Has my unemployment and stress gotten me interested in strip clubs again?

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basictoken
About 10-15 years ago I went to clubs every so often. I never spent a lot but had a good time. After a while I started dating more and lost my interest. To where I didn't even see the point. But here I am now and in the last several months I've found myself craving them. I've dropped way too much money on VIP but for some reason I love them.

In the last year I've also had problems with my relationship, stepped back from my job for various reasons and have been getting by with part time gig work. I know it's all a fantasy but God damn if it hasnt been addicting. I've stopped doing vip because I can't afford it with limited income. But I still enjoy it. I'm just not sure what switch went off in my head that I feel compelled to go so often. I guess I'm just ranting here. But even in my current state there's nothing about SCs that should be attractive but they are. I love the fantasy and I've gotten to know a few girls well enough to make it feel real.

Partly I feel guilty but on the other hand I think "my life sucks and the world is going to hell. Why not?"

I'm just sort of ranting here. I take responsibility for all of my actions good or bad. I'm not complaining or blaming anyone. Just not sure why the idea of a strip club has such a strong hold on me these days

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Puddy Tat
a month ago
My desire to club comes and goes in cycles too. Amount of dating and sex I'm having, quality of clubs, number of other activities in life, weather. It's natural. Don't sweat it.
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ilbbaicnl
a month ago
Seems simple, fallout from relationship problems. Like you'd been habitually having lunch at McDonald's, they hired a fat kid who was sweating on your food, so you started going to Five Guys, and wished you'd done that sooner. What am I missing?
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gSteph
a month ago
I'm on permanent self chosen unemployment (retired).
No major stresses.
Love my wife's boobs and body. Nuzzle and caress her boobs and body every day 😍.

But stripper boobs and bodies are wonderful to caress and nuzzle too.
So I go sometimes and do.

Life is good.
Just enjoy 🙂
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twentyfive
a month ago
The more is, that the more often you go, the more normal it feels, problem is, that it is not yet a problem for you, but it sounds like it's becoming a compulsion, if not an outright addiction, you're young enough to step back and find other outlets.
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drewcareypnw
a month ago
Hot women: good.
Getting you dick cranked in the vip: good.

...what's the problem? You're living the dream!
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Hank Moody
a month ago
Here’s your worthless online psych diagnosis from a not-psychiatrist. You’re stressed and probably depressed and the immediate positive endorphin rush is a replacement for real life. You’re making a reality where your real life problems go away for a few hours. You alluded that you can’t afford to keep going at the rate you currently are. You need to listen to yourself there and mind the budget. The highs of the rush are great but the lows that are coming when you blow all your savings and still don’t have a job will be crushing. Spend what you can afford but step outside of yourself to assess what is going on. Our time is up. That will be 2 cents please.
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basictoken
a month ago
Hank - I think you may have hit the nail on the head. Over definitely scaled back the VIP partying. I'm still in control thankfully. Where do I deposit my 2 cents
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