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Going "bankrupt" after moving to a high mileage state

sfrsox
I love boobies
Saturday, August 24, 2024 9:53 PM
Not bankrupt per se, but spending so much more $ on strippers than before. Moved to FL recently, and I went to clubs on 3 days in 6 days, went to two in one day (so 4 in a week), and even walked into 2 more but walked out right away (for different reasons too, but both related to club greediness.

This is not sustainable, even if no rooms and no cover charges. Just too many LD's. Too many 20's latinas (my weakness).

How do you guys do it?

22 comments

  • whodey
    23 days ago
    It's called self control. If you don't have it this can be a dangerous hobby. Know your budget, not just for individual visits but per week, per month and per year.

    No matter how good the girls are, they aren't worth messing up your life outside of the club by overspending on them. Especially if all you are doing is getting lapdances and not ducking them.
  • Puddy Tat
    23 days ago
    Make a special account or wallet just for strip clubbing. Put money in it for the month. Don't go beyond it.

    This hobby can control you if you're not careful.
  • rickmacrodong
    23 days ago
    Start working another job, uber eats etc to come up with the needed funds
  • shailynn
    23 days ago
    Pace yourself. Too much of anything no matter how awesome and you’ll eventually burn out on it.

    Example - I love to play poker, haven’t been able to play much this year. Went the other day, actually won a significant amount of money for once. Was excited. Want to go do it again. Had a free night the other day and passed, trying to limit myself to once a month that way it’s still exciting for me.

    Have you made impulsive decisions over things in the past. Some people have trouble with self control. I’m not trying to put you down, almost all of us are obsessive over something in our lives and waste too much time and/or money blown on it.
  • sfrsox
    23 days ago
    Actually I'm usually the opposite, not impulsive enough. And I could have spent like 5x more. FL SC are just too fun.
  • sfrsox
    23 days ago
    LOL @Rick

    That would definitely solve the problem but not the way you think. Wouldn't have time any more. And that doesn't pay at all, on a relative basis. I have the $, just too cheap to spend it, alas the quotes.
  • drewcareypnw
    22 days ago
    4x in a week, that’s got to be hitting the limit on the extra layers of skin your dick has available to be ground off!
  • MyPoorLifeChoices
    22 days ago
    What I do is pay all of my bills ahead of time and then take half of what's left as discretionary spending money
  • Dolfan
    21 days ago
    One thing I've found that makes it easier to stay out of the club is finding a girl or two for OTC. It might sound a little counter intuitive, but I often find myself waiving off a trip to the club in favor of having a fave come over instead. OTC is somewhat cheaper when you factor in all the costs, especially if you see the same girl regularly.
  • twentyfive
    21 days ago
    ^ I was about to post the exact same thing, it's very easy to skip the club when you have a FWB relationship with a stripper, and seeing the same girl out of the club is cheaper no matter what the activity consider that there are much fewer outstretched hands, tipping a server is a lot cheaper than a typical club employee for the same thing.
  • Dolfan
    21 days ago
    Oh, it gets a hell of a lot cheaper when you start venturing into more FWB/Sugar Baby type scenarios. It's not a majority of them, but there are plenty of those Cuban girls in their late 20's in the clubs that are up for those sort of arrangements. But it takes some practice learning to identify them, it might take a recent transplant a while to learn to sift out the romance hustlers and scammers to find the gems.

    On a related note, do people really consider hitting two clubs on the same day "two trips to the strip club?" If I hit one club in an area where there is a cluster, I frequently will check out another one, sometimes two. I do the same after a long weekend in the Keys, where I'll make a few stops into some of Miami clubs as I drive north. I've hit all three south Florida Cheetah's on the same day in that situation. I still think of all of those as sorta one visit to the club though.
  • iknowbetter
    21 days ago
    I expect the novelty will eventually wear off, and you’ll be able to fall into a more healthy and sustainable pace. I think of south Florida strip clubs like the beach. I live near the beach, but I rarely go to the beach. However, I love that fact knowing it’s nearby for whenever I want to go.
  • Dqirish
    21 days ago
    i couldn't live in South Florida. Having the Pompano 3 in short driving distance anytime I was a little bored would ruin me.
  • Muddy
    21 days ago
    You know what banging the same looking cuban girls all the time while fun you sort of what something different after a while. I would just get it all out of your system so you can move on in life. Right now your in shiny new toy syndrome mode.
  • Mr Monger
    21 days ago
    Pussy is addictive bro trust me
  • gammanu95
    21 days ago
    I find the exorbitant prices to be a turnoff and the quality of dancers to be insufficient cause to repeatedly visit the ATM. Good on you if you're enjoying it, just enjoy it within a set budget.
  • sfrsox
    20 days ago
    Yeah, my balances will be smaller Sept 1 than Aug 1. Don;t mind it (if I get value/fun). Can't take it with me 6 feet under.
  • sfrsox
    20 days ago
    Even boobs are addictive, @ Mr Monger
  • sfrsox
    20 days ago
    Kind of wish I had this mindset when I was in my 20's tbh
  • Icey
    19 days ago
    It doesn't matter what club or how many clubs you go to. What matters is what you personally feel you got out of it or not
  • rickmacrodong
    19 days ago
    Dolfan, i was curious on your comment of sugaring /fwb being cheaper.

    Because ive heard of some guys using the seeking site, but still paying $400+ per meetup. Of course, its more of an organic meeting, where there could be a restaurant visit first, which the guy also pays for. But net-net if the guy is spending $400+ per meeting it is still close to stripper otc or escorting.
  • sfrsox
    14 days ago
    giving myself a never do back to back days rule from now on
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