Stage tipping, you like to see her tits, she wants to show her ass
Has this ever happened to you? I like looking at a nice pair of tits when I go to tip a girl on stage. If I'm standing near the stairs, I don't mind her doing a bit of bump and grind but some dancers think all guys want to see her ass move around. I get irritated by that. I'm not that interested in looking at her ass close up. I can see that from all the way across the club. Apparently some dancers started believing that all guys must like that. When I see a dancer repeatedly trying to move her ass around instead of showing her tits to the guy tipping, I won't tip her.
There have been a few rare cases where a dancer does have a very nice ass or can do a nice booty shake but I don't know why some dancers think everyone tiping them wants to see that and only that. I mean most of these dancers don't look that great from behind but may have nice tits. I go to strip clubs to see tits for the most part. Only about 1 percent of dancers do I care that much about looking at their rear up close. I get tired of some dancers copying others and trying to shake their ass when I want to see her tits. Oh well, I'm not planning on visiting that club too much anymore.
There have been a few rare cases where a dancer does have a very nice ass or can do a nice booty shake but I don't know why some dancers think everyone tiping them wants to see that and only that. I mean most of these dancers don't look that great from behind but may have nice tits. I go to strip clubs to see tits for the most part. Only about 1 percent of dancers do I care that much about looking at their rear up close. I get tired of some dancers copying others and trying to shake their ass when I want to see her tits. Oh well, I'm not planning on visiting that club too much anymore.
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Yep, that seems normal. And, at my favorite clubs the ass rules. Supposedly, in some cultures titties aren't even seen as sexual.
I'd rather see a dancer on stage massaging her breasts or rubbing a finer or two over her clit!
1. It allows me to ask her, "Come over and see me after you're done. I'd love to GET TO KNOW you better."
2. It answers the question of, will she or won't she allow some kind of physical contact of the more-than-just type? Sometimes I can just watch her set as she interacts with other customers to find this out.
Biggest let-down is when question 2 is answered in the affirmative by means of the stage set, but the negative when I get her into the back room. That's just plain ol' false advertising! I will DEFINITELY write her up on the internet, naming (stage) names and clubs. Otherwise, the stage is all about the preview of what's really to come.
1. It allows me to get a closer look at her. MANY times I've seen a really hot dancer on stage, only to find that up close she isn't quite as hot as I thought she was. That seems to be happening more frequently, lately. (maybe my eyes are going!)
2. It allows me to introduce myself to her (and VICE versa), and gives me an indication of how much - if any - chemistry exists between us (real or imagined).
3. It allows me to get a "nose check" of her. I make sure that her perfume isn't incredibly strong - especially if I'm going to be heading home after the visit. Also, I've encountered a few dancers that were a bit too oderific at the tip rail, so she HAS to smell clean, fresh and pleasant.
4. If all of the prerequisites have been met (1-3 above), and if I'm still interested, it allows me to invite her back to my table in order to get to know each other better. Typically, I'll tip according to how interested I am in her, taking into consideration how busy she is, how crowded it is, etc. My stage-side tips will usually be $5, at a minumum. ($1 just doesn't impress tell her that I'm interested, nor does it give her much hope to make money off of me). If I'm drooling over her and REALLY want her, I will stuff a $20 - that almost always works.
Here's a good example of the tip process at work; I recently saw a brunette on the stage, from across the room at BBF (my usual "perch"). She looked incredible from what I could tell... completely my type. She was wearing some sort of a fishnet top, which was also enticing to me. I ventured to the tip rail, only to see once she turned around that she was closer to a 6 than a 10, face-wise. Still, her body and hair was enough to hold my interest. When she came over to me, I immediately caught a whiff of something not-too-appealing. I tucked a George, but did NOT invite her back to my table and quickly dismissed her from my list.
A few other things to note. If I'm spending time with a fav dancer and for some reason she must appear on stage, I will definitely tip her at least once during her performance, just to keep her thinking about me, and to make her feel like SOME one is paying attention to her efforts. (usually, this is a $20 tip)
Lastly, I NEVER approach a dancer on the stage until she has removed at least her top. I'm not sure why - I'm really not a breast man, though I DO like those things! [wink] I guess I feel like I don't want to reward her for nothing... take off that top and get a "reward"!