These smaller areas that dislike the nearby larger areas
There are two clubs in particular that I am thinking of that is like this...
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I’ve been getting a kick out of some of these attitudes lately at my home club recently.
For context, lately I’ve been at a cheers bar club that is part of the Denver metro area but away from a lot of stuff. But it’s a lot more spacious and friendly up here, and according to an Allstate report in 2019, Thornton is the 30th safest driving city while Denver is 83rd. Huge difference for two areas that are only like 15 miles away.
I initially found out about this club for the same reason nearly any other dancer has found out about it: it’s the club anyone with an out-of-state license is going to default to. The “natives” who hang out here, however, don’t ever really have any problems with travelers and will proudly talk about how much they love their club online. One reason I suspect is just that it’s so regulars-centric, and once you’re “set” here it doesn’t matter how many other girls are in the room if you have your customers to focus on, so it’s hardly ever bitchy here.
I personally like that it’s the travel default club, and I hear a lot of gossip and random tidbits about places in other regions because of that. It will be nice being able to get a few pointers of places to try in the future...whenever the heck that is. And I’ve never heard one negative comment about outsiders from any dancer.
But recently two clubs in south Denver have been shut down, and a bunch of dancers have been migrating up here. And THAT is where I am hearing the negativity. I remember talking to this one dancer that hopefully the other clubs open back up soon so that management is less on edge with enforcing certain mask rules. One other dancer rolled her eyes and said she hopes the clubs open back up so that the dancers can gtfo.
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The second club I’m thinking about is in the twin cities. Once again another region that is notorious for its dislike of travel dancers. And any dancer who is visiting from elsewhere is going to default over to a club in Inver Grove Heights, a suburb of St Paul. Where they have no problems with what state is on your drivers license.
I remember getting a giant kick out of the contempt dancers, customers, and staff members all had of downtown Minneapolis, where most of the clubs are concentrated. As far as everyone was concerned, downtown Minneapolis was a wild free-for-all brothel. If you live out there, I get the impression you have to choose between that club vs downtown because if anybody figures out you work downtown, you might be asked to leave.
The longer I stayed there, the dancers went from friendly towards me to even friendlier. It’s a very “family-like” club. It’s the kind of place a girl will literally collect her state tips after a set, dump it in a pile nearby her stuff on the table in the dressing room, leave it openly sitting there, and run back out on the floor to go do dances.
No idea why. If they judged and disliked downtown Minneapolis for being a brothel, I couldn’t understand the warm attitude towards me, when I openly said I was from Texas. Texas is absolutely ridden with extras all over the state. Some girls don’t even have the discretion to take it to the VIP areas. 😅
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I like both clubs I’ve mentioned. But no denying the strangeness I don’t understand.
Anyone else know of areas with that kind of attitude? Where it’s all warm and “yeah outsiders are cool...except for these fuckers down the road”
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I’ve been getting a kick out of some of these attitudes lately at my home club recently.
For context, lately I’ve been at a cheers bar club that is part of the Denver metro area but away from a lot of stuff. But it’s a lot more spacious and friendly up here, and according to an Allstate report in 2019, Thornton is the 30th safest driving city while Denver is 83rd. Huge difference for two areas that are only like 15 miles away.
I initially found out about this club for the same reason nearly any other dancer has found out about it: it’s the club anyone with an out-of-state license is going to default to. The “natives” who hang out here, however, don’t ever really have any problems with travelers and will proudly talk about how much they love their club online. One reason I suspect is just that it’s so regulars-centric, and once you’re “set” here it doesn’t matter how many other girls are in the room if you have your customers to focus on, so it’s hardly ever bitchy here.
I personally like that it’s the travel default club, and I hear a lot of gossip and random tidbits about places in other regions because of that. It will be nice being able to get a few pointers of places to try in the future...whenever the heck that is. And I’ve never heard one negative comment about outsiders from any dancer.
But recently two clubs in south Denver have been shut down, and a bunch of dancers have been migrating up here. And THAT is where I am hearing the negativity. I remember talking to this one dancer that hopefully the other clubs open back up soon so that management is less on edge with enforcing certain mask rules. One other dancer rolled her eyes and said she hopes the clubs open back up so that the dancers can gtfo.
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The second club I’m thinking about is in the twin cities. Once again another region that is notorious for its dislike of travel dancers. And any dancer who is visiting from elsewhere is going to default over to a club in Inver Grove Heights, a suburb of St Paul. Where they have no problems with what state is on your drivers license.
