Been seeing ladies off and on one on one a few times in the past and one one I remember was super fine. Didn't like so many people around me during these times and some girls are willing to prove they're covid-free. But OMG I spent $600 for an hour with a BAD chick (yes she had arm and ass tats but that's what I like), great outfit, great figure, hair makeup, the works. I wound up spending an extra $100 on drinks just to talk with her. I don't feel too regretful but instead of getting down and dirty, all we did was talk, drink and have a heavy makeout session with me rubbing and kissing all over her body. But nothing else. Looking bad I feel really stupid but not entirely regretful. ANd she didn't seem to make any inclination to get to the dirty deeds. I want to call her again but I'm not sure if I would make the same mistake twice. AND I saw her twitter saying she raised prices. Unsure if I could talk her down because I'm so used to just accepting or denying any woman's price that I deem acceptable.
Honestly, I'm not 100% sure what this post is about. But I'll give it a shot...
Regardless of how much you spent, if you had fun and it was worth it to you, then you spent your money well. What any of us would want for the same money doesn't matter. If you want more for the same money, then ask for more. If she says no, then move on.
“A thing is worth what someone is willing to pay for it; and someone is willing to accept for it.
No more, and no less.”
It is all inside your head, you wrote and I quote:
“I don't feel too regretful but instead of getting down and dirty, all we did was talk, drink and have a heavy makeout session with me rubbing and kissing all over her body.”
Was this a Instagram Model/escort “dinner date” or a sugar baby from Seeking Arrangements?
It seems to me you have buyers remorse for not getting more of what you did get.
Next time make sure you and her are on the same page about what you are paying for, length of time and specific services.
Either you can afford her or you can’t afford her.
Just accept that fact, “life is not fair, deal with it”
And if you do can afford her, remember; “Pics or it didn’t happen”
It was a model/escort. Don't think I'll ever understand the sugar baby/daddy world much.
Yeah I have buyer's remorse of sorts for not getting what we agreed upon though I can't say it wasn't fun either.
@call.me.ishmal wondering if I should go after her again since she raised her price even though there was no nookie as expected last time and she didn't bother to try. I don't negotiate these females prices....much. Only because it's their time and presense and can't put a price on personal preference
Well, if it's an escort, then it's only her job to be there and be available for "nookie", it's not her job to "try" to get you to fuck her. Most escorts will go where the customer leads them. And, if a customer doesn't move in that direction, they're just fine with collecting the cash and not having to fuck a stranger.
So, if you want to see her again, and you want sex, then at some point it's up to you signal that's what you want. And it shouldn't take much because, you know, it's an escort.
And you need to decide if the money is worth it or not. Most escorts that operate at a higher tier don't negotiate.
i find it real real hard to believe that someone spent his hard earned money for an escort and not get off. especially for $600-700.
but if it is true, then what's the point of your post exactly? you want some kind of affirmation for how you handled your situation? face the facts: you fucked up
Hate to say this but not everybody's money is hard-earned. I make a decent salary I don't break a sweat. Newly divorced and have a lot more disposable income I could see me spending $600, and not feel too regretful.
At one point in life I had a $1,000 a week strip club habit.
The vast majority of guys go to escorts for sex. But, there is a small percentage who go to escorts for some form of intimacy that doesn't involve sex. Which is why most escorts won't try to get a customer to do anything. They let the customer lead the way in terms of what they want and what they don't want. Sex is available, but they're perfectly happy to just cuddle or talk about the customer's day.
You had a good time with this girl. It didn’t lead to sex - but it sounds like you had a true GFE. There’s nothing wrong with enjoying that experience.
Since she’s raised her rate, that might open the door to negotiate a bit? If you connect via text - and you want to see her again - just let her know that you noticed she’s raised her price - and you’d enjoy seeing her again - and you want more. Don’t push. Just put it out there - and if she responds properly - give her a second try. If there’s no boom boom pow - then you know she’s not down for it.
In your dealings with Instagram Model/escorts remember:
“Nothing ventured, nothing gained”
A sexual/romantic/business pursuit often require to “risk” one of two situations:
1. pursuing when interest is not reciprocated (resulting in rejection)
2. failing to pursue when interest is-may be reciprocated (resulting in a missed opportunity).
