Reflections on the benefit of Strip Clubs during a brief elevator ride
drewcareypnw
not the real drew carey, but I play him at strip clubs...
Yet another anecdote from my staycation weekend.
After doing dirty things with a gorgeous hot woman ½ my age at the SC, I headed back to the hotel. There was a dance party in the lobby. People were getting their grind on to some loud basic AF dance music. I watched for a minute and then headed up to my room. On the way to the elevators, a cute but chubby girl 2/3’s my age was singing along to Lady Gaga’s Bad Romance and heading toward the elevators as well. She looked like she was having fun and was a little wasted. We both got into the same elevator, there was no one else on the ride up.
I sneaked a few peeks across the elevator and noticed that she was more than chubby, she was fat. But she was still cute with long straight dark hair, big tits coming out the front of her shirt, a big ass… a guy could have a fun night with that if he wasn’t too discerning. When we got to my floor, I headed toward the exit and quickly said “good evening” as I left, without pausing. This is a little habit I picked up working in Mexico: folks say a formal-ish good day or good night to strangers on an elevator as they exit. It seems warm and genteel in a non-intrusive way. I liked it then, and still do it now nearly 10 years after my last trip south. Elevator girl was buried in her phone, but looked up as I said this, and in a bitchy voice said “have a good night” … like in a “don’t fucking talk to me you old/creep/whatever piece of shit I'm not interested” kind of way. Fair enough.
I smiled to myself thinking that 30 minutes before, I had everything I could ever want from this girl, only from a 20x hotter and 10 years younger woman (an sc dancer). The most I could possibly want from this elevator woman would be a causal hook up, and then for her to fuck off out of my hotel room. She clearly would never even consider lowering herself to this act! The dancer on the other hand was appreciative, enthusiastic, and sweet, all for a cost so small that it means nearly nothing to me.
10 years ago, I would have been working to land that chubby snob, 95% likely would have failed, and would have felt disappointed. Today, I have access to something of much higher quality on my own timing and terms, not to mention I get home much earlier. I guess this is an example of pooning smarter not harder?
This hobby makes so much more sense than chasing civilians.
After doing dirty things with a gorgeous hot woman ½ my age at the SC, I headed back to the hotel. There was a dance party in the lobby. People were getting their grind on to some loud basic AF dance music. I watched for a minute and then headed up to my room. On the way to the elevators, a cute but chubby girl 2/3’s my age was singing along to Lady Gaga’s Bad Romance and heading toward the elevators as well. She looked like she was having fun and was a little wasted. We both got into the same elevator, there was no one else on the ride up.
I sneaked a few peeks across the elevator and noticed that she was more than chubby, she was fat. But she was still cute with long straight dark hair, big tits coming out the front of her shirt, a big ass… a guy could have a fun night with that if he wasn’t too discerning. When we got to my floor, I headed toward the exit and quickly said “good evening” as I left, without pausing. This is a little habit I picked up working in Mexico: folks say a formal-ish good day or good night to strangers on an elevator as they exit. It seems warm and genteel in a non-intrusive way. I liked it then, and still do it now nearly 10 years after my last trip south. Elevator girl was buried in her phone, but looked up as I said this, and in a bitchy voice said “have a good night” … like in a “don’t fucking talk to me you old/creep/whatever piece of shit I'm not interested” kind of way. Fair enough.
I smiled to myself thinking that 30 minutes before, I had everything I could ever want from this girl, only from a 20x hotter and 10 years younger woman (an sc dancer). The most I could possibly want from this elevator woman would be a causal hook up, and then for her to fuck off out of my hotel room. She clearly would never even consider lowering herself to this act! The dancer on the other hand was appreciative, enthusiastic, and sweet, all for a cost so small that it means nearly nothing to me.
10 years ago, I would have been working to land that chubby snob, 95% likely would have failed, and would have felt disappointed. Today, I have access to something of much higher quality on my own timing and terms, not to mention I get home much earlier. I guess this is an example of pooning smarter not harder?
