Stripper subreddit LDK topic
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Adventures of Assjobman
One recent thread was an open letter from a dancer to guys who try to cum in their pants during dances. It simply said, she knows what we're trying to do. She's actively working against us. And she hates us.
Now if that were a post on stripperweb I could imagine it'd be full of replies in extreme agreement. Which would have you believing that all dancers are extremely against it.
On that thread however, there was just *some* agreement. And then there was a dancer who flat out disagreed. Saying she doesn't mind bringing customers to orgasm at all as long as they get a certain number of dances and don't get any jizz on her. And that comment surprisingly got a lot of upvotes, although those upvotes could have very well come from a bunch of lurking customers like myself.
It was refreshing to see that convo not turn into an echo chamber of contempt for LDKers. Especially since I've had so many lapgasms from different dancers (shout out MrDeuce!). Surely those dancers also knew what I was up to and didn't feel like the OP of that reddit thread.
BTW I have no problem with any dancer that does feel like that OP. Everyone has their boundaries and I wouldn't want to cross any. I'd hope I would likely be able to tell from her dances that she wasn't down with any LDK action and it'd be one and done if I did pick her for a dance.
Link to Reddit thread: https://www.reddit.com/r/stripper/commen…
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Sounds like she may be one of those super weird dancers who's not even down for FRMO.
For those who are into LDK, do you have any opinions about what's a reasonable tip for getting you to nut? Any advice as to how strippers can avoid getting ripped off by LDK freeloaders?
Or refuse to do floor dances and you only do VIP. Or if the club has no vip, then they have something like 3/$100 only—refuse to sell individual songs. That’s not my style but some dancers do that, and do it pretty well.
@heaving Ah, makes sense 😁
I can see a dancer inducing-an-LDK as going above-and-beyond and I think a tip is in order but there are dancers that try to browbeat a custy and make him feel like he committed murder and then use the situation to demand a tip while browbeating him – personally I think that’s out-of-line – this would be similar to a custy brow-beating a dancer b/c she did not make him cum in VIP and then the custy demanding a discount – an LDK is something that is a possibility when giving a dance just like for some guys not-cumming is a possibility even when getting extras.
Paul has become a mod of r/strippers, which is about half the size of r/stripper, but still pretty big at 35k members. r/strippers does allow customers (though I'd tread lightly) and is not totally extras unfriendly
It's also the cheapness of the ldk crowd I'm general. Everyone knows what the guys who come in don't buy drinks. Get 1 or 2 dances and leave.
What I said would be more comparable to “no,you can’t order off the dollar menu, buy a combo or gtfo”
Also, I wasn’t citing my own personal beliefs there. I’m not against the LDK customer crowd, just that if a dancer really does despise that, then it’s how to manage and avoid that. You are the one who used the strongly worded question of “how strippers can avoid getting ripped off by LDK freeloaders”
We all know you travel so much cause you're fleeing bench warrant for McNugget hand slapouts. They give you the needle for that in TX.
Yep! I have to think that guys who post questions there often are looking for some stripper attention, maybe do a little kowtowing to get some praise. Eh, just a little online simping, no harm done lol
I think there is a significant number of dancers who get off on the fact that they have such a hold over guys if they’re good dancers. I wouldn’t be completely surprised to find them comparing counts at the end of the shift, how many guys did they get off etc.
Pick the one you want, and showing generosity and charm, make something happen with her.
Front Room Make Out Session and then back room FS, then out the door with her to go continue on a mattress somewhere.
SJG
Mona Lisa Twins
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bs79I7d1…
No need to regurgitate memories of visits from 20 years ago. Have some experiences in the strip club in this day and age. Then come and share about your visits with the members of this forum. You know, like all the rest of us do.
Solicit prostitution
Some hookers will have you kiss them as a test if you're LE
If you pass she'll fuck you in vip
Then try to get her to do outcast service next time
Duh, yeah, it's not FRMO.
People define feminist differently, I don't see it as a synonym for cocktease. A feminist will logically feel like she's got the same rights to mack on you as you have to mack on her. But even so, she may decide that playing those games is not living her best life.
I personally hate posting or commenting on there because my opinion and perception of the job is much different, so I'm constantly down voted or "attacked by the mob".
I see r/stripper as far worse than StripperWeb. StripperWeb is a more diverse website with a history of providing help and ideas for strippers at varying points in their careers. R/stripper seems to be a congregation of mostly female dancers who hate men and many hate stripping. The overall theme and vibe of that subReddit is negative with a tinge of delusion. It's fine to complain about customers, who doesn't do that in any job of course... But to go on the internet and whine about your job and what it's becoming or things about it you dislike (extras and extras dancers) and expect any real change to come from that is not how to go about making that or any other change happen. They post photos on there, a public forum, and complain to and blame the moderator because men message them in response to the photos. The moderator has no control over that and yet they still whine about it because they feel they shouldn't have to change their message settings. Extras will always be a part of club culture and many there are blind to that reality due to their negativity and closed mindedness.
