A couple of quick Memorial Day thoughts:
gammanu95
My casual drinking is your alcohol poisoning.
On a more serious note: for everyone who posts about Memorial Day on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, TUSCL or where the fuck ever, for everyone who comments on one of those posts, for everyone who virtue signals to themselves by telling a veteran "thank you for your service" (which always sounds like "better you than me" to my ears), when is the last time that you put your money where your mouth is and volunteered in a soup kitchen which outreached to homeless vets? When is the last time you donated to Wounded Warriors or Tunnel 2 Towers? Was it 2002 or 2020? Anytime in the 2010s or 2020s? These are just rhetorical questions, something I would like everyone to think about and take a long, hard look in the mirror before answering.
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I realize most of them really just want the immediate dopamine rush from "doing something good." For a while, I've been tempted to take their generosity and then turn around and do the donation myself, but I already donate to a couple of organizations, and periodically help out the USO when troops come into the airport.
It sounds minor, but service dogs provide an important service to veterans. They provide unconditional love and they are amazing animals as they can sense oncoming panic attacks. The more I’ve learned, the more I’m convinced this is a worthwhile cause.
Sure, additional assistance is welcome, but many of the "veterans" organizations are just playing on the public's sympathy for veterans, especially after 9/11. Wounded Warriors had a scandal a few years ago for wasteful spending. And I get sick and tired of seeing every panhandler holding a "homeless vet" sign. I just don't believe every male panhandler is a vet, and even if they are, I think it's dispicable to use veteran status to beg for money. But by all means, donate to any charity you deem worthy, but don't feel shamed into giving just because they tack the word "veteran" onto their charity name or scrawl it on their panhandler sign.
And yes, I do give to charities, including veterans organizations, but know who you are giving to.
and if you really want to be charitable, get in touch with your local chapters of VFW or American Legion, and volunteer with USO, legitimate charitable organizations, where you can do the most good.
doctor evil raised facts about these well known charities, they make a fortune fundraising and spend small percentages of the funds raised on actual charitable work.
While I definitely agree with most of what you posted, gonna have to disagree with you on that part. I personally know a fairly significant number of vets who've been treated by the local VA hospital, and it's a clusterfuck. Misdiagnoses, denial of service, non-existent after care, etc. It makes me super happy that I have my own insurance, even if I pay out the nose for it.
@Cashman1234: "but service dogs provide an important service to veterans."
Absolutely, 1000% this. If you can, this is one of the most worthwhile causes to which you can contribute. Do your research though, there are scammers out there.
I've heard it's better now but how much better I have no idea.
Another VA center opened up nearer to me about 15 miles away and a couple of my friends go there with no complaints but their services are limited.
I have good health insurance so I use the Cleveland Clinic which has branches all over the area for any medical needs so I will probably never seek out VA services in the future.