Masseuses and wait staff...

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Typically off limits. That’s why Cheetah puts the big lighted name tags on their waitresses and bartenders. You could hang around the front desk and hit on the hostess, but the door guy’s already fucking her.

Haven't had success with waitstaff, masseuses, door girls. A phone number here and there but that's about it.

Had a shot girl stand me up. I knew her prior to her working at the club.

I agree with @iknowbetter, I see waitresses and hostesses as off limits. The club hires these ladies to be eye candy but intimate service is not part of their job. I would not expect GFE or OTC from them any more than I would expect it from a waitress at a vanilla restaurant.

The way to navigate them is to tip them generous and be polite and friendly. Staff and strippers talk.

And the masseuse thing seems unique to SoFla, at least I've never seen it anywhere else. I think you navigate that by getting a massage if you want one, or telling them 'no thank you' if you don't.

Shot girls, especially the ones who want you to take a shot from between their tits? I don't know man they're in a gray area of their own. .

I don’t avoid waitresses or bartenders some of my favorite girls are bartenders one I date occasionally and a waitress I used to

I just ask if they do private or VIP. Usually, they say it's not allowed. Occasionally, I have found one that says yes.

The waitstaff, door girls, bartenders are often as good looking or better looking than the dancers. Generally they are of limits, yet I see PL's hanging at the bar, doing shots with the bartender and trying to monopolize her time.

Thanks for these, appreciated... I have chased many, success has been zero...

There is no one size fits all rule. In some cases the bottle girls are new to the industry and want to be a server before becoming a dancer. Some are too embarrassed to be dancing up on stage yet still open to other p4p encounters. Sometimes they were previously dancers and got older, decided to be a server instead. And finally some are servers specifically because theyre in a relationship or dont want to provide extras or dances for some other reason.

By the way, every person, man or woman, can be tempted with money. If you were willing to pay $1500, you could probably bang any girl off the street if shes not already making good money/not being given money already from someone. Even plenty of men who normally arent gay, would be willing to do something for that money

Those girls think they're above showing snatch for a living, so it's unlikely they would turn tricks.

I think it depends on if she likes you...

Ive picked up waitresses and bartenders. In some clubs waitresses are the best looking girls now a days

Ive met escorts who were bottle girls before. One of them i asked why she didn’t strip, she said because she didn’t want to be a hoe in public.

In some cases, the bottle girls simply dont want to see customers due to personal restrictions or relationship restrictions . Yet in many cases, they may be insecure of how they look, or new to the industry and not ready to dance, or just dont want to be a dancer in public. At some clubs the bottle girls are available for dances anyway.