Why won't many guys date/see SWs(regardless of type of SW)?

May 20, 2025, 8:00 PM

Hey guys, This is my continuation from the previous thread. We know about the female perspective. But I wonder what about the male perspective.

At least, from me I would do it. Depending on the type of SW, things like camming, modeling and even stripping no issue. I did in fact dated a dancer once, I was working in nightlife so I wasn't her client. I didn't get jealous if he danced with other men. As long as he let me dance with other women. Our relationship lasted for one to two years.

I feel once it gets to porn it would be harder since it seems much more stressful with all the testing that porn stars do.

What I wonder is that won't many guys aspire to be like Adam22? Like having a long term GF who was willing to do all the things Lena does.I mean before he got married he had this beautiful woman who was open to him doing threesome with him. To me that's the real diamond.

Because, why would have a prude as a long term GF, who doesn't like sex that much only does it as an obligation. I have met some guys whose wife or long term GF only has sex as an obligation to them. And even then sometimes she doesn't want to do it all.

For instance, I have even met guys who if their potential GF does modeling or even acting(she kisses other men or other women) they are completely put off. They just want nothing to do with it.

Do we just live in a conservative society?

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Kratistos8 months ago

*if she danced with other men. As long as she let me dance with other women.

skibum6098 months ago

^ Said the guy who lost everything he had to a prostitute and wanted to kill himself over it.

rickdugan8 months ago

Another one of these goofy threads? Damned man.

chunkychicano8 months ago

“Pay them for gfe” doesnt mean theyre paying to go on dates. Gfe means they will DFK, provide bbbj and daty in the bedroom.

There might be some guys out there who do pay for going out to restaurants but thats not what gfe is. Also there are a ton of guys, even over 60 years old who go out with sex workers and dont actually pay other than paying for the food, drinks.

chunkychicano8 months ago

“theyre so desired men pay them for gfe” theres only certain women openly advertising sex work so its not that the woman is so irresistible guys pay her

skibum6098 months ago

^^Non one on earth deserves to be attacked all the time more than Icey. Just a horrid pos.

chunkychicano8 months ago

^Lol! Icey previously stated theres nothing wrong with buying expensive gifts, paying for college tuition and paying parents rent for someone youre in love with. He further stated that since him and the bitch were in love, it wasnt p4p; he provided all those things because he was in love, and she fucked him simply because she was in love 🤣 🤣

chunkychicano8 months ago

Its like the escorting loophole. You pay for the time only, and she fucks you for free.

Icey provides free gifts to the gold digger, and she fucks him out of love

The other thing is how did he even buy her all those gifts and pay for tuition. was it her own money he used to buy gifts for her, lol

ilbbaicnl8 months ago

Possessiveness in committed relationships is a nurtured attitude, perhaps reinforced by human nature. It's perhaps stronger in men, since cuckolds are mocked, but women receive sympathy when they're two-timed. Used to be that you lost major manpoints if your wife worked outside the home (in any job). So clearly there's a big nurtured/cultural component in this shit.

mike7108 months ago

I dated an escort for a few years. She was fun and we enjoyed hanging out. Even went on a few vacations together.

This worked for both of us because we didn't seek to make it serious. On one vacation, we met a couple that turned out to be a stripper and bartender at a local club. My friend bought me dances and told the girls what I liked. I did pay for the trip but that is what I would have done for any girlfriend.

During holidays, she would host for some of her customers. I would attend but wouldn't act like a boyfriend. I just acted like another friend. One of the guys was a pilot for a major airline and was really into her. I couldn't blow that for her.

Eventually, she was the one that brought up going to the next level. I wasn't really interested in pursuing it further, however. She moved to another city so we didn't have a bad breakup. Just drifted apart. We still have a friendship and talk regularly.