Of course, we’re sometimes too frickin’ drunk to know what the fuck is going on. But I’m sure they aren’t lying then either, ‘cause they know a lie would elicit some wildebeest action. ROAR!!!
Long term civilian relationships can last decades - and those relationships can feel like they’ve lasted hundreds of years.
It’s easy to tell a small lie to avoid an argument. I think some couples accept it as part of life. Nobody wants to hear they look fat in a new outfit.
The lies that are meaningful are the ones that will hurt when they resurface.
If she lies about meaningful issues to manipulate an outcome - that can be dangerous.
@Icey - you might get help, or sympathy, validation, or whatever it is you were looking for here if not for the fact that the community finds your trolling input so inspiring that 141 of us have decided that nothing you have to offer is worth seeing.
ok, you want a straight answer, here goes.
You get out of life what you put into life.
Frankly you haven’t put much into life.
You are uneducated, don’t have a job, and have childish fantasies about the future.
If you interact with her the way that you interact with people here, then you have told her quite a few lies too.
You are lied to because you deserve to be lied to.
Thank you for the few bits of insight. O was hoping for input from older men with experiences. Divorced men etc.
I think a lot of lies are about fear of the reaction the truth may incite. Sometimes it's based on past trauma. Its complex and doesn't make her a bad person sometimes. Its complex.
What woulda divorce lawyer know about people lying in a relationship after 38 years? More than all of you combined is the answer. Of course I am approaching 31 years with zero break ups in my own relationship.......
I dont know how this thread has 7 thumbs down, it's quite funny. 25 sounds grumpy as usual. Icey is not a troll, he just has some fucked up holier than thou judgmental views.
Ok here is some legit commentary. Ever seen the movie As Good As It Gets where Jack Nicholson is a famous author? In the movie someone asks him how he writes about women so well and he says (paraphrasing) 'It's simple. I think about a man. And take away reason and accountability.'
Woman lie Even about mundane things Because emotions are fleeting and they change moment to moment. They ‘Re just going by whatever they feel at the time.
I found women to be the most truthful when your the other guy.. meaning you banging someone’s wife or GF. Which I don’t recommend because it brings extremely bad karma and can get you killed or fucked up.
There is lying and then there is LYING. Lying is being pleased some stranger found you sexy. LYING is fucking the stranger. The one thing I would advise people who cheat )other than to not get caught) is to never confess unless at least 100 people know you did it. If you feel guilty ....tough shit ....your fault ....don't dump it on the other person or rub it in their face, because no matter what they say; they don't want to know.
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2. The question is just as viable if you switch the genders, isn't it?
Why is this just pointed out that female are the ones who act this way?
Lol
Maybe she lies bc he is a double standard dbag, so its sick of it being do as I say and not as I do type of bullshit ?!?!
But feel free to add some fun reasons to the list. I know that a icey is going to love this.
Of course, we’re sometimes too frickin’ drunk to know what the fuck is going on. But I’m sure they aren’t lying then either, ‘cause they know a lie would elicit some wildebeest action. ROAR!!!
Do you think she was lyin’ to this lion? I don’t think so!
Wait, let me guess, she wasn’t being honest when she said that lots of people can’t figure out how to delete profile photos.
It’s easy to tell a small lie to avoid an argument. I think some couples accept it as part of life. Nobody wants to hear they look fat in a new outfit.
The lies that are meaningful are the ones that will hurt when they resurface.
If she lies about meaningful issues to manipulate an outcome - that can be dangerous.
ok, you want a straight answer, here goes.
You get out of life what you put into life.
Frankly you haven’t put much into life.
You are uneducated, don’t have a job, and have childish fantasies about the future.
If you interact with her the way that you interact with people here, then you have told her quite a few lies too.
You are lied to because you deserve to be lied to.
Stoned and stupid is no way to go through life.
But, then you analyze the situation. In her line of work - she sees lots of dicks - so she has seen enough dick to recognize a big one.
But, you are the customer, and she wants that money - and a tip (no not that tip!). So, she might not be honest.
Enjoy the compliment - even if it’s from a crack addicted dumpster diving truck stop whore!
I think a lot of lies are about fear of the reaction the truth may incite. Sometimes it's based on past trauma. Its complex and doesn't make her a bad person sometimes. Its complex.
Ok here is some legit commentary. Ever seen the movie As Good As It Gets where Jack Nicholson is a famous author? In the movie someone asks him how he writes about women so well and he says (paraphrasing) 'It's simple. I think about a man. And take away reason and accountability.'
I found women to be the most truthful when your the other guy.. meaning you banging someone’s wife or GF. Which I don’t recommend because it brings extremely bad karma and can get you killed or fucked up.