thinking back about strippers you went out with any regrets?

I regret how some girls ended up. But not my time with them. The thing I've seen cause the most damage isn't drugs. It's toxic relationships

And how is she using you if you ask her on a.road trip? Not fucking you doesn't mean she used you

I had a regular I took out to dinner three times with no sex afterward. She probably considered her company enough to pay me back and I would agree with that, so I didn't feel cheated. One time I had another regular offer to go out to dinner with me if I gave her a hundred dollars, but I politely declined. It doesn't seem worth it to me to give a girl a hundred dollars just to sit across the table from me in a restaurant. Another time a regular offered to let me take her to Vegas. I would feel a little cheated if I spent a lot of money taking a stripper to Vegas and there was no sex. I didn't take her up on her offer.

I thought I would impress a Russian stripper, and I used a connection to get dinner reservations at one of the trendy Manhattan restaurants. I was a mess and I was rarely at home during that time in my life.

I don’t know what it was about that dancer, but I was definitely infatuated. Maybe it was a mix of thinking I found something in the club that I was missing at home - and heavy drinking?

I spent a good amount of money, and I didn’t care about the food. I think it was more to show off the girl. I don’t recommend this at all. If you decide to take a dancer to Red Lobster, for a pre sex meal, it’s all good. Don’t go out of your way to impress a dancer, as that is not a smart approach. It was an expensive lesson learned.

I've heard stories like this too many times to count, where a guy gets into one of these situations assuming that the mere act of bringing a dancer on some adventure will ensure that he gets laid. In virtually every instance where the expectations were not clear and/or he had not already been in her pants, the guy in question did NOT get what he was seeking.

The one time I planned a long trip with a stripper whose gates I had yet to breached I made certain she understood that I wouldn't bring her unless we cleared that hurdle. What finally got us there was seeing an airline reservation in her name. Funny enough this trip eventually fell through for other reasons (hers not mine), but she remained a steady OTC favorite for several months thereafter.

Similarly, I will usually only do a big night out (dinner, entertainment stops after, etc.) with a girl who I've already tapped. The one notable exception was a big night out in Manhattan with a gorgeous Russian girl, but that was a calculated risk as I would have been perfectly OK if I did not get the dessert at the end as I enjoyed the whoe event anyway - though fortunately I did.

There was an absolute gem I met one night. Had a great time in the club with her. She had just started stripping, didn’t have her own car and had to rely on her coworkers to bring her to the club to work, which she did on the weekends and then returned to home which was 2 hours each way away. This was on a Friday when we met. I threw out she could spend the night with me in my hotel and I’d drop her back off at the club the next evening. She was down with the idea but not 100%, I wasn’t either because I didn’t know what I was going to do with from when got up Saturday morning to 7pm that night. I should have pressed the issue, then I would have had sex all night and morning instead of just once, and I’d have her number.

Never got her number, never saw her again after repeated trips to the club. One of many that got away or disappeared.

I regret nothing!

I've never gone out with a stripper, although it hadn't been for a lack of trying when I was younger and dumber.

You're not entitled to sex just coz you spend money on her.

Like that classic tattoo: "No regerts!"

@rickdugan

Pics and Vids of the OTC fave and the Russian girl or it didn’t happen.

:D

Good Times, Good Times...

@CJKent_band: Pics and vids of any girl whose ever given you the time of day or it didn't happen.

I have taken a few girls on road trips. I've always held the opinion that I couldn't force them to do anything with me even if they agreed to do so beforehand, and I'm not the type to strand someone far away from home just because they wouldn't fuck me. In addition, I would never invite someone along on such if I didn't think I'd actually enjoy their company separate from sex, so I've always made it clear that sex isn't part of the "base plan" (so to speak). They get the ride, a separate bed in my room (not getting two rooms), meals, and a bus ticket home if they decide to quit halfway through (assuming I can't get her home faster than the bus), no questions asked.

My feeling on the subject is, if I have to be on the road (this was when I was traveling more for work, and my wife wasn't free to come along), the company of an attractive young lady who might fuck me is better than traveling alone.

I have yet to be disappointed with the outcome.

going out with strippers is only regrettable if you're expecting an orgasmic outcome at the end. if that was what you were seeking in the first place then you should have stuck to the usual pay for dances/vip room routine.

No real regrets here. Could some situations have been better? For sure, but things are never certain with anyone, especially strippers.

I never went out with a stripper. The times where I’ve had enough free time due to being single or due to work travel, it was always easy enough to find a civilian. Worst case scenario I’d order up a hooker to my hotel room in a pinch. It’s hard to imagine wanting to date a stripper, I’m usually interested in them for the brief physical interlude, not for the dinner conversation.

Holy hell, I forgot that I did actually date two strippers in New Orleans. Clearly not memorable. The first I was dating her before I found out she was a stripper. She was a seven, but not a knockout. Definitely a girl that did not have her shit together. Single mother of twin girls. I realized she was trouble, and broke it off after a few weeks. The second was a yellowbone who called herself Asia. She was a high 8, she was the living, breathing, lady in the street and freak in the bed. We had a cool rapport in the club, but didn't have the same chemistry out in public. Her family did not approve of her dating a white man, so she was always too nervous about being seen to really let loose and enjoy herself. I bought her a cell phone since her mother bitched me out when I called her house once. No regrets, the relationship just fizzled out after a few weeks.

As for regular "going out", I have only done it with a few strippers. Took a pair to strip club they were thinking of dancing at; they wanted to go as customers and most of the clubs here illegally exclude women with no male escort. Took another to dinner a couple of times after our escapades. And of course, I took my ATF on several "dates" over the years.

Shoot I’ve dated so many I lost count. Married one for 15 years, had another after who got away. Another recently who would like a relationship. The caveat is that unless they’re over 40 without kids, it’s a no go. That’s why I hang out during dayshift. All of the girls know I’m looking for my next ex wife and try to set me up. It’s actually comical

Dates? Road trips? No, only a few dancers were interesting enough beyond their physical appeal to ever consider such.

I do fondly remember one time when I took a dancer to the bar-restaurant next door to the club for her dinner break before night-shift.

Late 30s, 5'3", dark hair, lovely large but well-executed man-mades. Interesting woman, good conversationalist, not the usual 'poverty of content' you often find among younger women today.

Given the 'day-core' the food was delicious and above expectations as were the prices of drinks. And she took full advantage of the menu and drinks...lusty appetite ‼️

She would use her club earnings to finance a trip abroad each year. She had just returned from living in Vietnam for several months. Lived cheaply among the locals and enjoyed local eateries and markets.

She was much a 'free-spirit ... try anything once' person so she talked of her sexual experiences there. But she also described the culture and the people with quite a lot of insight. In addition she was a self-taught chef who took what she learned in Vietnam and elsewhere to start ( with her chef-boyfriend) a side-business as a caterer.

She may have been a free spirit but she was also very clear-headed about aging out of stripping and planning for her future.

So was I 'disappointed' ? Have regrets?
No. It was a genuinely enjoyable and delightful time despite the unexpected expense.

Took plenty good pics. Have strategy store them. Some strippers wish fuked more others wondered why even bothered doing them as many times as I did.