Lazy dancers preoccupied with phone

Yeah. it is ridiculous. happens in Mexico too.

We’re done at that point. You could be filming me or streaming me. Fuck that. Dancers show me stuff on the phone but they aren’t on the phone if they are going to be dancing for me.

Yeah... 😂 I've experienced that myself during the lap dance / private dance / some other attention such as Arriba... I don't stop them but I see if I can do something to distract them from their phone...🤣

👽 I Would Just Chill Out, Look @ Da' Strippers On Stage, Eat & Like Da' Music @ Da' Really Good Discount! It's More $$$ For Me In Mi Pocket If They Stay Away On Da' Phone, & It's Not Everyday Anyway 🤠

That’s exactly what I did SL

My cuban fav sticks her boob in my mouth when she wants to check her phone. Works for me.

That is endemic to Paper Moon in Springfield, VA (the club closest to me so I frequent it). So many hot dancers on their phones or in groups clucking.

Then they turn around and whine they aren’t making money. Well duh! You’re on your phone for half your shift and looking completely unapproachable.

Lol. Strippers. 🤣

When I approach and get a dance from a woman well is on her phone, i get a dance that feels like she wishes she were still on her phone.

You're paying money to work that shift, so why are you pissing it away on your phone?

Sometimes working the room isnt worth it if shes waiting on a regular. A lot of younger people live their lives on their phones. For dancers. iG and tiktok clout within their circles means a lot. They think theyre celebrities.

Sad thing is. They look bored and disinterested. Wasting time. But to them its living their best life

I don't like it, but I understand it. It's been discussed here ad-nauseam. It's fine to not get dances from them, but I wouldn't let it annoy you.

I'd also say, I'm sure dancers feel the same way. It's not altogether uncommon for me to spend some time on my phone while in the club. I might not be interested in what's on stage at the moment, or I might want to respond to some emails/messages without leaving, or any number of things. I've had quite a few dancers become visibly annoyed that I was on my phone and not paying attention to them. I've heard them go on rants about "broke guys sitting around on their phones all day" more times than I can count.

If you've gotten dances before and are making eye contact and she's not approaching either she doesn't want to dance for you again (finger in the butt?) or she's texting her boyfriend or about her kids.

It seems that, for many here, the role reversal is a big part of what they like about lap dance clubs. But, if that's not your thing, there's no reason to be hesitant to approach a dancer and say hi, ask to sit with her, or just ask for a dance. Even polite rejections are a small drain on a dancer. And they get lots of rude ones too. Yes, ideally they should toughen up. But, it's a "weakness" I can live with. You can't have everything, have to make trade-offs. The dancer I got my best dances ever from, I had to make the first move with. It was only a couple of weeks before we took it OTC.

What the fuck are you afraid of? Looking weird? You are a strip club customer who wants a mostly naked woman to rub her body on yours and get you off, or at least turn you on. You *are* weird.

Get over it, and get off your ass and give her a damned *reason* to get off her phone.

I could see, when you are expecting to negotiate a tip for extras, that you'd probably do better if you wait for her to roll up, instead of rolling up on her.

Mid LD or VIP is ludicrous, never had that happen. Alone in the club? Always see that, but who cares? If you want a dance from her just go get it. I agree maybe some should hustle more, but that’s their own prerogative. It’s an effort job for some and a cake (literally) walk for others.

Simple business: Either you change with the times, or you stay left out.... You the monger decide what to do. Love @georgemicrodong 's comment

every girl i seen on their phone seem to always be waiting for their favorite guy/girl (haven't seen a female patron yet but i know they exist). i remember i got one dance from one of those chicks, she was incredibly hot, but she did not look intersted. as soon as the dance was done she ran right over to another dude. only good thing about it was she didn't ask for a tip. don't bother even entertaining the iphone girls. wait for them to approach you otherwise you may not have a great time like you'd like.