Dancers paying tip outs.
shadowcat
Atlanta suburb
In my experience most of the dancers pay their fees to the house mom when they are leaving for the day. There have been times when some dancers did not make enough to pay it. My go to club Vivide has been requiring the dancers to pay the house mom as soon as they arrive. I've had dancers come in and ask me to loan them money upfront so that the can pay the house mom and then repay me with dances or VIP. Last week they started a new policy of the door girl collecting the house fee before a dancer can even enter the club. This policy is really going to hurt all of those dancers that spend there money as fast as they can make it. There are 3 house moms and their positions are a little shaky now. What are their reason for being there now?
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During dayshift it's usually whenever throughout their shift. At night it's when their shift ends.
I'm also seeing clubs doing away with house moms.
All clubs are different. Some clubs may not need a housemom and some definitely do. Varies by type of club, volume working the club, culture of the club, etc.
I tend to think of housemom as the frontline supervisor. You can cut that position, but then any issues that come up, the girl goes straight to the manager. Some managers don't want to be involved in the execution or handling people issues. So you can have housemom do dirty work.
If the girl has a bad shift and doesn't cover the house fee through sales they have to pay it at the end of the shift. Of course the smaller Midwestern clubs I frequent tend to have smaller house fees and fewer girls to keep track of so I can understand why clubs in bigger cities would want to get their fees upfront.
I don't know of any clubs where girls have to pay the house mom, they seem to operate on tips and the girls pay her for various services, hair/makeup/nails, outfits, sanitary products, perfume, maybe locker rental, that kind of shit. That's their purpose, kinda like a bathroom attendant with more shit. As least as far as I can tell.
If a club wants to demonstrate that it doesn't have control over their behaviors, it has to be willing to cede some control, lol. The downside over the past 5 years is that more clubs are struggling to fill slow weekday shifts, but it is what it is. They will just need to become more creative in sweetening the pot for the girls.
One thing I've seen a lot of clubs switch to is a system of escalating house fees as the night goes on. It incentivizes dancers who want to pay less to come in early while those who wish to only work premium hours (10-2) can pay more for the privilege and show up when they want. Brilliant - win win - the lazy girls essentially subsidize the industrious ones. The girls who show up late also run the risk of being turned away if the club already has too many girls on shift, so they have to factor that into the calculus on busy weekend nights.
That's just one example of clubs getting more creative. Over time the clubs that are still pulling stunts like punishment fees and mandated schedules will have to conform. The industry will continue to evolve and other innovative practices in motivating girls to fill slower shifts will become commonplace.
Another, nonsense I heard is DJs asking tips to put on the stage or off the stage by skipping turn to entertain a whale etc. DJs also has to be taken care apart from house moms if they don’t want trouble. One club DJ I heard from a dancer even he expects free OTC favors dancers after hours.
Finally managers. Most clubs has well behaved managers surprisingly. Only thing that they push the girls to party with people or OTC to boost their business interests. Working as dancer in a club not only comes with cash but also with free add on troubles. Every other week I end paying couple girls their late fees, house fees etc. it is ok to be nice to these girls as long as they treat me good.
This isn’t 100% the case, but now that I’m thinking about it, a club is less likely to push dancers to pay their house when immediately walking in the door if they collect cuts for all level of dances, including the lowest priced single song dance option offered. Or that weird dancer drink sale system some places have. They are more likely to want house up front if they don’t collect any cuts from single lap dances and only take money out of VIPs. But there are plenty of exceptions of course. And even if collecting up front is standard, I’m sure lots of staff members will let things slide and collect later at their own discretion but that would be between the dancer and the staff member. My Denver club will allow dancers to not pay up front, but if they do that then they have to pay an extra $10 on top of what it would be. Not that any of that affects me, because I usually show up early enough to not have to pay any house fee 😁
Also, the role of house moms vary from place to place. Plenty of clubs have none. Some have house moms that only come in during the weekend. Some house moms have a more active role with enforcing club rules like chasing dancers out of restroom stalls if they are walking in together, or making sure whatever is worn is either legal for the area or just follows the club’s standards. Others are not enforcing anything and just simply sell things to dancers and are also de facto therapists for them. Some clubs make it mandatory to tip house moms and some don’t. A lot of house moms seemed to stay away during the height of Covid but now it seems at the places that already had house moms, they have returned.
Maybe some clubs treated traveling dancers, who are a higher payment risk, differently than house dancers? Maybe there are regional differences in approaches? Again IDK.
That's called a warning shot lol
I hate clubs with house moms. They are useless. I bring all my own stuff, I’m an adult, I don’t need help, and it’s just another person expecting to be tipped out, or another person the club requires me to tip out.
House moms are people who do a job for the club but don’t get paid by the club and therefore the dancers have to pay for them to be there.
They are also usually bitches.