I remember getting a giant kick out of the contempt dancers, customers, and staff members all had of downtown Minneapolis, where most of the clubs are concentrated. As far as everyone was concerned, downtown Minneapolis was a wild free-for-all brothel. If you live out there, I get the impression you have to choose between that club vs downtown because if anybody figures out you work downtown, you might be asked to leave.
The longer I stayed there, the dancers went from friendly towards me to even friendlier. It’s a very “family-like” club. It’s the kind of place a girl will literally collect her state tips after a set, dump it in a pile nearby her stuff on the table in the dressing room, leave it openly sitting there, and run back out on the floor to go do dances.
No idea why. If they judged and disliked downtown Minneapolis for being a brothel, I couldn’t understand the warm attitude towards me, when I openly said I was from Texas. Texas is absolutely ridden with extras all over the state. Some girls don’t even have the discretion to take it to the VIP areas. 😅
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I like both clubs I’ve mentioned. But no denying the strangeness I don’t understand.
Anyone else know of areas with that kind of attitude? Where it’s all warm and “yeah outsiders are cool...except for these fuckers down the road”
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Tampa, Florida: $20 admission, $5 water (no alcohol served), nude but lower mileage dances and high pressure sales tactics and emphasis on make it rain and tip everyone in club.
On the plus side now I know that if I choose to go to my nephew's wedding in Minnesota later this year that it won't be all bad since I learned that "downtown Minneapolis was a wild free-for-all brothel." I'm just not sure that is worth going to Minnesota in mid-December.
It’s probably the suburbs saying the city is filthy - and the city saying the suburbs are backwards and don’t have any teeth...
First club was Diamond Dolls on Madison Avenue. That became my favorite club in the area to work for a couple years that followed. The neighborhood that it was in was extremely shady. The homeless, dope dealers, and street walkers along with their pimps were all doing their business in the plain sight outside the club. The management would get extremely territorial over their top girls, and if they found out they danced at any of the clubs on the beachside of town while also dancing at DD, they would get berated to fuck. They didn't care what the low hustle or least attractive girls did while not on shift - only the best girls. Thankfully, with me coming from out of town, I wasn't in Daytona long enough for them to "track me" so to speak.
Then at some point, I was invited to dance at Molly Browns. Over by the beaches, well populated and diverse, no where near as many scary characters hanging around in the open. Complete coin flip in scenery. The club itself was gorgeous and management was laid back. The dancer that referred me introduced me to the manager and said she "rescued me" from Diamond Dolls, and he laughed and said I owed her my life. Then I meet the DJ and he asked me where I danced before and I told him DDs. He just looked at me and said "don't tell the other girls that right away, okay?" I just shrug it off and get to work.
But somehow word manage to get to the girls anyway that I used to work there, and the conversation felt extremely passive aggressive in the locker room. "It's a good thing you came here! That club is a trap house. Not a single girl in there that DOESN'T suck or fuck for chump change or a bump of coke!" Even though I remained friendly when I was spoken to, it was obvious that the majority of the girls (save for a handful along with the girl that asked me to come dance there) were NOT happy I was there. It was probably the only club I've worked at where I felt quietly unwelcomed from the start. That by itself wasn't a big deal, but making money there was stupidly hard. I lasted there 3 days tops, said fuck it, and went back to DD.
I shared my terrible experience with the DD girls and all of them vouched in to say that Molly's is prejudice as fuck to any clubs outside the beach area - especially DD.
Those were good times.
Does that mean you’re not too fond of the clubs on Adamo? I’m sure I can check your reviews for the answer but eeh not right now.
@whodey nice story. That def seems like interesting beef there. 😅 as far as downtown clubs, I am doubtful it’s just as wild as was said. There’s also apparently a Madison at Downtown Cabaret who gives airdances in VIP.
@eve Holy hell, I didn’t realize club politics were like that out there. Like you, I tried out Molly Browns and only lasted three shifts. Liked the club facilities and staff but wow worst customers of ANYWHERE. The part that pisses me off was the deadweight customers don’t even have the decent to sit at one of the many tables against the wall. Nope, they sit their butts at stage and don’t do anything. Wish the club would enforce a $2/song policy for something because that’s just infuriating. And I don’t get the impression it’s too clean either because when customers pitch OTC they are *very* confident in how they ask.
From the sounds of it, Diamond Dolls is at least somewhat less shitty? That is some weird snobbery there
@blah yeah just based on the reviews on this site, I don’t really believe it either. And in the rooms there is contact but no tits and ass touching. And don’t put anything in the customer’s face either.
@cash possibly? Not sure. But girls from any other big area aren’t really judged.
I never knew downtown MSP was a "brothel" everytime I was there no extras at all. The club you mentioned does have a "home" vibe even for the client/customer. Laid back attitudes and always friendly.