"I was raped when I was 13..."
rickdugan
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...she tells me when we are chatting about her childhood. This among many other things she told me about her family, living situation, medical bills messing up her credit, etc. I've known this chick for a while and she shares a bit more about herself each time.
Now could this all be a pity hustle? Maybe. Is all of this true? Maybe not, but I suspect that enough of it is. But any way you slice it, this young lady has had a tough journey.
Anyone else hear stuff like this from their club favorites?
Now could this all be a pity hustle? Maybe. Is all of this true? Maybe not, but I suspect that enough of it is. But any way you slice it, this young lady has had a tough journey.
Anyone else hear stuff like this from their club favorites?
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Your relationship with her is primarily pay for play, and that type of extreme sharing isn’t something that puts anyone in the mood for sex.
She may feel very comfortable speaking to you and sharing. Or, she may be one of those folks who doesn’t have a filter once she starts talking.
It’s not easy to share things like that, and I don’t see it as an effective marketing story (if it’s a fictional story), so I’d think it’s true? But maybe she thinks pity will get her some money?
Besides, building rapport is exactly how I convert traditionally non-extras girls into OTC partners. Nothwithstanding the jaded and oversimplistic nature of ski's post, there is an kernel of truth in the notion that familiarity brings a greater understanding of a girl's motivations. With a young one with childhood issues, it's definitely about her wanting my approval - at some level- instead of believing that I want hers. Once that hurdle is cleared, which happens through quiet exchanges of stories, and she otherwise feels safe with me, opportunities tend to open up.
Personal stuff is part of doing business once you've made a girl cum enough times. Even if you're a client. If this type of sharing is happening before that level of intimacy is there, I dunno the others had some thoughts on that. Yeah I even used the "i" word. Looks weird to me, too.
On the other hand, another woman I know very well was also molested by various adults growing up, and she basically doesn't want any sex whatsoever, even totally vanilla.
So I imagine that the abuse itself is not the sole determining factor in whether or not you'll have a good time.
As to your larger point about story exchange leading to greater comfort, I couldn't agree more. It was one of the contribution factors that prompted her to see me OTC after months of "no".
It's a mood killer and I cut them off sooner at the expense of OTC chances. Don't put up w that level of drama.
NAAAASTY
FWIW, if you're going in with eyes open then vaya con dios. You've been in the hobby this long, crazy is as crazy does.
One favorite told me how she got in a wreck a few years ago, hurt her head and had to take some medicine which made her lose short term memory, so she couldn't hold a job. Her lesbian lover at the time danced and convinced her to go into stripping. They eventually broke up due to her lover being jealous that she was taking her regulars and making more money than her. Told me a whole other bunch of stuff, along the same line.
She was extremely flakey, but when in the right move gave the best dances at any of the area clubs.
Personally I believe in the individuality of everyone and it is interesting learning the stories, sad as they may be sometimes.
A story about a strippers boyfriend leaving her and taking her money - is a safer thing to try. So, I think most rape confessions are likely truthful or heavily based in truth.
No worries Mr. Anderson. I much prefer to counter pity hustles by offering "earning opportunities." After all, as the old expression goes:
𝑮𝒊𝒗𝒆 𝒂 𝒈𝒂𝒍 𝒂 𝒇𝒊𝒔𝒉, 𝒔𝒉𝒆 𝒆𝒂𝒕𝒔 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒂 𝒅𝒂𝒚. 𝑻𝒆𝒂𝒄𝒉 𝒂 𝒈𝒂𝒍 𝒕𝒐 𝒇𝒊𝒔𝒉 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒔𝒉𝒆 𝒆𝒂𝒕𝒔 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒂 𝒍𝒊𝒇𝒆𝒕𝒊𝒎𝒆.
I’m sure it was only because of the exorbitant Sesame Street rents.
"You're a hooker? Jesus I thought I was just doing great with you."