Club race problems?
Clubber
Florida
I was wondering if anyone has had problems in a club due to their race? A white guy in a black club, a black guy in a white club, or any other there might be. I've not seen a problem personally, so has it happened with others?
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In all honesty, the one time I went to an all-black club, they didn't seem to have a problem with me being there. In fact, I was not the only white guy there. Of course, being unfamiliar with the strip clubs of Minneapolis, I didn't know until I went in that it was a black club, but that's another story. The truth is, I think they will take anyone's money.
Also OTC is pretty much there for the taking, so if anything I have the opposite of "problems" in a black club.
Now, at a white club once I got very interested in an Asian dancer, but she wouldn't fuck me because I wasn't black - she only did black guys. So not quite what you were looking for, but racism takes some odd forms at times ;)
She was a hot little spinner too :(
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I have personally witnessed some racial discrimination, though. In particular, at HH in Kokomo. I've been told by more than one dancer that they are instructed not to dance for black guys. I've also seen black guys sitting there and getting about as much attention as a leper would get at an orgy.
What annoys me, is that there aren't any upscale black clubs around. If it's a predominantly African-American clientele and/or dancer harem, then it's a predominantly GHETTO group of people. White t-shirts, rap music, thinking Chivas is a high-class scotch because it comes in a purple bag, too much bling bling, anger at whitey. Don't black male doctors and lawyers go to strip clubs?
My favorite club has adopted a new policy of not hiring black dancers. Their club ethnicity info used to read mixed. Now it says white. Why? Drug trafficiting. Dancers that have been working there have grandfather rights and are not subject to firing. Black males are subject to dress codes. It is not spelled out but if you look like one of the boyz from the hood, you are not getting in. Clothes can hide drugs! The club fears a drug bust more than a prostitution one. And that is the only kind of investigation that the club has expierenced in the 6 years that I have been going there. I have had 3 favorite black dancers there. 2 of the 3 I have not seen for months and may be gone. They were both drug users. One did an OTC thing with me for $150. The last time I saw her ITC, 4 months ago she tried to get me off with a HJ. I didn't cum. She said "what stamina. If I was on a coke high, I would go back to your hotel room and fuck you all night. Free." The other always promised me that but never delivered. She had a weight problem but when she was on a coke diet, she would lose the pounds and really looked and felt good and always delivered a top lap dance ending in messy pants. The 3rd dancer is still working there. I don't think that she is a drug user. I have known her for years. She is probably pushing 40 and has the biggest natural tits that I know of. Nice personality and will make you cum, if you let her.
Now banning blacks has not eliminated drug trafficiting. One of my favorite white dancers is not only a user but also a dealer. I don't give a shit. As long as she continues to give me high mileage lap dances, I will continue to buy them.
A lot of what is said on this discussion board is about stripper shit and how they try to fuck us out of our money. I adhere to a live and let live policy. I'm going to miss some of them but am looking fore ward to their replacements.
I do sympathize with them for when they're dealing with members of recent immigrant communities. Hispanic day-laborers here in NOLa no doubt have a lot of cash to spend, more than they're used to, and are a long way from their families, some of them. If they politely ask at the bar what the prices are, and they aren't familiar with what you're "supposed to" pay in a strip club, they might not get the right impression, since "official" prices are wildly lower than "supposed to" prices. So they might think, "No cover, $6 beer, naked chicks, sounds good," and not realize there was "supposed to" also be $20 of stage-side tipping, $5 of table tipping when a dancer converses, try to buy one or two lappers at $40 each, don't keep a dancer occupied if you AREN'T going to buy a lapper. All those "rules" might be different in Monterrey or Nogales, but the Mexican guys wouldn't have been apprised of them. So dancers wrongly think they're cheap, when in fact many of them are just under-informed.
As more members of the Latino community get to be regular club-goers, the word will get 'round. Some of them will remain "cheap." Those are the cheapskates in the Latino community.
clubber: If you long for an Asian club, I have a suggestion for you. Give up bar hopping and drinking for a yr. Utilize that $$ saved, buy a round trip ticket to Japan. Just try to get into a "native" club (not an American "enclave" kind of place), and let me know if you have a new frame of reference for discrimination.
Jpac; See last sentence above, pls let me know what you find.
No problems on the race issue from me, reference dancers, staff, or other customers. I've been to my share of 'black clubs' and seem welcomed as one of the crowd by all.
But, it does seem that more "extras" are offered at most black clubs than white clubs. Not sure if it's true though, just my perspective.
We all discriminate, period. I know no one can prove otherwise, yet it is easy to prove they do.
I am never offensive and never attract attention to myself.
I know the bartenders and tip them consistently, not excessively, but consistently. The dancers know me so they tell each other I am ok, and not a cop so I tend to get some good mileage from new talent regularly.
I did have a pretty new girl become a regular because her friend told her I was a big shooter and she wanted to see How big she meant. First time I splashed a set of cans in the VIP. In my area the white and mixed clubs are pretty stuck up and cheapskates, rippoffs or police setups. I like the black clubs better.