Who Pulls It Out?

14 comments

• BaddJack

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  16 years ago

  I am an old dude. I never pull it out. I know where her hands have been. Sorry, man.
• njscfan

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  16 years ago

  Apart from the very assertive dancers you reference, my view is that well before anything gets pulled out, you will have explored the scope of the girl's willingness to do things. In the civilian world it's called foreplay. If she stops you somewhere along the line -- don't kiss, don't touch my tits, don't touch my ass, don't touch my pussy, etc., etc. -- then you know you can't go further. If she keeps going, then you can keep going. But I would not begin a session in the VIP room by pulling out my dick, unless we had fucked before, or we had clearly discussed in advance that that is what we were going to do. And even then, I prefer the build up -- it's more fun that way. I like foreplay.
• looker123

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  16 years ago

  I don't whink that I would ever just "whip it out". Anywhere I have found that there was a possibility of any "extras" the dance always takes the lead, at least the first time. There are a couple of dances where I may take some liberties with what I touch etc... but I always let them initiate any action for Mr. Happy. I think in the long term things work better this way, I know several girls who may do any number of things in the VIP areas if they initiate it but get very put off if a guy assumes he can do anything he likes!
• shadowcat

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  16 years ago

  Hey buddy, Have you pulled that with any of the dancers that we both know? I usually leave it up to the dancer to make the first move. Sometimes with a dancer that has previously done it but seems to have cooled off, I will take her hand and guide it up my pants leg. That usually works but has failed at times. I once was in the VIP with a dancer in Atlanta and she asked me to "flash her". I did but it did not lead to anything unforgetable.
• arbeeguy

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  16 years ago

  Hard to believe a guy would pull it out without prior encouragement from the dancer. But I saw something a week ago I never imagined would happen. The dancer was on stage going from guy to get tips. At this club the dancer is allowed to climb down off the stage and give the guy a 30 second lap dance for a dollar or two. The dancer had finished my lap dance and had gone on to the next guy in rotation. She was getting ready to climb down off the stage onto his lap then suddenly stopped. I could not hear what was said, or see the guy pull it out but apparently he did, cuz the dancer backed away from him and yelled "Bartender". (No bouncer on duty at the time.) The bartender was there within a few seconds. After a brief disccusion, the guy picked up a wad of bills he had laying on the countertop that separates the stage from the chairs, and hewalked out of the club. No shouting or shoving or even escorting. Another dancer, whom I trust, later told me he had pulled it out, and that is what pissed off the dancer, as well it should have. What a stupid guy.
• Dudester

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  16 years ago

  I had been going to Houston Dolls several years back when it was not just high mileage, but most of the dancers either fucked you in the booth or OTC. After it was raided, I went to Fantasy North. I was in a back room getting a LD. The dancer had let me lick her, then changed positions to let me finger her. When she changed positions to put her crotch next to mine, I thought I had received the right signals to whip it out, so I did. She wasn't happy about that and went cool after that. Since then, I wait for an invitation.
• DandyDan

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  16 years ago

  It's always been my experience that they are eager to pull it out, so why bother pulling it out myself?
• TCK

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  16 years ago

  Its best just to let them pull it out.
• CarolinaWanderer

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  16 years ago

  This is very situational. In a club known for extras but with a girl that does not know you, I have found that making the first move is an "ice breaker". My general rule in this situation is to unzip midway through the second dance, assuming she has given signals such as simulated HJ or BJ. My experience has been if the action has not esculated in the second dance that extras are not going to happen. In a club that may or may not offer extras, I will may a move to unzip, but be sure she sees what I am doing and has a chance to abort the mission. In a club where extras are not likely, I wait for her to make a move. There is no reason to risk being asked to leave (or worse) in this situation. Of course my favorite situation is similar to one that recently happened. After having VIP dances with a couple of other girls, an attractive black girl asked to sit with me. She asked "so, what are you doing here?". I said "looking for a little fun". She said "what would be fun?". I said "a blowjob would be fun". She replied "how about sex, the way the VIP is arranged everyone could see my head bobbing up and down". There was no wory about who would pull it out.
• FONDL

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  16 years ago

  My ATF quit dancing over such an incident. A customer she was dancing for pulled it out, she screamed for the owner/manager to throw him out, he refused to do so, she walked out and hasn't danced since. That happened about 9 years ago.
• parodyman-->

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  16 years ago

  No one cares about a girl who hasn't danced for 9 years. And in the interest of staying on topic, just whipping your dick out to a stranger is not a good idea. This question sounds like it was written by a future sex offender. Make sure you register with the police dickhead.
• blockbird

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  16 years ago

  When it seems like mileage is likely, I ask, "Mind if I unzip?" Her response directs me appropriately. Except for a certain club in Pemberton, New Jersey, where willy is freed in the first half minute, as she undresses, as a matter of course.
• ozymandias

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  16 years ago

  Actually 9 years ago "extras" weren't nearly the club standard like they are today; I can certainly see a case for a dancer being surprised/upset by such a thing in the late 90s. Now, I'm genuinely surprised if a girl won't fuck/suck in ViP - it would be like a stripper refusing to strip a decade ago. The ho-ification of America! O.
• lopaw

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  16 years ago

  Since I don't have anything to pull out (!), I leave it up to the dancer to decide if she wants to start digging around down there. I always let her initiate the action...I would never be so brash as to just grab her hand & ram it down my pants (although I've been tempted on many occasions). It still surprises me how many dancers are more than happy to oblige.