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Why do some SW struggle to have Long Term Relationships?

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Kratistos

Hey guys,

First of I am asking from a non-judgemental place. I am asking more in because I lack of this knowledge. Maybe for some of you the answer is obvious but for me I can't figure it out exactly.

Also SW is a large field there are many women involve in it(content creators, sugar dating, stripping...etc). Its not all porn.

However, one pattern I see repeated is that either SW or their rivals(people who aren't their fans) will always bring up this topic. Its similar to how when people want to make fun of nerds they'll say, "They can't get laid."

They'll say, women in SW, "Can't have relationships."

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Kratistos

*they have a hard time forming relationships

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gammanu95

Why don't you ask a SW?

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59

Because their partners can't handle their job.

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skibum609

The difference between love and in-love is passion, closeness, tenderness, and physical affection. It's tough to have that when one party is selling it to other people.

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Icey

They have a hard time trusting men after constantly seeing married tricks at work. Men constantly soliciting them etc. tricks ruin their impressions of men.
The key is to accept them and not try to change them. Ladys choice gentlemans game

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skibum609

^You are so fucking pompous and ignorant. You're the ultimate trick; little girl.

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JamesSD

Generally a lot of the factors that contribute to choosing sex work make long term relationships difficult, even after leaving sex work. I've joked if they fired every stripper with a substance problem half of them would be gone. Many also came from chaotic home lives where their models for relationships were not healthy ones. Anyone who has dated a non SW who grew up in chaos knows there often are additional relationship challenges. Finally, like a lot of women they are chasing the same top 10 percent of guys and those hot rich tall men have options and won't choose a SW for anything but FWB.

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SirLapdanceanot

@Iceydodo aka chunkyflacko on Instagram what about those drugs enabling and controlling and obsessivve "pumps". I would think a junkie stripper whore would have serious issues with trusting men after someone like that, no?

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IWantHerOnMe

In my experience many sex workers are vain, materialistic, selfish to the bone, socially inept, lazy, manipulative and prone to rash decisions and substance use. Not to mention the obvious promiscuity.

And you tend to attract what you put out. So many aren't really capable of making a real dating scenario work and the guys around them really aren't either.

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rickymacrodong

Often times their partners are or become more controlling and jealous. Maybe they thought they could handle it initially, but over time get more attached to the girl and then more jealous and controlling.
In some cases the girl herself might be abusive so her partners keep leaving her.

The other thing is society is still judgemental and frowns upon guys dating single mothers or sex workers.

Theres a very limited % of men willing to date former sex workers and an even smaller % willing to date sex workers who will continue being sex workers. And all those guys, by default, are flawed.

Very few sex workers are doing the job out of sheer passion and desire to help men. The job is done because its the best money they can get. That automatically means any guy theyre dating, cant or wont provide them the money they want.

Their boyfriends are almost always not working at all, just smoking and video games or babysitting.
Its by default a flawed relationship since the guy is someone who wants to be a dog. The dancer just has to take care of him, feed him and give him a place to stay and the dog will give her love and loyalty.

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Icey

Youre all listing things that are nonspecific to strippers.
The tricks are ultimately what shapes their negative views of men. Being with tricks makes them use substances to be able bto deal with it.

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rickymacrodong

According to you they dont date their tricks at all, so you fail to answer the question entirely. The question is asking why they struggle in their real life long term relationships, not why they struggle with tricks.

Your making it sound like these girls are breaking up with their boyfriends because they are acting like tricks. On the contrary, their boyfriends are a totally different type of guy that isnt allowed to get lapdances or see other women. Tricks usually have decent incomes whereas the stripper boyfriends are reliant on her income. Their boyfriends are guys who couldnt be tricks even if they tried, because they wouldn’t have the money to be a trick.

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rickymacrodong

Its obviously the psychological and other flaws and doglike behavior of their boyfriends that makes it hard for the relationship to last. Rmeember those guys are essentially dogs just looking for someone to take care of them and feed them in exchange for loyalty and love

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Icey

Most people grow out of concrete thinking in early childhood unless theyre retarded

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rickymacrodong

The question is asking about sex workers long term relationships, but you bring up tricks which has nothing to do with the question. Its not asking about trick hoe relationships .

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rickymacrodong

Sex workers arent breaking up with their boyfriends because they hate men in general because of their experience with tricks. Their boyfriend is dependent on their income, and loyal only to them, so its a completely different relationship than what they have with their tricks

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Icey

Reddit trick forum readers be like

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Rightfield

I just deleted a long winded explanation of what happened to the porn actress who went by the name Shauna Grant decades ago. The summary is that many sexy young women have some human flaws, and don't have life handled like they think they do.

 Actually, most people in their 20s probably don't have life, including relationships, figured out very completely.   But if that person is a sexy woman, she is pulled in directions most of us aren't.  Maybe she thinks her greatest assets are her tits and ass.  And that doesn't bode well for anything but shallow relationships.
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rickymacrodong

Icey with regards to concrete thinking, its you who creates and claims these rules like if a guy pays for a sexual encounter, hes ugly, autistic, has no hobbies whereas if the guy tips 5000, as long as he doesn’t pay for the particular encounter it means he has wide varied interests and is attractive. Im curious especially on how you apply these rules to nba players or celebrities who are also tricks. Its one thing referring to anonymous online people as ugly autistic and lacking hobbies but much harder to make the same claim about say brad pitt george clooney etc.
maybe you use the term trick in a racial way, i recall you claiming bilzerian is a loser and a simp.

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Icey

Go make ahit up about someone else.

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Icey

You make whit up and think its clever trolling when its just retarded word salads

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SirLapdanceanot

LMFAO Iceydodo aka chunkyflacko on Instagram face it, you can't blame your coke junkie stripper whore's infidelity on anything but yourself. You couldn't even compete with a broke AF weed dealer. Also you're the one that was controlling and providing her with the coke. You should take some if not all of the responsibility because you were her enabler.

But sure. Deflect the blame. Easier than facing the fact that a broke weed dealer loser was still a better option than you.

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SirLapdanceanot

"Icey with regards to concrete thinking, its you who creates and claims these rules"

^^^@ricky that's the thing about Iceydodo aka chunkyflacko on Instagram. Besides that she's a control freak, the rules are her defense mechanism from her own guilt. Like right now in this thread she's trying to find a reason other than herself for why she couldn't keep up her own relationship with a junkie stripper whore. When she was her source and controller of the coke. A total enabler.

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