Would you ever chase down a stripper?

For me I understand a lot of these girls are drunk or high, some sort of ditzy and out there. And theres a lot of stuff and distractions going on in a strip club especially a busy one. I'll ask again to see what's up. But that's it. I can't go a third time I'll just take the hint maybe she finds me repulsive, not gonna engage further to find out why.

I assume there are some hardliners on here that would call me a pussy for asking even one more time. Yeah I get that.

Don’t listen to comments calling you a pussy.
One thing I have learnt from years of visiting strip clubs, is never to shy away from a girl that I really like. You are going to regret it later that you didn’t ask her twice, especially if you don’t see her on your next visit.
Most girls are not sober and may forget that you had asked them.
But if she doesn’t come to you after you ask her the second time, then the appropriate thing to do would be to back off.

Or do you go as many times it takes? You gotta have it

Beg for pussy, pay for pussy, but never beg to pay for pussy.

I'll ask once, and if she doesn't return, I keep my money for another time, or another girl. Generally, if a girl does dances as a result of being coerced, she won't give her full effort. If she puts off dancing for you, it could be because she was waiting for a regular/other guy, and that's where her attention will be as she dances for you.

If I ask her and she says, “I’ll be back” but never shows up, I write her off.
I will approach a dancer I want who isn’t circulating, sitting alone or with other dancers. If she’s with another customer, I leave them alone.

^I endorse the above statement. Well said sir.

I mostly agree with Studme, but there have been times when there are only one or two strippers I want and the rest of the night is a bust. If my choices are chase her down or call the night a loss and go home, I might remind her. Remember, these girls are likely drunk or high at work, so they can forget.

What Studme53 said. I've approached, and will continue to approach, dancers I want to "dance" with. But if they never come back, I assume they aren't interested.

No, I won't chase her down. I'll approach once to express my interest, either on stage or if she's out on the floor unoccupied. But I'm not gonna go approach her a 2nd time unless she's on stage.

It's not a pride thing, it's more in line with acknowledging the idea that she's not interested in spending time with me. Perhaps she's waiting on a regular, wants a little break, or something along those lines. Or maybe as you said she finds me repulsive, maybe I remind her of her father or an ex, or some other girl has said something negative about me. I'm not gonna press the issue. In any case, even if I manage to get her to dance for me, odds are it's not gonna be a good dance.

I don't get butthurt or hold a grudge about it though. If I tipped her on stage and asked her to come over but she didn't, if I see her again another day I'll probably tip her and let her know I'm interested again.

If she says yes and doesn't come back I take that to mean she didn't want to risk turning me down to my face and leave her alone.

If I ask a dancer for dances or to come over. They always do. Just takes the right eye language. Ive had them leave regulars to be with me

I generally ask once and move on when I'm forgotten. I will ask again on a subsequent visit, if I'm still interested in engaging.

"Or do you go as many times it takes? You gotta have it"

It depends. If that's the only time I'm ever going to be there, sometimes it helps to let a dancer know that. Some of my best one off experiences were with dancers during my last night in town. Bottom line, on a busy night I might just be the guy she'll have time for another shift. I've been told that on a second pass. If nothing better turns up I've done the "I get you're busy but this the only time I'll ever be here" routine. It works better than you think it might if you've made a decent impression.

Once and done. Plenty of fish.

Never.

Almost never. I could foresee a situation like wallanon mentioned at a place where it's a rare visit, maybe when I'm on vacation, and the plan was to get an extra to finish the night and get the full club experience, but there was only one dancer that interested me. I might wait a bit and try again with a sweeter offer to make the deal. But this would be an exception, not the rule.

Theyre not leaving their regulars to be with you. Its more that they know their regulars are waiting for them. They tell their regular theyre doing a dance with someone and coming back

On two occasions I've spotted perfect dimes in HKGC Tijuana. Both times I literally chased them down. In the case of the first, I pass her and waved hola, did a double take, then moved quickly around the other side of the stage to flank her and offer her a ficha.

I have absolutely zero regrets in either case.

The situation you're describing though is a bit different. In that case, I've already asked her to see me, she's had an opportunity to see me and declined. I probably wouldn't chase her down even if she was a cat 10.

It depends. For most dancers, the answer would be "No, I'm not going to any extra trouble whatsoever." If I express interest in a dancer, it might really behoove her to give me a few minutes of her time, and to make a good impression while she's at it. Of course, it's also on ME to make a good impression on HER, so that's a two way street...

If I really, really, REALLY like a girl, then I might go to a bit more trouble, or at least be a bit more forgiving about a negative first impression. Some of my best experiences were with dancers who took a while to figure out that they wanted to pay attention to me...

Of course, there are limits to my patience, even with a girl who I'm seriously attracted to. I distinctly remember a dancer who I thought was absolutely beautiful, and whose attention I tried to get by tipping her well at the stage, and then patiently waiting for her to free up and stop by. Rather than even acknowledging my presence, though, she decides to focus all her energy on some other random guy. Bad move. I think he ultimately bought fewer than 5 dances. Had she put the same effort in with me, she'd have done considerably better than that. She was a cutie and a half, but she just couldn't figure out who to pay attention to... :)

It does happen from time to time to me. (Probably in part because I look like a cheap son of a bitch but still) I'll just clarify one time, if I'm asking to begin with I think she's hot. It's like hey did you understand what I said? You wanna do VIP or na? Maybe the loud music things get lost in translation who knows, I'm just make sure is all.

it depends how much I'm into her.

If I think they got tied up with a regular and forgot maybe if they seemed to be free later. I might. Sometimes you have to try to read the situation. If they’re dodging you then you won’t have fun any way most likely.