Dancers with strict boundaries, ITC vs OTC

It seems dancers with SO’s are more likely to have boundaries like no pussy touching. However there is one dancer who literally has rules like she only flirts with guys in the club, never over text. Pussy touching from the outside, but no fingering or going inside. Dances in the club only. No dances outside. There was a post on r/stripper about how a lapdance done outside the club is “cheating” but in the club is not cheating because it’s “work”. Lol. It seems like a lot of strippers are strippers because they don’t want to be escorts. And that’s the insanity you could potentially be dealing with. Some people literally believe a blowjob ITC is fine but a flirty text OTC is going too far. How many dances do you get with a single dancer before moving to OTC? Imo if you’ve gone two dances and no OTC was made available you’re getting screwed over. If you’re paying big money like $400+ and only getting a lapdance that has to be especially embarrassing considering she likely has a guy who gets to bang her for free while you’re paying $400 just to grope her ass and boobs alongside more potential boundaries. Additionally it seems if you just keep buying lapdances from the same dancer, they aren’t gonna be as likely to offer otc since they can just keep selling dances. The more I think about it, pornstars and escorts just seem like the better option unless you really just want a lapdance and nothing more. With getting otc from dancers, you can run into the same issues as trying to get women from bars or regular clubs. It’s not as smooth a process as getting an escort.