Hey guys, This is my continuation from the previous thread. We know about the female perspective. But I wonder what about the male perspective.
At least, from me I would do it. Depending on the type of SW, things like camming, modeling and even stripping no issue. I did in fact dated a dancer once, I was working in nightlife so I wasn't her client. I didn't get jealous if he danced with other men. As long as he let me dance with other women. Our relationship lasted for one to two years.
I feel once it gets to porn it would be harder since it seems much more stressful with all the testing that porn stars do.
What I wonder is that won't many guys aspire to be like Adam22? Like having a long term GF who was willing to do all the things Lena does.I mean before he got married he had this beautiful woman who was open to him doing threesome with him. To me that's the real diamond.
Because, why would have a prude as a long term GF, who doesn't like sex that much only does it as an obligation. I have met some guys whose wife or long term GF only has sex as an obligation to them. And even then sometimes she doesn't want to do it all.
For instance, I have even met guys who if their potential GF does modeling or even acting(she kisses other men or other women) they are completely put off. They just want nothing to do with it.
Do we just live in a conservative society?
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*if she danced with other men. As long as she let me dance with other women.
^ Said the guy who lost everything he had to a prostitute and wanted to kill himself over it.
Another one of these goofy threads? Damned man.
^^Non one on earth deserves to be attacked all the time more than Icey. Just a horrid pos.
Possessiveness in committed relationships is a nurtured attitude, perhaps reinforced by human nature. It's perhaps stronger in men, since cuckolds are mocked, but women receive sympathy when they're two-timed. Used to be that you lost major manpoints if your wife worked outside the home (in any job). So clearly there's a big nurtured/cultural component in this shit.
I dated an escort for a few years. She was fun and we enjoyed hanging out. Even went on a few vacations together.
This worked for both of us because we didn't seek to make it serious. On one vacation, we met a couple that turned out to be a stripper and bartender at a local club. My friend bought me dances and told the girls what I liked. I did pay for the trip but that is what I would have done for any girlfriend.
During holidays, she would host for some of her customers. I would attend but wouldn't act like a boyfriend. I just acted like another friend. One of the guys was a pilot for a major airline and was really into her. I couldn't blow that for her.
Eventually, she was the one that brought up going to the next level. I wasn't really interested in pursuing it further, however. She moved to another city so we didn't have a bad breakup. Just drifted apart. We still have a friendship and talk regularly.
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