This hobby makes so much more sense than chasing civilians.
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I will play along and comment on your discussion.
“You'd never invite a thief into your house.
So why would you allow thoughts that steal your joy to make themselves at home in your mind?”
:D
So I checked in and the headed for the elevators to go up to my room. I got inside the elevator and then a flock on teeny boppers jumped in right behind me. As soon as the doors closed they asked me "are you with Elvis". Oh what a time I could have had if I was willing to risk jail time.
Even if, depending on the guy's personal take, strip club ladies (or anything "hobby"-adjacent) are still considered "bad", they are significantly less bad than before when compared to the alternatives.
Course, none of this applies if you're tall, handsome, physically and mentally capable, and sufficiently well off in terms of personal finances. For those guys, it's probably up to personal preference on how little effort they'd like to put in, or maybe shore up any dry periods with spicier non-civvy alternatives.
those days/nights way passed the midnight hour trying to hook up with those like that elevator twat are long gone. i probably could still hit those scenes at my age and somewhat youthful appearance where there's a bunch of 25-35 yr old girls and maybe score that winning ticket. but why man? the high of the chase? some guys get a thrill out of that but the majority are like me and find the chase to be a chore, a job, a real pain in the fucking ass. get your rocks off from the strip club and go home with time to spare to enjoy your other activities/interests before bedtime.
As far as civvie dating, from what ive seen and experienced money and status will take you way further than looks or muscles. For most guys ive seen, theyre still paying rent and everything for their girlfriend, so they’re still indirectly paying for sex, but with the added headaches of not having freedom
"This is a little habit I picked up working in Mexico: folks say a formal-ish good day or good night to strangers on an elevator as they exit. It seems warm and genteel in a non-intrusive way. I liked it then, and still do it now nearly 10 years after my last trip south."
Side point, but I've always said hello and goodbye to people in the elevator. It seemed like a common courtesy, and not doing so would feel kind of like hanging up the phone on someone without saying goodbye, even if no conversation had taken place in the elevator. Curious that you went to Mexico to pick this up!
Pics and Vids or it didn’t happen.
:D
Good Times, Good Times.
I get it though - at this stage of my life I can’t be bothered with chasing civilian women. I’ll take it if it falls in my lap (pardon the pun), which has happened in a few occasions, but I’m 99% out of the civilian game.
Some guys have the attitude that they are above you and you’re their servant who should do anything for a dollar ITC—
Same guys would die just to talk to you in the grocery store.
🤷🏼♀️
https://youtu.be/81bt0ZJLMas?si=KBbfMm94…
Idk. I guess I never really viewed this as a replacement for anything else. Maybe I'm kidding myself though. Again idk.
Nowadays it’s gone even further- if you have musical talent, especially in a popular genre like hiphop- that too is enough. The small time drug dealers in highschool also got women thanks to being popular and well liked. If you looked gangster, and had gangster looking friends to hang out with- that all helped significantly with girls too.
You can see the same in college- but at this point money also starts to matter a lot more vs. highschool. The frat guys got the most women - even when they were ugly or out of shape or both. Student athletes- as long as it was a popular sport , also got the most, even if they looked ugly as hell.
With a high status guy- they can get hookups easily but those girls will eventually leave if they arent going to get anything out of the situation besides hooking up. A high status guy is valuable because hes popular and that can help the girl’s popularity and status if shes seen out with him, meets people he knows, or if hes internet famous and posts her on his social media. If hes just trying to use her as a secret hookup he doesnt post anywhere- she’ll eventually leave that situation.
Looks alone definitely wont help much for civvie dating, even if youre like an 8.5/10. There are many gym bros who will lose out to the fat bartender or ugly basketball player or frat guy. For civvie dating you have to have money or status or both. Being famous or instagram famous is also a form of currency in itself because of what people can gain from associating with you.