You said you failed to pursue more of what you wanted and had agreed to, for fear of being rejected, and you missed the opportunity.
Remember that: “Technically, you are paying for the time and company of an escort.
Everything else hat happens between two consenting adults is not being paid for, became that would fall in the “illegal category”. And it is not part of the “legal” Arrangement/deal “
I generally I would tell the girl: “I want to make sweet love to the girl in the picture, and want her to show me what love is, make love to me like it is the last day of my life.”
Or something “romantic” along these lines.
In this day and age of #metoo, all women have the right to say NO at any time for any reason, so act accordingly.
In my humble opinion and limited experience, if you look like respectable, clean cut gentleman and are nice, funny, interesting (like the most interesting man in the world type for Dos Equis beer) and make her feel that she will be safe protected, provided, and comfortable with you, you could have a more than satisfactory experience at a reasonable price...
I have a policy of two strikes and you are out in most dealings with people and follow through, because life is too short.
@desertscrub sounds like someone is jealous they cant blow money and not think about it. Jealousy is the devil's hot sauce baby! It's ok bro, hard work bears fruit. Keep working hard BRUTHER, I believe in you friend!😉 and you too can have all the strippers and thots across your arms
“Yeah I have buyer's remorse of sorts for not getting what we agreed upon though I can't say it wasn't fun either. “
What stoped you from “getting what was agreed upon”?
Most people in today’s world know that an “Escort agency is a company that provides escorts for clients, usually for sexual services”
In the old days a female escort was a person, not always a sex worker, who was hired to spend time with another as a companion, but it now is more of a legal loophole.
“Under the law, an escort is very different than a prostitute. An escort agrees to either accompany a client to a social event or provide entertainment in exchange for money.
If an escort agrees to sexual conduct or even describes what sexual acts they might perform to their client, they could face the criminal charge of soliciting prostitution.”
In Los Angeles California escorts/Instagram models/pornstars etc, come in all shapes and sizes, from all over the world, I guess because many want to make it big in Hollywood/movies/porn/modeling etc.
And because the area, the prices for a high en escort can go from a hundreds to thousands of dollars, because many wealthy celebrities, business men, foreign royals, athletes, etc can afford it.
It is a well known fact that actor Charlie Sheen, at one time payed porn stars $30,000 a night each to hang out with him at his home, smoking crack cocaine and watching his old movies over and over.
In my humble opinion and limited experience a good high end escort that offers GFE in Beverly Hills is affordable if you are willing to spend the time and effort to make it happen, that is “How I found my All Time Favorite woman”, and wrote an article about my experience.
I use the phrase “Pics and Vids or it didn’t happen” like many do, primarily on online forums, stating that the person refuses to believe the thread creator's claim unless it is shown by a photograph or video for proof.
However Vids and pics can also be doctored.
Remember everything in TUSCL should be considered a work of fiction.
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Regardless of how much you spent, if you had fun and it was worth it to you, then you spent your money well. What any of us would want for the same money doesn't matter. If you want more for the same money, then ask for more. If she says no, then move on.
“A thing is worth what someone is willing to pay for it; and someone is willing to accept for it.
No more, and no less.”
It is all inside your head, you wrote and I quote:
“I don't feel too regretful but instead of getting down and dirty, all we did was talk, drink and have a heavy makeout session with me rubbing and kissing all over her body.”
Was this a Instagram Model/escort “dinner date” or a sugar baby from Seeking Arrangements?
It seems to me you have buyers remorse for not getting more of what you did get.
Next time make sure you and her are on the same page about what you are paying for, length of time and specific services.
Either you can afford her or you can’t afford her.
Just accept that fact, “life is not fair, deal with it”
And if you do can afford her, remember; “Pics or it didn’t happen”
:D
Yeah I have buyer's remorse of sorts for not getting what we agreed upon though I can't say it wasn't fun either.
@call.me.ishmal wondering if I should go after her again since she raised her price even though there was no nookie as expected last time and she didn't bother to try. I don't negotiate these females prices....much. Only because it's their time and presense and can't put a price on personal preference
So, if you want to see her again, and you want sex, then at some point it's up to you signal that's what you want. And it shouldn't take much because, you know, it's an escort.
