Why do a lot of guys online resent/dislike Sex Workers?

Why do you use sweeping generalizations as click bait, do you care, or are you just stirring a pot, for your own amusement.

I think the internet in general is a bastion for deviants like incels and misogynists. That said just like they're a small minority irl theyre a small but overly vocal minority online.

@Iceyloco
I appreciate your post. Like you said, "they are very vocal." If you go to any large website like youtube you will see guys making tons of videos if you say anything the breaks their sacred belief they will downvote you, Nofap is overrated. I'll watch porn every once in a while but I don't obsess over it. Among other topics.

**Why do a lot of guys resent/dislike online Sex Workers?

fixed.

^ Concur

I think you asked two interesting questions then went off the rails.

Young men resent young women for being the gatekeepers of sex. Young women have extremely high sexual value. At 18 or 19 the power level is tilted way in young women's favor.

Young men resent young women for selling sex to older men instead of giving it to them for free.

I'll admit I'm annoyed that so much of the sexual part of reddit is now overwhelmed by sellers.

Young women give sex for free. That's not an issue. It's men who can't get women who end up being resentful and contemptful.

As for no fap. Making an ideology out of not jerking off is idiotic.

^^ Funny you mention the current Reddit situation because several girls (including myself) that used to post on GW subreddits for the fun of it almost feel out of the 'circle' now with the huge influx of sellers. I've had several girls PM me in the past inviting me to various online sw support/boost groups or ask me how I could possibly contribute to them, and I'd go. "... I'd contribute nothing/I can't join because I'm a face-to-face SWer with no premium online platforms" and all of their responses to excuse themselves would all be awkward and almost judgemental in a way.

Why do you call prostitudes "sex workers."

What a horrible term. This term is supposed to be some sort of a positive in some way? It sounds so clinical as well as being inaccurate. Prostitutes, strippers, etc, don't just offer sex, they often provide affection, intimacy, companionship. Saying "sexworker" reduces the job to one aspect while ignoring the larger picture.

^ You know... if you didn't like your own comment, then you wouldn't have made it.

There are plenty of girls that sell sex that don't care for the intimacy/companionship aspect (hence why some say "no GFE", among other phrases"). Just stick your dick in, bust a nut, pay them, then go about your life. Do you think there is something morally wrong with that? To say that the term 'sex worker' isn't positive kinda implies that sex itself without strings or companionship (like one night stands or casual hookups) isn't positive.
Let the girls decide for themselves alone what they want to offer and whether they want to call themselves sex workers or not. It's all within the industry at the end of the day.

Could say. Never quite felt that way. LOVE ME SOME ME SEX WORKERS.

JamesSD says young women have extremely high sexual value and young men resent them using it for economic gain. I've noticed this in strip clubs where you sometimes see resentment among younger men that us older men are getting attention from the strippers. As an older guy, though, looking at things from the other side I see very attractive young women throwing away their prime years on loser boyfriends. By the age of thirty, many of them have three or four kids and it wasn't usually the older strip club customers getting to be the ones having sex with them and impregnating them.

There is nothing inherently problematic with calling sex workers "sex workers". Foodservice workers or healthcare workers or law enforcement all encompass entire industries with vastly differing sets of educational requirements and job responsibilities. For a long time, I had not considered strippers and cam girls as sex workers unless they were in direct physical contact with the client and causing climax. Now if you are doing that, you don't really get to reject the title of sex worker.

As to the original questions of the post, why ask why? The need to divide and label people is inherent to the human condition. Some people, and so very few, can feel comfortable with themselves and their social circle without rejecting and disparaging others. Someone once said if you put three people in a room, they will be picking sides within a day. Look what day it is, and look at the polarization we live with daily. Our children learn this mindset from the very beginning (and they have been since the very beginning of history). The internet and the denigration online sex workers is just another manifestation of the human need to divide and climb over each other to elevate ourselves.

