What Is The Hustle Red Line
Brahma2k
Excellence Always Costs Money (Tampa)
Getting stripper hustle from a CF is part of the deal, part of the game. Excluding ROBs, is there a red line for too over the top hustle? For example, she says she must have a bigger tip because she has to send money to family in the war torn section of Ukraine. It is effectively zero chance she knows anyone in Ukraine.
Is there any appeal to emotion hustle to get more tips that is a line too far and causes a full turn off? Or is it all just part of the game as long as once money is exchanged she performs enthusiastically?
Is there any appeal to emotion hustle to get more tips that is a line too far and causes a full turn off? Or is it all just part of the game as long as once money is exchanged she performs enthusiastically?
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With due respect what are talking about intimidated? It’s a simple question, is there a hustle level that’s a boner killer and makes one immediately look for a new stripper.
1. dancer I've seen for solid extras in vip and lda sees that I am becoming a regular with another dancer on her shift. I get a text talking about birthdays, weekend plans, bla bla. Then some pity trolling about how I'm seeing the new girl more than her. Then when I don't respond, a "broken heart" emoji and more complaining. My response: I don't respond to this SS. Result: she's quits the texting, and is perfectly pleasant the next time I see her in the club. I buy 1 from dance and then close out with my new regular.
2. not-my-type dancer at high pressure tactics Kitten's here in Seattle hits me with "wanna dance" just as I sit down, I decline. She comes back 10 minutes later and says there are no other girls in the club (lie), I decline. 10 minutes later again and now she's aggressive and demanding to know "why don't you like me". I decline. Result: she drops it.
3. dancer approaches, says hi and asks my name. Then, she grabs DC Jr and hits me with "wanna dance". I decline, say that I'm just getting settled in. Result: she moves on.
4. cf gives me all the mileage I can handle in vip on the regular. She is sweet, accommodating, and hot with a large ass, small tits, and small waist. She knows to approach gently, smile, chat for a bit, and inquire politely about dances. When I am ready, she gets my money. She doesn't bug me at all on text, but does reply promptly to my inquiries wrt schedule. Result: I keep coming back for vip + generous tips, and I'm probably going to treat myself to a double with #1 and #4 for my birthday. Does this count as Hustle?
5. dancer gives me a single LDA dance: giant tits out, all access, heavy grind, and sucks on my finger. I inquire about VIP, we agree price, and I get an alternating sweet cuddly / dirty dance finishing up with a BJ. She proceeds to try and suck the paint off of DC Jr. resulting in my personal happiness. We hug it out and I ask about her schedule. She follow up the next week with a nice pic, and some gentle inquiry wrt bookings. I have a busy week, and let her know I'll get back to her. She is sweet, compliments me, tells me to sleep well, and promises to send me more pics. Result: Well SHIT. If that is hustle, then I got hustled. Because I am definitely going back for more of that.
All 5 are forms of Hustle, but only two are effective ways of obtaining my hard earned cash. I guess it really is a head game.
Fair enough. The mundane hustle is actually entertaining to me. I like to give it back some. But the hustle playing to some widescale global misery, yea it grated on me some and killed my mood. I looked elsewhere afterwards but definitely didn’t write her off. It is just part of the game.
As to the original question, I did not read that you specified a CF. The recent situation I described of a CF claiming to have been essentially assaulted and bullied by the club owner is well over the red line. It stank of desperation and lies so blatant that they were disrepectful to expect me to buy into them. Maybe she thought she had me pegged as Captain Sav-a-ho.
Another event in the slightly more distant past was a former CF who had passed her prime and gone from hot to not. She still ran the Cuban Cartel, and would hook me up with other hotties in return for a 3-way VIP. Unfortunately, she always took the lions share my piece and my money when I really wanted more from the other dancer. Her protege, a young Cuban hottie who I had soured on knowing what a digusting slut she was, needed help since she was drinking her way through her take-home and on the verge of being fired every shift. As usual, Ysabel offered me a 3-way VIP with Selina, and I passed- not wanting either. She pushed verbally, she pushed her hands up my shorts, she questioned my manhood, my stamina, and pushed too damned hard. I cut her off. I told her no more never again. Completely blacklisted. I haven't seen either since, so I think they both got fired for reasons unrelated to that individual event.
Asking for special $, then not giving typical attention is a quick way to get removed from CF status.
In summary, as long as it's quid-pro-quo, it's not a negative version of hustle.....it's just them earning a living.
Good hustle = assertively going after money...while delivering on commitments and providing good experiences in exchange for cash. What's a "good experience"? It varies by PL, and even by day/mood. As long as PLs are happy with outcome, it's fine.
Bad Hustle = can I have another $1(s)? ....during tip walk.....particularly annoying if you were among the few tipping on stage, then she wants more during tip walk.....also the "one for the kitty?" nonsense; My rent is due....can you help me? Even worse....texts asking for supplemental cash.; "hey baby....you're so handsome....giggle giggle"....honey, don't insult my intelligence with that nonsense and fakeness.
I believe OP's comment of "all just part of the game as long as once money is exchanged she performs enthusiastically" is a good guideline.