I simply don't understand how they can be so anti-men and hate the customers and job so much and still dance.
There was a post on r/strippers recently where another girl was asking about working without being touched. It is literally impossible to be a stripper with the expectation of never being touched - even at air dance clubs.
It's like they want to go backwards in time to when stripping wasn't so mainstream and was taboo. Most of those girls should work at a peep show bar with a plastic wall dividing them from the customers - problem solved.
Those are just my opinions though from actually interacting with them on the two stripper subReddits. Extras are and will ALWAYS be a part of clubs. And it's not the dancers doing it. It's the managers and club stuff allowing extras to happen. Yelling at extras dancers on a subReddit is not going to make them go away.
There are girls that are in-love with the "glamorous aspect" of stripping often portrayed and think they will make tons of money by basically just showing a little skin or that guys are such desperate-PLs they will pay them hundreds or thousands just to sit and talk to them.
On the plus side, at least I haven’t gotten banned off r/stripclubs yet 🥳
R/strippers just gained a new mod though. 🥳🎉
100% could not agree more. Social media and Stripper TikTok (StripTok) are not helping and are only glamorizing stripping. It is not a job that should ever be glamorized.
I'm always mystified by PLs who get such a phone pole up the ass about strippers trying to bullshit them out of $. They come across like nobody else has done this to them. Do they NOT have a boss? Do they NOT have a doctor? Do they NOT have any loser parasite relatives? Have they NEVER bought a car or a house? It's the way of the world, and I'm not pure myself. I shy away from the bullshitting, but that's why my employer would never let me work on a sales team (and they shy away from letting me talk to interviewees). So effectively I'm just getting of with letting others do the bullshitting for me.
I think I would strategically retreat if a stripper large enough to pin me to a chair was advancing on my. I don't think she could sneak up on me, I'd feel the ground vibrating.
But that is not why buying dances is a chump's game and that is not why the FRMOS is so important.
You want to get the girl opened up to relate to you in a perfectly ordinary way.
Just as a show of respect she still gets good money, but that money is not motivating her or buying her.
SJG
Which is why I'm surprised you say that stripperweb is better in your opinion. I would think if you made those type of posts on stripperweb the herd would be even worse than they are on Reddit in replying to you. The things you said about the dancers on r/strippers, I felt exactly the same way about the girls on stripperweb. I haven't visited stripperweb in a while though, maybe it's changed.
Yeah I see some cringe posts on Reddit though, I was tripping out about the girl complaining about being touched also. But I did like the advice she got. It wasn't just an echo chamber of 'yeah I can't stand these gropey ass men!'. Instead, a lot of dancers chimed in and said 'if you can't handle guys touching you, this job ain't for you'.
Anyhow, I think the thread that is stickied to the top of r/stripper titled 'so you think you can dance?' is one of the realest pieces ever written about dancing. And tbh I could have sworn that was you @Bubbleyum who wrote it. But I guess not, unless that's your alternate profile. The writing style was pretty similar.
The girl who wrote that thread is a straight up bitch. I've had unkind interactions with her on both stripper subReddits. She's very anti-extras and extremely anti-men. I, personally, don't think she should be a stripper with her mindset. There was a post a long time ago on r/strippers of a porn scene taking place at a strip club. The actress was giving a bj on the salesfloor of the club. That bitch replied saying "hope she gets fired." I countered, hopefully embarrassing her, informing her it was a porn scene given the film quality and the watermark. And then we got into about how she believes extras girls should just escort and are ruining the industry. And then I told her to come to Detroit and work. Find out how not safe escorting is and why extras girls choose to do ITC instead. And then she accused me of not being a real stripper because I am extras friendly. To which I informed her that extras friendly clubs do exist and they are not brothels and why. I had more interactions with her, but none as extreme as what I already spoke of. But, in short, fuck that cunt. That's how much I can't stand her.
I haven't been on StripperWeb in ages. First, I can't log in for whatever reason. Whenever I do, it logs me out right away. I tried for a while on multiple devices/browsers and even created new accounts. So I gave up. Also, most of the information on there is dated and stripper Reddit is far more mainstream given it shows up way higher in Google searches.
When you log in, you have to select the box nearby to indicate that you want to stay logged in or else it will do that. I made a second account too before I figured that out. 🙄
But I swear from reading her last couple months of posts she didn't give off any indication that she was against extras girls or clubs.
Let's hope the new mod is extras friendly!