perhaps a silly question, about ATFs; your thoughts?

Not necessarily. It’s YOUR FAVORITE. So you tell me.

Yes, and it's still ATF.

Because it's *your* ATF, not mine.

@gothamyte

I will play along and answer your question:

Q: can a dancer be labeled an ATF (all time favorite).....if we never had sex?

A: YES

The TUSCL Glossary says:

ATF = All Time Favorite - a patron's favorite dancer. Also see PL.

It is, by definition, just a favorite dancer.

In my humble opinion and limited experience, many TUSCL members have favorites they like and enjoy their company/interaction/the chase/relationship, etc and sometimes the dancer do not have and will never have sex with them

Remember: “Everything on this site should be considered a work of fiction.”

Wait. Some of you guys are having sex with dancers???

Yeah. Your choice on what makes a favorite.

Can a steak be your ATF meat but you never eat it?

shadowcat said "Can a steak be your ATF meat but you never eat it?"

Faulty comparison, in my opinion. There's plenty of guys who go to strip clubs regularly and don't require sex from the experience. If a guy really loves spending time with a particular dancer, then that's his ATF. How that time is spent is irrelevant.

This sort of falls under not telling people that they're having fun wrong.

As long as she is your all-time favorite dancer it doesn't matter why.

Yeah she's your favorite dancer not your favorite hooker.