I think you got two groups grinding at this. You got the incels who are just shit with women and should be ignored, up to the time when we put them down when they go on their spree shooting. Then you got the married simps. Their wives hate sex workers, so they do too. Their wives hate Trump so they do too. Basically spineless fucks that have no identity outside their wives and children. See also 'no hon I hate fake tits they're gross i like natural like yours!'

Broke fucks speak the loudest online, losers too. They can't get a gf nor afford to pay for one, so they lash out at those who can. Same guys bitch when someone pays >300 for FS or >100 for a BJ, it's a perceived raising the price these bottom dwellers can't afford. Funny how they're much more prevalent online than real life...

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@Nasty
Great response man. I always wondered why these guys were always adamant on using any form of money even paying for a girl's drink. Slowly I realize most of this groups are filled with broke dudes, unemployed, young guys working at fast/food. It's annoying they have a loud voice online since they influence the perception of the average person who is not in their shoes. I remember, this PUA student paid $1000 for a bootcamp but he wouldn't pay for a girl's uber, since he read online you shouldn't do that. Unsurprisingly he didn't get laid.

@docsavage

Their boyfriends are probably the DJ, Drug dealer, Promoter, among another profession that might not be considered appealing for the average person but might be seen as exciting or high status in the girl's eyes. Ironically, it seems is the older guy "simps" who are doing the more alpha strategy of "hit it and quit it" as opposed to the younger guys who are stuck with the child support, alimony..etc.

The men women want to fuck don't need to pay, but simply not paying doesn't make women want to fuck dude

Dave I mean CD. They fuck guys who can't get laid for money. Good customer service isn't affection but then your autistic ass can't discern social cues.

My wife is picking me up at the airport.

Beat djs are considered among the lowest tiers in the A trip club hierarchy. Not very appealing. Also most older men aren't rich and don't fare well with stripper hoes

^it might be whatever in your eyes but in many girls eyes it’s considered a cool high status profession. But when you need to desperately convince yourself girls are into you for your crazy good looks, you can continue pretending they dont care about money, status, fame, personality,

Older men fare well with stripper hoes as evidenced by the numerous older men who get ITC or OTC with them

Use to be generally accepted that success for a woman was being a tradwife to a good husband. It was considered more or less gender dysphoria for women to seek something else out of life. Over the years, that way of thinking has gradually grown less influential. Which, from a selfish point of view, is bad for most men. It gives an advantage to the 10 - 20% most attractive of men. Women are less afraid to blow their chance to be a tradwife, thus more willing to be down for an NSA hookup with an extra hot guy. For the other 80 - 90% of guys, at best, they have limited hookup opportunities, and the women interested in something committed with them generally expect a lot more than women use to. A happy, financial well-off, unashamed female sex worker (with no pimp) is the clearest manifestation of this change. Thus, the hate.

I think it has to do with the realization that she's only with him because he's paying.

Its even how guys go to strip clubs and are cheap hyper judgmental assholes to girls. Because in real life they'd never do it and shed never give him the time of day.

Misogyny is a backlash to women's independence

^^ilbbaicnl did you go to college/highschool? The idea that you need to be an “extra hot guy” to hook up with the hottest girls is laughable. Fame and/or social status makes up for all that and more. Did you not ever see a fat and ugly football player, baseball player or frat guy with a hot chick? Or a stick figure thin basketball player with the face of a donkey, with a hot girl?


As far as guys hating on sex workers and the like, it could be because of their religious/moral views on how women should behave. It could be that they stereotype sex workers based on bad experiences with them. The same way some people stereotype doctors, cops, lawyers, teachers or other professions based on their bad experiences.

The scenario you describe of a financially well off sex worker, without any pimp in the picture, is actually one of the ideal scenarios for sex worker clients. I dont see why anyone would hate a sex worker in that category unless they have some sort of traditional belief that a sex worker should have a pimp? Or a guy who is pissed he cant be possessive with that sex worker? If any sex worker deserves hate, its the ones who have pimps or boyfriend pimps. Theyre far more likely to be a scammer/robber, and almost guaranteed to provide poor service.