Is grinding the pussy on your willy, using hands considered extra/high mileage

It seems some dancers use a move where they grind their pussy on your thighs. Why is this. Do they not want to grind on your dick area, due to having a SO, or fear of you cumming or something...

TUSCLers have different definitions of extras. I think dancers do too.

Mine includes paying more than the cost of a dance ("extra") with the intent of getting off by whatever means. Usually, this is something that has to be done on the down low. Even in extras clubs, you have to be discreet about it.
Her trying to make you LDK is not an extra.
Her trying to jack you to completion over your pants without an extra charge is not an extra.
Her pulling out your dick to jack you off to completion, is an extra.

Yes, if her grinding her pussy on me is too far, there's no point in getting a dance.

BTE, better to get the girl to open up to you so that you can act upon her.

There will be a time for BJ, at least preliminary BJ. But you should look to being able to move on her, and finally going to FS.

SJG

Virtually none of the lapdances I get involve grinding their tender bits on my monster cock. If anyone ever starts that shit, I shut them down immediately. What do they think I am, some kind of slut who only cares about a nut in my pants?

How is a lapdance possible without them grinding their pussy on your dick area at some point? Isnt it not a lapdance if that doesn’t happen?

Isnt a lapdance by definition them grinding the pussy on the dick area?
Sometimes they may alternate with that, and grinding the pussy on your thigh.

^ lap dancing originally meant lap sitting. Tended to induce titty fondling.

DFKing not uncommon either.

Anyone interested in strip clubs needs to read this:
https://www.amazon.com/Bottom-Feeders-Fr…

SJG

DFKing meaning deep french kissing?

Why do some dancers try to get you to LDK whereas some try to avoid it by alternating switching positions often?

^ this is why you want to demonstrate generosity and charm and deal with them in the front room. Easier to get her to follow your lead. Easier to get a Front Room Feel Up And Make Out Session going.

And don't go for LDKing or BJ. Let her see that you are saving your load for her. If you can't FS itc, then maybe you can DATY her. That always goes over well!

And look for ones you want to be waking up in the mornings with.

SJG

Jimmy Smith, Any Number Can Win
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=exisXq6t…

BigThirdEye, You are a troll. You may join Icy, SJG, and Dixienormus in the DCPNW Ignore Zone. It's like the Phantom Zone from Superman, but with less screaming and more FRMOS. BEGONE.

BTE is not a troll, he is an open and fun loving guy.

Some of the people on this forum, I won't mention names, they talk about fun, but they are total shit heads.

No, BTE is just like juice, so easy going that fun means fun.

SJG

Confirmation Jimmy Smith
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CdjGw3ym…

I am not a troll that is nonsense. Being a noob isn’t trolling

Please stop this

BTE don't let these creeps get you down.

We have a mechanism for dealing with them. We have not just one, but two underground circle jerk rooms.

Thing is though the health department makes us Clorox mop them twice a day.

When they get grumbling like this it's because the circle jerk rooms are closed. So they will be back in there and then you'll be hearing a big Ahh! coming up from the underground. Don't let these creeps get you down.

SJG

real good!
The Thrill is Gone + Summertime (BB king + George Gershwin cover)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pFEIJSXL…

This sort of post always reminds me of the time I jokingly told a stripper I was going to report her to the Stripper Board of Ethics. She got a bit peeved, which made me wonder if she actually thought there was a Stripper Board of Ethics.

In most places in the US, even if the a dancer just committed beforehand to providing typical two-way contact, it would legally be prostitution. Even when things are promised, if they are not delivered, what are you going to do, stalk her, slash her tires, what? So:
1) avoid clubs where LE prioritizes strictly enforcing prostitution laws.
2) avoid clubs in places like Vegas and Orlando where dancers can make money even if they leave pretty much every PL dissatisfied.

When I see a dancer who I find attractive, I get one song with her. If she provides good two-way, I'll get a half hour (at least). In my experience, it's very rare that, whatever she says, later dances (even if they are in the twice-as-expensive extra-naughty room) will be better than the first song. When I go to the club, generally there is at least one dancer there who's my established fav. If that weren't the case, I doubt that going to strip clubs would be worth it to me.

Back before I was a broken down old man, I wasn't as easily satisfied with just two-way contact. But I found escorts to be better providers of that, not strippers.

Don't feed the trolls.

The thread question is bogus, given the words "supposed to..."

There aren't such strictures generally established for these things. Dancers may choose to do certain things or not do certain things; always their choice, within the limits of the club management as they may enforce such limits.

How, isnt the standard lapdance position their ass facing you and them grinding their crotch on your crotch? The position might not be maintained the entire dance but I thought that is the standard position of a lapdance?

I seriously wouldn’t be surprised if BTE is SJG. Sometimes people create alternate personalities due to a stressful occurrence. Covid has done worse to others.

The only thing than concerns me is when those personalities start talking to each other. Sounds like SJG has been inspired by moon knight.

I don't think that SJG is BTE, but the Moon Knight reference amused me.

Us trolls is eating steak and potatos and roasted veggies today 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

And pizza!!!

NJBalla what do you mean by the moon knight referencd. How am I like moon knight?
NjBalla i had asked you on another thread what was the age difference with you and that dancer who wanted you to date her?

NjBalla how am I similar to moon knight? I havent seen the show

NJballa if I was SJG what form of his personality would I be?

@BTE, I dont want to ruin the show for anyone who hasnt seen it. Besides based on the frequency of your posts it looks like you could have the time to watch it. Im a fan of this forum but 5 hours away from your keyboard to catch up on the show is a worthy investment. Age difference was probably 7 years.

BTE, do you know what Meyers-Briggs type you are? I am INTJ, Introverted, Intuitive, THinking, Judgemental, often seen as the Evil Overlord type.

SJG

Gimme Shelter [Rolling Stones Cover] - Britny Lobas at The Roost Austin, Tx
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B71GZQYH…

SJG, is it ok if i make a theead asking people to post? What do you think I am?

NjBalla please mate i dint have disney+ please tell me what makes me similar to moon knight. Its just a personality thing no spoilers

I cant watch the show. I can post here and multi task

BTE is indeed our next Juice. He is exactly what this forum needs.

SJG

Gimme Shelter [Rolling Stones Cover] - Britny Lobas at The Roost Austin, Tx
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B71GZQYH…

SJG what do you suspect my myers briggs is

No wonder you’re swimming in pussy SJG. You have this FRMOS stuff mastered to a T!