Extras have become boring. 15-30 minutes is just not enough time to have fun. Always seems rushed and seldom worth the money. It also hurts that at my go to club, Desires, the newer dancers just don't appeal to me and those that do/did appeal to me, really no longer do since I have been there, done that. Without variety, this has no appeal to me. The solution? Go old school, skip the extras and just get full contact laps. It's been 6 weeks of this and with a new perspective on the hobby, I am enjoying it once again. Sometimes turning over a new leaf is the solution.
What have I discovered? Rhode Island Dolls, a "starter" club has a brand-new crew of dancers. By brand new I mean 4 dancing for the first time ever on Thursday night. The combined age of the 4 newcomers Thursday was 74. If you like them very young and petite, turn over a new leaf.
Yesterday I dumped a dancer that has been spending the afternoon at my house weekly for the last 3 months. Friends that know me and her think I am making the wrong decision. Situations like that don't just happen every day. Especially when you are 80 years old. I explained to her that it was not her. That it was just me and that I was BORED and needed to get out more. She'll miss the money but not me. I'll miss the sex but not her.
Tomorrow starts a new day!