Why do a lot of guys online resent/dislike Sex Workers?
Beat100
Note: This is NOT my personal opinion, as I mentioned to you guys I was FWB with a dancer before.
I noticed that many guys online will
1-Have an intense dislike of women who post nude pictures.
2-Have a strong dislike of women who make money of onlyfans.
3-Calls any man who have money to have things like SB's "Simps"
4-Don't necessarily want to get laid but rather want to an emotional connection with one girl. Ideally for long term relationship.
5-Dislike women in general.
6-Want nothing to do with any liberal culture neither as a customer nor as a participant.
7-Make long post about "societal collapse"
8-Have an obsession with NoFap(Again there are many people who practice nofap but it seems there guys who want nothing to do with it.)
I noticed that many guys online will
1-Have an intense dislike of women who post nude pictures.
2-Have a strong dislike of women who make money of onlyfans.
3-Calls any man who have money to have things like SB's "Simps"
4-Don't necessarily want to get laid but rather want to an emotional connection with one girl. Ideally for long term relationship.
5-Dislike women in general.
6-Want nothing to do with any liberal culture neither as a customer nor as a participant.
7-Make long post about "societal collapse"
8-Have an obsession with NoFap(Again there are many people who practice nofap but it seems there guys who want nothing to do with it.)
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I appreciate your post. Like you said, "they are very vocal." If you go to any large website like youtube you will see guys making tons of videos if you say anything the breaks their sacred belief they will downvote you, Nofap is overrated. I'll watch porn every once in a while but I don't obsess over it. Among other topics.
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Young men resent young women for being the gatekeepers of sex. Young women have extremely high sexual value. At 18 or 19 the power level is tilted way in young women's favor.
Young men resent young women for selling sex to older men instead of giving it to them for free.
I'll admit I'm annoyed that so much of the sexual part of reddit is now overwhelmed by sellers.
What a horrible term. This term is supposed to be some sort of a positive in some way? It sounds so clinical as well as being inaccurate. Prostitutes, strippers, etc, don't just offer sex, they often provide affection, intimacy, companionship. Saying "sexworker" reduces the job to one aspect while ignoring the larger picture.
There are plenty of girls that sell sex that don't care for the intimacy/companionship aspect (hence why some say "no GFE", among other phrases"). Just stick your dick in, bust a nut, pay them, then go about your life. Do you think there is something morally wrong with that? To say that the term 'sex worker' isn't positive kinda implies that sex itself without strings or companionship (like one night stands or casual hookups) isn't positive.
Let the girls decide for themselves alone what they want to offer and whether they want to call themselves sex workers or not. It's all within the industry at the end of the day.
As to the original questions of the post, why ask why? The need to divide and label people is inherent to the human condition. Some people, and so very few, can feel comfortable with themselves and their social circle without rejecting and disparaging others. Someone once said if you put three people in a room, they will be picking sides within a day. Look what day it is, and look at the polarization we live with daily. Our children learn this mindset from the very beginning (and they have been since the very beginning of history). The internet and the denigration online sex workers is just another manifestation of the human need to divide and climb over each other to elevate ourselves.
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Great response man. I always wondered why these guys were always adamant on using any form of money even paying for a girl's drink. Slowly I realize most of this groups are filled with broke dudes, unemployed, young guys working at fast/food. It's annoying they have a loud voice online since they influence the perception of the average person who is not in their shoes. I remember, this PUA student paid $1000 for a bootcamp but he wouldn't pay for a girl's uber, since he read online you shouldn't do that. Unsurprisingly he didn't get laid.
Their boyfriends are probably the DJ, Drug dealer, Promoter, among another profession that might not be considered appealing for the average person but might be seen as exciting or high status in the girl's eyes. Ironically, it seems is the older guy "simps" who are doing the more alpha strategy of "hit it and quit it" as opposed to the younger guys who are stuck with the child support, alimony..etc.
Older men fare well with stripper hoes as evidenced by the numerous older men who get ITC or OTC with them
Its even how guys go to strip clubs and are cheap hyper judgmental assholes to girls. Because in real life they'd never do it and shed never give him the time of day.
Misogyny is a backlash to women's independence
As far as guys hating on sex workers and the like, it could be because of their religious/moral views on how women should behave. It could be that they stereotype sex workers based on bad experiences with them. The same way some people stereotype doctors, cops, lawyers, teachers or other professions based on their bad experiences.
The scenario you describe of a financially well off sex worker, without any pimp in the picture, is actually one of the ideal scenarios for sex worker clients. I dont see why anyone would hate a sex worker in that category unless they have some sort of traditional belief that a sex worker should have a pimp? Or a guy who is pissed he cant be possessive with that sex worker? If any sex worker deserves hate, its the ones who have pimps or boyfriend pimps. Theyre far more likely to be a scammer/robber, and almost guaranteed to provide poor service.