. We have done everything from hanging at my place and having sex, to going to theme parks or that sort of thing. We text about every day. I am paying this girl and paying her fairly well, so who knows how she REALLY feels but I can tell she is really having fun with me. That is not to say there is ever going to be anything "real" in the future, even tho we are both single. I am just trying to take it day by day and enjoy it without putting labels on things.

Thx handsfullofpills - good reply - and glad to see you’ve kept a good thing going! Seems like the right strategy to enjoy it day by day without putting a label on it. That’s where im at with my current OTC girl

For me, good OTC is an unremarkable win-win, no interesting story to tell.

Once she fainted as she was getting ready to leave. I drove her to the emergency room. She was scared, so I stayed with her. I think they could tell I wasn't her relative, but my presence was accepted without inquiry. After many tests, the diagnosis was: shit happens. Finally got to sleep around 4AM, and was dragging ass at work the next day.

Once the same she showed up and remarked she'd seen a killer g-string at the love boutique, but didn't have the money for it. I said, well, you've got the money now. So we drove over and she bought the killer g-string. We always had very long dates, so the time it took wasn't an issue.

One dancer sold eye lashes on the side. She made a sale in front of my place before coming in.

I dated a stripper briefly when I was young and good-looking enough to land her. I was 32 (well over 20 years ago lol) and she was 28. I didn't know a lot about clubs back then, lol, so when she sat with me for hours talking and drinking it didn't even occur to give her anything for doing so. Near the end of my visit, when I asked her out to dinner, her one condition was that she never see me in the club again.

It was a whirlwind romance but it didn't last long. For a few weeks we spent almost every night together that she wasn't working. But all too quickly I got jealous and started hating her job and her lifestyle. I was a 9-5 day creature and she was definitely a night creature, by necessity. I might have asked her to quit her job and move in with me, but it was way too early in the relationship for that, especially since she had a child to care for. So I had to walk.

The one good thing from it though is that it taught me that I just couldn't handle dating a stripper. After that I never had to worry about losing my head when dealing with one in a club.