And you need to decide if the money is worth it or not. Most escorts that operate at a higher tier don't negotiate.
i find it real real hard to believe that someone spent his hard earned money for an escort and not get off. especially for $600-700.
but if it is true, then what's the point of your post exactly? you want some kind of affirmation for how you handled your situation? face the facts: you fucked up
At one point in life I had a $1,000 a week strip club habit.
They collect the same money, regardless.
You had a good time with this girl. It didn’t lead to sex - but it sounds like you had a true GFE. There’s nothing wrong with enjoying that experience.
Since she’s raised her rate, that might open the door to negotiate a bit? If you connect via text - and you want to see her again - just let her know that you noticed she’s raised her price - and you’d enjoy seeing her again - and you want more. Don’t push. Just put it out there - and if she responds properly - give her a second try. If there’s no boom boom pow - then you know she’s not down for it.
I actually believe it's for best, but damn, they were fine.
In your dealings with Instagram Model/escorts remember:
“Nothing ventured, nothing gained”
A sexual/romantic/business pursuit often require to “risk” one of two situations:
1. pursuing when interest is not reciprocated (resulting in rejection)
2. failing to pursue when interest is-may be reciprocated (resulting in a missed opportunity).
You said you failed to pursue more of what you wanted and had agreed to, for fear of being rejected, and you missed the opportunity.
Remember that: “Technically, you are paying for the time and company of an escort.
Everything else hat happens between two consenting adults is not being paid for, became that would fall in the “illegal category”. And it is not part of the “legal” Arrangement/deal “
I generally I would tell the girl: “I want to make sweet love to the girl in the picture, and want her to show me what love is, make love to me like it is the last day of my life.”
Or something “romantic” along these lines.
In this day and age of #metoo, all women have the right to say NO at any time for any reason, so act accordingly.
In my humble opinion and limited experience, if you look like respectable, clean cut gentleman and are nice, funny, interesting (like the most interesting man in the world type for Dos Equis beer) and make her feel that she will be safe protected, provided, and comfortable with you, you could have a more than satisfactory experience at a reasonable price...
I have a policy of two strikes and you are out in most dealings with people and follow through, because life is too short.
Good luck and let us know what happens next.
And of course; pics or it didn’t happen.
:D
@CJK dont know about that fear part but I like
You wrote and I quote:
“Yeah I have buyer's remorse of sorts for not getting what we agreed upon though I can't say it wasn't fun either. “
What stoped you from “getting what was agreed upon”?
Most people in today’s world know that an “Escort agency is a company that provides escorts for clients, usually for sexual services”
In the old days a female escort was a person, not always a sex worker, who was hired to spend time with another as a companion, but it now is more of a legal loophole.
“Under the law, an escort is very different than a prostitute. An escort agrees to either accompany a client to a social event or provide entertainment in exchange for money.
If an escort agrees to sexual conduct or even describes what sexual acts they might perform to their client, they could face the criminal charge of soliciting prostitution.”
In Los Angeles California escorts/Instagram models/pornstars etc, come in all shapes and sizes, from all over the world, I guess because many want to make it big in Hollywood/movies/porn/modeling etc.
And because the area, the prices for a high en escort can go from a hundreds to thousands of dollars, because many wealthy celebrities, business men, foreign royals, athletes, etc can afford it.
It is a well known fact that actor Charlie Sheen, at one time payed porn stars $30,000 a night each to hang out with him at his home, smoking crack cocaine and watching his old movies over and over.
In my humble opinion and limited experience a good high end escort that offers GFE in Beverly Hills is affordable if you are willing to spend the time and effort to make it happen, that is “How I found my All Time Favorite woman”, and wrote an article about my experience.
https://tuscl.net/article.php?id=50809
I use the phrase “Pics and Vids or it didn’t happen” like many do, primarily on online forums, stating that the person refuses to believe the thread creator's claim unless it is shown by a photograph or video for proof.
However Vids and pics can also be doctored.
Remember everything in TUSCL should be considered a work of fiction.
Thank you for make me remember my ATF woman.
Be careful out there.