I had a good experience with a stripper at one of the big Vegas clubs recently and I'd like to see her again on my next trip but I didn't get her number or anything. If you call a club are they likely to tell you if a particular girl will be working or pass along your number or anything?
No. Unlike most reviewers on this site, clubs take dancer privacy and safety seriously. They may lie and say she's working to generate a visit to the club though.
Agreed. Security and safety should always be a priority. And most clubs would prefer having customers coming in more frequently to look for their fav in person (and spend money while they’re there).
However, I have noticed a recent trend where dancers willingly offer me their phone numbers. But even having a dancers number and schedule often proves to be unreliable. Dancers can be very elusive. It’s part of the thrill of the hobby.
Dancers can be pretty-transient; likely more-so a place like Vegas – many dancers are also extremely-flaky so even if you get their # it’s often a crapshoot whether they respond or not - for many dancers their re$ponse to a text is often based on how hard-up for $$$ they are at the moment - Vegas has a constant high # of out-of-town visitors and often times for the dancers these custies are out-of-sight out-of-mind and they are onto the next batch of out-of-towners – small local clubs in smaller cities it’s a little different but still many of the same issues apply – often times to stand-out to a dancer you have to be a higher-than-avg spender and often over-multiple-visits for the dancer to want to take the effort to contact you (vs b/c you met her once although one visit can be all it takes sometimes) - this is not universal but applies to a high-degree.
No. The best chance is simply visiting on the same night of the week. But, so many reasons she won't be there. And even if she is there, the experience second time may not match the first.
You have fallen in love (lust) wit a stripper, are infatuated with your first time with her, everything went awesome it was a “good experience”
Now you are “Chasing the dragon” wanting to feel the same way as you did on your “first experience” with her.
Even if you find her you won’t fell the same, everything might be close, but it won’t be like the first time.
Nothing would compare to what you had on that first, magical time. And you are going to end broke and heartbroken.
Remember All activities, sexual or not, in our capitalist society have a cost in money, time and effort.
With respect to relationship with women; I would refer you to Demosthenes (384 – 12 October 322 BC)
Greek statesman and orator of ancient Athens.
1. We have courtesans for the sake of pleasure.
2. Concubines for the daily health of our bodies, and
3. Wives to bear us lawful offspring and be the faithful guardians of our homes
In this list is the Greek view of woman in the classic age.
And in all ages and times.
All men want that, but only some can afford it...
In today’s world Demosthenes would say:
1. We have high end escorts, centerfolds, actresses, models, Strippers (ITC OTC) etc that provide PSE/GFE for the sake of pleasure.
2. Mistresses/Sugar Babies/; etc, for the daily health of our bodies.
3. Trophy Girlfriends/Wives to bear us lawful offspring, and be the faithful guardians of our homes.
4. Realistic Sex Dolls/Gynoids/Fembot, and Internet Porn and Instagram/Onlyfans “Models”, for kicks-and-giggles”
Remember
“In this country, you gotta make the money first. Then when you get the money, you get the power. Then when you get the power, then you get the women.”
~ Cuban refugee Tony Montana (Al Pacino) in the movie Scarface
Three of my local strip clubs put up a nightly roll call on Twitter of which dancers are there. I've used it to see if dancers I like are there and also to see if dancers I don't like are there. I would be ok with the idea that dancers and management negotiate on what types of protection against stalkers are in place. The dancers should always feel safe.
I feel another reason strip clubs don't encourage phone calls asking if a girl is there is that they aren't completely happy with the idea that a dancer has a collection of regulars. This means she could move to another club and take her regulars with her. The club management wants customers to think in terms of visiting their club and picking a girl there rather than becoming attached to the idea of seeing a specific girl and following her if she switches clubs.
Someone up the thread mentioned social media. There are lots of ways to find the girl you're looking for on Instagram. Some clubs will actually tag their dancers on IG posts. (Usually the dancer has a distinct IG account just for her dancer persona.) So, you can find that profile and follow her or DM her and explain who you are. (YMMV.) Another creepier option is to scroll through all of the accounts that the club follows on IG and all of the accounts who follow the club on IG until you see your dancer. Then request to follow her or DM her from there. (Again, YMMV.) Ive had mixed success with these approaches over the years. If all else fails, remember what Wooderson said about strippers - you get older, and they stay the same age!
Vegas is difficult since so many of the dancers are traveling or just passing through. You have to hope that your dancer is a local. Your best bet would be to go to the club and ask the DJ if she is working that day and if so ask him to call her over. If she’s not there you might be able to ask whether she’s still around and he might tell you or might not.
Scotty, are you local to Vegas, or a periodic visitor?
If you're not local to Vegas, the likelihood of her even being in town during your next visit is quite low; The likelihood of her being at the same club is even lower.
While I'm not a fan of the large Vegas clubs, it seems that a positive aspect of those clubs are the multitude of dancers, as well as variety.
I'm nearly certain that you can find a suitable substitute to your CF.
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However, I have noticed a recent trend where dancers willingly offer me their phone numbers. But even having a dancers number and schedule often proves to be unreliable. Dancers can be very elusive. It’s part of the thrill of the hobby.
Absolutely no chance a club is going to pass along your number to a dancer.
Unless you spent some CASH-CASH there and they invited you back and asked for your contact info,
No.
I will play along and comment on your discussion.
You have fallen in love (lust) wit a stripper, are infatuated with your first time with her, everything went awesome it was a “good experience”
Now you are “Chasing the dragon” wanting to feel the same way as you did on your “first experience” with her.
Even if you find her you won’t fell the same, everything might be close, but it won’t be like the first time.
Nothing would compare to what you had on that first, magical time. And you are going to end broke and heartbroken.
Remember All activities, sexual or not, in our capitalist society have a cost in money, time and effort.
With respect to relationship with women; I would refer you to Demosthenes (384 – 12 October 322 BC)
Greek statesman and orator of ancient Athens.
1. We have courtesans for the sake of pleasure.
2. Concubines for the daily health of our bodies, and
3. Wives to bear us lawful offspring and be the faithful guardians of our homes
In this list is the Greek view of woman in the classic age.
And in all ages and times.
All men want that, but only some can afford it...
In today’s world Demosthenes would say:
1. We have high end escorts, centerfolds, actresses, models, Strippers (ITC OTC) etc that provide PSE/GFE for the sake of pleasure.
2. Mistresses/Sugar Babies/; etc, for the daily health of our bodies.
3. Trophy Girlfriends/Wives to bear us lawful offspring, and be the faithful guardians of our homes.
4. Realistic Sex Dolls/Gynoids/Fembot, and Internet Porn and Instagram/Onlyfans “Models”, for kicks-and-giggles”
Remember
“In this country, you gotta make the money first. Then when you get the money, you get the power. Then when you get the power, then you get the women.”
~ Cuban refugee Tony Montana (Al Pacino) in the movie Scarface
I feel another reason strip clubs don't encourage phone calls asking if a girl is there is that they aren't completely happy with the idea that a dancer has a collection of regulars. This means she could move to another club and take her regulars with her. The club management wants customers to think in terms of visiting their club and picking a girl there rather than becoming attached to the idea of seeing a specific girl and following her if she switches clubs.
If you're not local to Vegas, the likelihood of her even being in town during your next visit is quite low; The likelihood of her being at the same club is even lower.
While I'm not a fan of the large Vegas clubs, it seems that a positive aspect of those clubs are the multitude of dancers, as well as variety.
I'm nearly certain that you can find a suitable substitute to your CF.